So Hard
Honeymoon Suite Lyrics


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This house gets a little darker now
Each time you've gone away
We got used to something, forget the blame
I look around, and I might as well be
One foot out the door, in your memory
Where I, where I used to be

How could you be so hard?
You're runnin' away with my heart
Everything I should be
How could ya be so...
How could ya be so hard?

You ain't the easy answer
That I thought you were
When you wait for somethin,
It never returns
I look around, but I don't see
All that anymore
Where we
Where we used to be

How could you be so hard?
You're running away with my heart




You don't know what you got
How could you be so hard?

Overall Meaning

The song "So Hard" by Honeymoon Suite highlights the singer's longing for someone who seems to have left them in the past. They struggle to adjust to life without their partner, as their house seems to grow darker with each passing day. Despite their attempts to forget the past and move on, they are constantly reminded of their lost love. The singer feels as though they are one foot out the door, unable to fully move on from the memory of their partner.


The chorus of the song repeats the question, "How could you be so hard?" This question speaks to the frustration and confusion the singer feels toward their partner. The lyrics suggest that their partner must have done something to hurt them, causing them to run away with the singer's heart. Despite this pain, the singer still longs for their partner and doesn't understand why they had to be so cold.


Line by Line Meaning

This house gets a little darker now
The environment seems to be less cheerful whenever you're not around.


Each time you've gone away
Your absence has become a frequent occurrence and every time you leave, it hurts.


We got used to something, forget the blame
We've settled to a dynamic where you keep leaving but we both choose to ignore the fact that it's not ideal.


I look around, and I might as well be
Looking at the place we used to share, but it no longer feels like home without you there.


One foot out the door, in your memory
Even though you're not physically present, your memory constantly reminds me that you're always on your way out.


Where I, where I used to be
The person I used to be before this back and forth with you is no longer recognizable.


How could you be so hard?
I'm struggling to understand why you can't stay and make things work.


You're runnin' away with my heart
Your constant departures are causing emotional turmoil and making it hard to maintain a connection.


Everything I should be
I'm trying to keep things together, but your repeated departures are making it difficult.


How could ya be so...
It's frustrating and confusing to not know why this pattern of leaving keeps happening.


You ain't the easy answer
You were supposed to be a solution to my problems, but instead, you've become a source of confusion and pain.


That I thought you were
I had hoped things would be different between us.


When you wait for somethin,
Waiting for you to come back only seems to make the whole process of you leaving hurt more.


It never returns
You always seem to leave and never stay for good, regardless of how hard I try.


I look around, but I don't see
Looking at the place we shared no longer has the same luster it used to before you started leaving all the time.


All that anymore
Things have changed too much, and it no longer seems possible to get back to how things used to be.


You don't know what you've got
You don't realize how deeply your leaving affects me and how much you mean to me.


How could you be so hard?
The constant cycle of your departure and return is taking a toll on me, and I don't understand why you can't stay.




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