The Way I Do
Honeymoon Suite Lyrics


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She was a California born and raised into a life she should a had
She was perfect in any light with an open heart and an open mind
In the beat of a heart it all would change
The fragile shell of a life would break

How do I get to you, so I can say to you I hear you're flyin, slowly dyin'
And if there's somethin' that you've been missin'
Just let somebody love you the way I do

Well you know that she really tried to change the ways
That ripped her deep inside
But every time the words would fall on the deafened ears
Of those who made her high




In the beat of a heart it all would change
Forever gone forever that way

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Honeymoon Suite's The Way I Do speak to the experience of someone who has had a difficult life, particularly someone who has suffered from addiction or abuse. The singer describes a woman who was born and raised in California with all the privileges that should come with that, but who has been led astray by her circumstances. Despite her struggles, she is described as perfect with an open heart and an open mind, suggesting that the faults in her life are not her own. The lyrics seem to imply that she has tried to change her life, but has been held back by those around her who have not given her the help and support she needs.


The chorus of the song provides a message of hope and comfort to the woman in question. The singer wants to find a way to reach her so that he can tell her that he knows what she's going through, and that he loves her in spite of her struggles. He tells her that if there's something she's been missing, she should let somebody love her the way he does. The song takes on a melancholy, bittersweet tone, as though the singer knows that the woman he's singing about is unlikely to find the help she needs. The lyrics seem to suggest that love and support are not enough to overcome the obstacles that prevent people from living their best lives.


Overall, The Way I Do is a powerful, emotionally charged song that speaks to the struggles of many people who have experienced difficult lives. The lyrics are evocative and moving, and the melody has a haunting quality that reinforces the song's themes of loss and regret.


Line by Line Meaning

She was a California born and raised into a life she should a had
She grew up in California, but did not have the life she truly deserved


She was perfect in any light with an open heart and an open mind
Despite her circumstances, she remained pure-hearted and open-minded


In the beat of a heart it all would change
Things could change suddenly and drastically


The fragile shell of a life would break
Her life was fragile and could shatter easily


How do I get to you, so I can say to you I hear you're flyin, slowly dyin'
I want to reach out to you and let you know that I understand that you're struggling and need help


And if there's somethin' that you've been missin'
I know that you're missing something important in your life


Just let somebody love you the way I do
Allow someone to love and care for you deeply, like I do


Well you know that she really tried to change the ways
She attempted to change her situation and improve her life


That ripped her deep inside
But those efforts took a toll on her emotionally


But every time the words would fall on the deafened ears
Unfortunately, the people around her did not listen or understand


Of those who made her high
The people who were causing her pain were the ones who made her feel good at times


Forever gone forever that way
Her situation became permanent and unchangeable




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MELISSA ETHERIDGE

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