If You'd Really Know Me
Hooverphonic Lyrics


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Caught in my troubled mind
I don't know how to talk
My head is slowly closing every lock
Why do you want me to become something I'm not?
'Cause I won't comply with every thought

Sometimes I love to be on my own
Makes me forget about the mess
That you tend to create inside my head
But when you're gone I'm in distress
If you'd really know me
You would sing a different song
If you'd really know me
You wouldn't leave me alone
When I need you the most

We were caught by a killer wave
Of drunken hazy words
We were drowning in a sea of emotional dirt
But in the end, we were saved by common sense
But in the end, you finally got what I meant

Sometimes I love to be on my own
Makes me forget about the mess
That you tend to create inside my head
But when you're gone I'm in distress
If you'd really know me
You would sing a different song
If you'd really know me
You wouldn't leave me alone
If you'd really know me
You would sing a different song
If you'd really know me




You wouldn't leave me alone
When I need you the most

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Hooverphonic's song "If You'd Really Know Me" explore the struggles of communication and being understood in a relationship. The singer is caught in their troubled mind and struggles to articulate their thoughts and feelings to their partner, who seems to want the singer to be someone they're not. Despite wanting to be alone to escape the chaos in their head, the singer also feels distress when their partner is not around. The chorus emphasizes that if the partner truly knew the singer, they would treat them differently and be there for them when they need them most.


The verse about being caught in a "killer wave" of "drunken hazy words" may suggest that the two were arguing or fighting while under the influence. While they were able to salvage their relationship with "common sense," the singer is still left feeling misunderstood and alone. The line "you tend to create inside my head" shows that the singer may feel like their partner's words and expectations are causing them to doubt themselves and their identity.


Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of frustration and yearning for understanding in a relationship. The singer feels like they are not being seen for who they truly are, and wishes their partner would accept them as they are.


Line by Line Meaning

Caught in my troubled mind
I'm feeling overwhelmed and anxious


I don't know how to talk
I find it difficult to express myself


My head is slowly closing every lock
I'm feeling closed off and isolated


Why do you want me to become something I'm not?
I feel like you're trying to change me


'Cause I won't comply with every thought
I won't blindly follow your every idea


Sometimes I love to be on my own
Being alone is a way for me to cope


Makes me forget about the mess
It helps me escape from the chaos in my mind


That you tend to create inside my head
Your actions and words can be overwhelming for me


But when you're gone I'm in distress
Being alone for too long can also be painful


If you'd really know me
If you truly understood me


You would sing a different song
Your behavior towards me would change


You wouldn't leave me alone
You would offer me support and companionship


We were caught by a killer wave
We were overwhelmed by our emotions


Of drunken hazy words
Our communication was muddled and unclear


We were drowning in a sea of emotional dirt
Our relationship was being suffocated by negative feelings


But in the end, we were saved by common sense
We were able to resolve our issues using rational thinking


But in the end, you finally got what I meant
You were able to understand my perspective


When I need you the most
During my times of greatest need




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Alex Maria Johan Callier, Charlotte Helene M Foret

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