If This Is It
Huey Lewis Lyrics


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I've been phoning night and morning
I heard you say tell him I'm not home
Now you're confessing, but I'm still guessing
I've been your fool for so so long
Girl don't lie, just to save my feelings
Girl don't cry, and tell me nothing's wrong
Girl don't try to make up phony reasons
I'd rather leave than never believe

If this is it, please let me know
If this ain't love, you'd better let me go
If this is it, I want to know
If this ain't love baby, just say so

You've been thinking
And I've been drinking
We both know that it's just not right
Now you're pretending
That it's not ending
You'll say anything to avoid a fight
Girl don't lie, and tell me that you need me
Girl don't cry, and tell me nothing's wrong
I'll be alright one way or another
So let me go, or make we want to stay

If this is it, please let me know
If this ain't love, you'd better let me go
If this is it, I want to know
If this ain't love baby, just say so

If this is it, please let me know
If this ain't love, you'd better let me go
If this is it, I want to know
If this ain't love baby, just say so

If this is it, please let me know (I wanna know)
If this is it, please let me know (I gotta know), ooh
If this is it (you better let me go) please let me know, ooh (just say so)




If this is it, please let me know, ooh
If this is it, please let me know, ooh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “If This Is It” by Huey Lewis portray a failing relationship, in which the singer has been trying to save it by making constant attempts to reach his partner, who has been ignoring him. The song talks about the realisation that sometimes relationships come to an end, and how it’s better to be honest about it than to pretend otherwise just to avoid a confrontation.


The song starts off with the singer admitting he has been calling his partner night and morning, only to hear his partner say she isn’t home. But now, his partner is admitting that the relationship has gone sour and is ending. The singer, however, still has doubts about her confession and is unsure if it is the truth or if she is trying to avoid a fight. He asks her not to lie and say she needs him, instead of being honest that their relationship is ending. He states that he would rather know the truth, even if it means he has to leave, than remain in a relationship that isn’t love.


The chorus of “If This Is It” implies that the singer wants closure and for his partner to inform him, without any discrepancy, if their relationship is over. He asks her to let him know if there’s no love left, so he can walk away. He doesn’t want to stay in a relationship which no longer holds any meaning for either of them, and he would rather know the truth than to continue clinging to a lifeless relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been phoning night and morning
I have been calling you constantly, day and night


I heard you say 'tell him I'm not home'
I overheard you avoiding my calls by telling someone to lie for you


Now you're confessing, But I'm still guessing
You are admitting the truth, but I am still uncertain about it


I've been your fool for so so long
I have been foolishly in love with you for a long time


Girl don't lie, just to save my feelings
Please don't lie to protect my feelings


Girl don't cry, and tell me nothing's wrong
Please don't cry and pretend that everything is fine when it's not


Girl don't try to make up phony reasons
Don't make up fake excuses


I'd rather leave than never believe
I would rather leave than stay with someone I cannot trust


If this is it, please let me know
If our relationship is ending, please tell me now


If this ain't love you'd better let me go
If this isn't love, it's time for us to part ways


If this is it, I want to know
If our relationship is coming to an end, I want to know for sure


If this ain't love baby, just say so
If this isn't love, be honest and tell me now


You've been thinking
You've been contemplating our relationship


And I've been drinking
I have been drinking to avoid dealing with our problems


We both know that it's just not right
We both know that our relationship is not healthy


Now you're pretending
You are pretending that everything is fine


That it's not ending
That our relationship is not coming to an end


You'll say anything to avoid a fight
You will say whatever it takes to avoid a confrontation


Girl don't lie, and tell me that you need me
Don't lie to me and say that you still need me if you don't mean it


I'll be alright one way or another
I will be okay regardless of the outcome of our relationship


So let me go, or make we want to stay
Either let me go or give me a reason to stay




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Huey Lewis, John Victor Colla

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@RedstoneRecords

Song so catchy most people don't listen to the lyrics

@christosstamato527

True. This is actually a rather sad song, despite the Beach Boys-like doo wop harmonies and the melodic guitar by Chris Hayes.

Hell, Hayes' solo can make a grown dude cry and Huey knocked it out of the park! Probably his greatest (and one of the most emotive) vocal performance to date!


On a side note, I do agree Mr Bateman. And no, their masterpiece most likely wasn't 'Hip To Be Square'!

@BruceBowman42

@Chris Stamato One of the best leads ever.

@king_reynolds1879

Their early work was a little too new wave for my tastes, but when Sports came out in '83, I think they really came into their own, commercially and artistically. The whole album has a clear, crisp sound, and a new sheen of consummate professionalism that really gives the songs a big boost. He's been compared to Elvis Costello, but I think Huey has a far more bitter, cynical sense of humor.

@matmac888

@Jay Bird Hey Paul !!!!

@lordcarty

@Jay Bird 😆😆

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@bleep77

There are certain 80’s songs that give me an overwhelmingly painful and bittersweet sense of nostalgia. This is definitely one of them

@FeCr3

Ohhh yes..... : .(

@shantiharris7005

So true!

@davidwright4495

I said the same thing in. This one and a few others from the 80's.

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