Lessons to be Learned
I Against I Lyrics


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I guess I'm really not that smart 'cause if I was I would have seen it all form the start. you kept repeating "I'm in love." you just never said that it's not me you were thinking of. but now you're gone and I feel bad 'cause you didn't care about me. love is something we never had 'cause you never cared about me.... and there's al lesson that I've learned. play with fire and you'll get burned.... I guess I'm really not that bright 'cause if I was I would have seen you'd changes overnight. you came to me all nice and sweet. and I was dumb enough to throw myself at your feet. but now you're gone I feel betrayed 'cause you didn't care about me. thinking of all the games you played 'cause you never cared about me. and you'll get burned like I got burned. I guess I'm really not that smart 'cause if I was I would have seen it all from the start.... and now you're gone and I feel relieved 'cause you didn't care about me. I can't believe I ever grieved 'cause you never cared about me.




Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 'Lesson to Be Learned' by I Against I are about heartbreak and the lessons that one learns from a failed relationship. The singer finds himself feeling foolish for not having seen the warning signs from the beginning of the relationship. He acknowledges that his partner repeated that she was in love, but failed to mention that it wasn't with him. The singer is haunted by the fact that he was dispensable to his partner, and that love was never a part of their relationship.


The 'lesson to be learned' is that playing with fire will get you burned, which is exactly what happened to the singer in this case. He also acknowledges that he was blinded by his infatuation with his partner, and didn't see her true intentions until it was too late. The betrayal he feels is palpable, but he also feels relieved that the relationship is over and he can move on with his life.


The song is relatable to anyone who has experienced heartbreak and learned the hard way that not everyone has the best intentions. The lyrics are poignant and expressive, conveying the pain, confusion, and anger that often comes with a breakup.


Line by Line Meaning

I guess I'm really not that smart 'cause if I was I would have seen it all form the start.
I admit that I lack intelligence and perceptiveness because I failed to notice your true intentions from the beginning.


You kept repeating "I'm in love." You just never said that it's not me you were thinking of.
You verbally expressed your love, but left out the vital detail that you were not in love with me.


But now you're gone and I feel bad 'cause you didn't care about me. Love is something we never had 'cause you never cared about me....
I am experiencing regret because you never had any true affection towards me, and subsequently our relationship lacked any genuine love.


And there's a lesson that I've learned. Play with fire and you'll get burned....
I have come to the realization that taking risks without considering the consequences may lead to harmful outcomes.


I guess I'm really not that bright 'cause if I was I would have seen you'd changes overnight.
I must not have been very astute as I failed to notice your sudden and significant changes in behavior.


You came to me all nice and sweet. And I was dumb enough to throw myself at your feet.
You presented yourself in a kind and pleasant manner, and I naively fell for your facade.


But now you're gone I feel betrayed 'cause you didn't care about me. Thinking of all the games you played 'cause you never cared about me.
I am feeling the pain of betrayal knowing that you were only playing games with me and never genuinely cared for me.


And you'll get burned like I got burned. I guess I'm really not that smart 'cause if I was I would have seen it all from the start....
You too will experience the negative consequences of your actions, just as I have, and I recognize that I should have been more perceptive from the start.


And now you're gone and I feel relieved 'cause you didn't care about me. I can't believe I ever grieved 'cause you never cared about me.
Now that you are absent from my life, I am able to recognize that I was grieving over someone who never truly cared about me.




Lyrics © SONY ATV MUSIC PUB LLC, SPIRIT MUSIC GROUP, WRITE BY THE SEA SONGS
Written by: ALAN RICH, DOROTHY SEA GAZELEY, MARSHA MALAMET

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Eduardo Mendes

what year was that?

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