I'm Not That Girl
Idina Menzel Lyrics


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Hands touch, eyes meet
Sudden silence, sudden heat
Hearts leap in a giddy whirl
He could be that boy

But I'm not that girl
Don't dream too far
Don't lose sight of who you are
Don't remember that rush of joy
He could be that boy
I'm not that girl

Every so often we long to steal
To the land of what-might-have-been
But that doesn't soften the ache we feel
When reality sets back in

Blithe smile, lithe limb
She who's winsome, she wins him
Gold hair with a gentle curl
That's the girl he chose
And heaven knows
I'm not that girl

Don't wish don't start
Wishing only wounds the heart
I wasn't born for the rose and pearl
There's a girl I know




He loves her so
I'm not that girl

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “I’m Not That Girl” from the musical, Wicked, performed by Idina Menzel, express the raw emotions of unrequited love. The song begins with a description of the first romantic encounter between the singer and a guy. The sudden silence and heat palpable between them instills a giddy whirl. However, in the next verse, she admits that she is not the girl he wants. She urges herself not to dream too far or lose sight of who she is, and not to remember the rush of joy that came with that romantic encounter. She knows that the boy she met could be that boy, but she is not that girl that he wants.


The second verse delves further into her pain, describing someone else who wins the boy’s heart. The girl he chooses has blithe smiles, lithe limbs, gold hair with a gentle curl, and is winsome. Despite her beauty, the singer affirms that she doesn’t possess the same qualities. She recognizes that she was not born for the rose and pearl, acknowledging that the boy loves another girl more than he could ever love her. The finality of her unrequited love is evident from her conclusion: “I'm not that girl.”


Line by Line Meaning

Hands touch, eyes meet
Two people make physical and visual contact


Sudden silence, sudden heat
The moment is intense and overwhelming


Hearts leap in a giddy whirl
Both individuals feel dizzy and emotionally invested


He could be that boy
The guy seems like a perfect fit


But I'm not that girl
The singer knows that the guy is not interested in her


Don't dream too far
Stop thinking about a future that is unlikely to happen


Don't lose sight of who you are
Stay true to yourself and your principles


Don't remember that rush of joy
Don't dwell on past happiness or dwell on false hope


He could be that boy
The guy may be the right guy for someone but not the singer


I'm not that girl
The singer knows that she is not the right girl for the guy


Every so often we long to steal
Occasionally we may wish to change our fate


To the land of what-might-have-been
To a place where we imagine a different outcome


But that doesn't soften the ache we feel
Even when we think of alternate possibilities, the pain still exists


When reality sets back in
When the truth becomes apparent again


Blithe smile, lithe limb
An attractive and carefree appearance


She who's winsome, she wins him
The girl who has a charming personality is the one he chooses


Gold hair with a gentle curl
Physical traits he prefers


That's the girl he chose
He chose someone else over the singer


And heaven knows
No one knows why he made that choice


I'm not that girl
The singer accepts that she wasn't chosen and moves on


Don't wish don't start
Avoid wishing for the impossible and getting hurt again


Wishing only wounds the heart
Continuing to imagine a different reality can cause pain


I wasn't born for the rose and pearl
The singer is not meant to live a lavish or glamorous life


There's a girl I know
Someone else is capable of making him happy


He loves her so
The man has found someone who reciprocates his feelings


I'm not that girl
The singer is not that girl and is content with that fact




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SARAH BUXTON, BOB DI PIERO

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