Boys Don't Cry
Idlewild Lyrics


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I would say i'm sorry
If I thought that it can change your mind
But I know that this time
I have said too much
Been too unkind

I try to laugh about it
Cover it all up with lies
I try to
Laugh about it
Hiding the tears in my eyes
'cause boys don't cry
Boys don't cry

I would break down at your feet
And beg forgiveness
Plead with you
But I know that
It's too late
And there's nothing I can do

So I try to laugh about it
Cover it all up with lies
And I try to
Laugh about it
Hiding the tears in my eyes
'cause boys don't cry
Boys dont cry

I would tell you
That I loved you
If I thought that you would stay
But I know that it's no use
Cause you've already
Gone away

Misjudged your limits
Pushed you too far
Took you for granted
I thought that you needed me more, more, more...

And I would do most anything
To get you back by my side
But I just
Keep on laughing
Hiding the tears in my eyes
'cause boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry




Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Idlewild's song "Boys Don't Cry" express regret and longing for a lost love. The singer admits to having said too much and being unkind, but also acknowledges that it's too late to turn things around. Instead, he tries to cover up the pain with laughter and lies, hiding the tears in his eyes because boys are taught not to show vulnerability. The chorus repeats this idea that boys don't cry, as if it's a mantra to soothe the singer's heartbreak.


The second verse adds more detail to the relationship, with the singer admitting that he was unaware of his partner's limits and took her for granted. He thought she needed him more, but in the end, she was the one who left. Despite all of this, the singer would do anything to win her back, but he can only keep up the façade of laughter and strength, because boys don't cry.


Overall, "Boys Don't Cry" is a poignant depiction of the societal pressures placed on men to hide their emotions and maintain a tough exterior. The song captures the pain of heartbreak, but also the struggle to maintain a certain image of masculinity.


Line by Line Meaning

I would say i'm sorry
I am willing to apologize


If I thought that it can change your mind
If I believed that saying sorry would make you reconsider your decision


But I know that this time
I am aware that at this moment


I have said too much
I have spoken excessively and crossed the line


Been too unkind
I have behaved in a manner that was harsh and unfair


I try to laugh about it
I attempt to make light of the situation


Cover it all up with lies
I conceal the truth by telling untruths


Hiding the tears in my eyes
I put on a show by hiding my sadness with a fake smile


'cause boys don't cry
I feel pressure to appear strong and not show my emotions because it is expected of males


I would break down at your feet
I would fall apart completely in front of you


And beg forgiveness
And plead with you to forgive me


Plead with you
Beg you desperately


But I know that
However, I realize that


It's too late
It is already too far gone to make amends


And there's nothing I can do
There is no action that will change the situation


I would tell you
I desire to express to you


That I loved you
My feeling towards you is one of love


If I thought that you would stay
If I thought that it would influence you to remain with me


But I know that it's no use
But I am aware there is no point in doing so


Cause you've already
Because you've already


Gone away
Left and gone somewhere else


Misjudged your limits
Miscalculated how far I could push you


Pushed you too far
I went beyond where I should have


Took you for granted
I did not appreciate you as much as I should have


I thought that you needed me more, more, more...
I deluded myself into believing that you cannot exist without me


And I would do most anything
I am willing to do anything


To get you back by my side
To have you return and stay with me


But I just
However, at present,


Keep on laughing
I pretend to remain happy and joyful


Hiding the tears in my eyes
While secretly diverting from displaying sadness or despair


'cause boys don't cry
Because there is a prevalent cultural expectation among males to conceal their tears and emotions


Boys don't cry
The social norm that men should always stay strong and never show their vulnerabilities


Boys don't cry
The societal expectation that men should always appear tough, stable, and void of emotions


Boys don't cry
The gender stereotype that men should be remorseless and unemotional




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Chris Davies

This performance was the reason I started listening to The Cure! Thank you for uploading.

ShapeCat Films

I remember being 17 years old and watching this on TV about two weeks before I went to Glastonbury that year and being extra excited about seeing Idlewild perform.

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awwwwwwyyyyeeeeeesss!!!! I've been looking for Idlewild's (favourite band) cover of Boys Don't Cry (one of favourite songs) since about 2002 when my favourite cover of all time (THIS ONE!!!) was lost from my i-pod!!!!! Shame about the sound but I'll keep searching.. forever searching... for a version I can listen to ALL THE TIME, I TELL YOU!! Thankyou, thankyou :D <3 <3 <3

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What a sick cover.

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