Incubus is a five-man al… Read Full Bio ↴There are multiple artists using this name:
Incubus is a five-man alternative rock band formed in 1991, based in Calabasas, California. Members include Brandon Boyd (vocals and percussion), Mike Einziger (guitar), Ben Kenney (bass), Jose Pasillas II (drums) and DJ Chris Kilmore (turntables). Former members of the band include Gavin Koppel (a.k.a. DJ Lyfe) (turntables) and Alex Katunich (a.k.a. Dirk Lance) (bass). The band's name may seem a peculiar choice to fans, as an incubus is a type of demon that, in mythological lore, comes in the night and has sex with women while they are sleeping; it seduces them in their dreams The story behind the name is that the band needed to think of a name hours before their first show and, after a few failed choices, Mike looked in a dictionary and chose "Incubus" almost at random. Mike says that the name was chosen because it sounded silly; Brandon holds that it was chosen because they were teenagers and the definition had the word "sex" in it. "We really didn't want to rape women in their sleep. But, we were fifteen and it seemed harmless to us then, and we never changed it," says the band.
Incubus has received both critical acclaim and commercial success, reaching multi-platinum sales, as well as releasing several successful singles. The band earned mainstream recognition with the release of their 1999 album Make Yourself. In 2001, Incubus became even more successful with the single "Drive" and their follow-up album Morning View. Their sixth studio album, Light Grenades, debuted at No. 1 in 2006 and has received Gold certification in the U.S. Incubus released their first greatest hits album Monuments and Melodies in June 2009, accompanied by a tour of the United States, Japan and Canada. The band's most recent album, 8, was released on April 21st, 2017.
2. A death/thrash metal band from Metairie, Louisiana. The band was made up of Francis Howard (guitar/vocals), Moyses Howard (drums), Andre Luiz (bass), and Luiz Carlos (guitar). The two Howard brothers are actually from Brazil, and immigrated to Louisiana. This Incubus has released one demo, and two albums, with one album being remastered and re-released with a different track listing. This band has changed their name to Opprobrium.
3. A death/thrash metal band from Georgia who released one demo in 1987. The drummer, Mike Browning, went on to Morbid Angel and later Nocturnus fame.
4. A thrash metal band from São Paulo, Brazil that released 2 demos in 1986 and 1988.
5. A thrash metal band from João Pessoa, Paraíba, Brazil.
6. A New Wave of British Heavy Metal band that released a full-length album "To the Devil a Daughter" in 1984. Still a favorite among NWOBHM fans.
7. A death/thrash metal band from Melbourne, Victoria, Australia. Released a demo "Sinful Dreams" in 1987. Changed their name to Spectral Birth in 1988.
8. A Techno/Rave combo.
friend and lovers
Incubus Lyrics
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Runnin' off black and gold
It's high time I pulled over
And walked around a while
I've seen that porcelain shell
Erect some skeleton
And I feel like we'd walk well together
If asked of me I would
Gobble them to bits
The things that wall us off from
Where we belong
What's wrong with you is good
For what's wrong with me
And I think maybe we should stick together
Because in the end, we are friends and lovers
We are friends and lovers
Abandon all the bold
We've got to pick
They only weigh us down and
We're better than that
If they all throw stones
Start a collection
Of everything we're not
And what's because
You should never have to defend
Being friends and lovers
Being friends and lovers
Oh oh oh oh oh
Being friends and lovers
The song "Friends and Lovers" by Incubus revolves around the idea of how people can simultaneously be friends and lovers. The opening lines, "I'm a ne'er do well, runnin' off black and gold," suggest that the singer is someone living on the edge and enjoying life. But then he realizes that it is time to slow down and take a break before continuing. He then meets another person who is like him/her, as they have seen the world but want to settle down for a while. Together, they make a perfect union - as friends and lovers. The lyrics further suggest that there are things that divide us from others and make us feel different, but these things aren't necessarily bad. In fact, they can unite us and make us stronger if we embrace them. The line "What's wrong with you is good for what's wrong with me" perfectly summarizes this idea.
The song then takes a more romantic turn as the singer suggests that they should stick together because they are such a great couple, as evidenced by them being friends and lovers. They begin to fight against the world together, criticizing the people who try to bring them down by throwing stones or trying to stifle their relationship. The song moves towards a more optimistic conclusion, suggesting that the couple can overcome anything and in the end, they will still be friends and lovers.
Overall, "Friends and Lovers" is a perfect encapsulation of the idea that friendship and romance can be intertwined and mutually beneficial, and that love can conquer all.
Line by Line Meaning
I'm a ne'er do well
I am a person with no clear purpose or prospects
Runnin' off black and gold
Living a life of chasing wealth and materialistic pursuits
It's high time I pulled over
It's time for me to pause and reflect
And walked around a while
To take a break and explore new possibilities
I've seen that porcelain shell
I have observed that beautiful facade
Erect some skeleton
Reveal the darker truth beneath the surface
And I feel like we'd walk well together
I sense we have a connection and would complement each other
Because in the end, we are friends and lovers
Despite our differences, we have a strong bond of friendship and love
If asked of me I would
If required, I am willing to do something
Gobble them to bits
Consume or devour any obstacles in our path
The things that wall us off from
Any barriers that prevent us from reaching our goals
Where we belong
The place where we feel comfortable and accepted
What's wrong with you is good
Your flaws and imperfections are not bad; they complement me well
For what's wrong with me
My shortcomings are balanced by your strengths
And I think maybe we should stick together
We should stay close because we make a great team
Abandon all the bold
Stop pursuing unnecessary or futile endeavors
We've got to pick
We should choose wisely and selectively
They only weigh us down and
They hold us back and hinder our progress
We're better than that
We are capable of more and deserve better
If they all throw stones
If people criticize or attack us
Start a collection
Instead of being hurt, we should gather and collect these negative comments
Of everything we're not
Take note of the traits and qualities we don't possess
And what's because
Understand the reasons behind these criticisms
You should never have to defend
We don't need to justify or explain ourselves to anyone
Being friends and lovers
Our connection goes beyond any labels or definitions
Oh oh oh oh oh
Musical interlude
Being friends and lovers
Our bond is unique and special
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Joel M
When you get chance see them live. I have watched Them live 4 times. They have amazing concerts.
Best Shows Ever were.....
1. ColdPlay- Mylo Xyloto Tour
2. Broken Social Scene- They came down to Ft. Laud for the Fans after finishing their Tour.
3. Incubus- 2004, 2006, 2009, 2011
Jer Mrvlla
I'm a ne'er do well
Runnin' off black and gold
It's high time I pulled over
And walked around a while
I've seen that porcelain shell
Erect some skeleton
And I feel like we'd walk well together
Because in the end, we are friends and lovers
If asked of me I would
Gobble them to bits
The things that wall us off from
Where we belong
What's wrong with you is good
For what's wrong with me
And I think maybe we should stick together
Because in the end, we are friends and lovers
We are friends and lovers
Abandon all the bold
We've got to pick
They only weigh us down and
We're better than that
If they all throw stones
Start a collection
Of everything we're not
And what's because
You should never have to defend
Being friends and lovers
Being friends and lovers
Oh oh oh oh oh
Being friends and lovers
Charles Villanueva
The progression of this band is truly amazing. From the hard hitting funk-metal approach to SCIENCE, the hard hitting MAKE YOURSELF, the ever-so calming MORNING VIEW, the textured A CROW LEFT OF A MURDER, the almost experimental LIGHT GRENADES, to this amazing resonating laid back and emotional album IF NOT NOW WHEN. Incubus has truly made its place in the history of music.
Fluffyclouds
Beautiful
Joshua McVey
Very underappreciated album, even from people who claim to be die hard Incubus "fans". This album has some of the most profound lyrics I've ever heard and the instrumentation is phenomenal. Love this album! Love Incubus! Favorite band of all time!
warren nicholson
The greatest band of my life 👌👌🙌🙌♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Ernest Del Rosario
underrated song from an underrated album. i have yet to find a bad incubus song. Hoping for more years of great incubus music!
Joel M
Congrats!!!! They are one of the best live bands to see! :D
Are they your favorite?
assulrvg
I went to their concert here in mexico 6 months ago, they are amazing...
Joel M
When you get chance see them live. I have watched Them live 4 times. They have amazing concerts.
Best Shows Ever were.....
1. ColdPlay- Mylo Xyloto Tour
2. Broken Social Scene- They came down to Ft. Laud for the Fans after finishing their Tour.
3. Incubus- 2004, 2006, 2009, 2011
assulrvg
cheers to that!
Nicholas Dillman
Danced to this song at my wedding =D