This Is How It Feels
Inspiral Carpets Lyrics


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Husband don't know what he's done
Kids don't know what's wrong with mum
She can't say, they can't see
Putting it down to another bad day
Daddy don't know what he's done
Kids don't know what's wrong with mum

So this is how it feels to be lonely
This is how it feels to be small
This is how it feels when your word means nothing at all

Black car drives through the town
Some guy from the top estate
Left a note for a local girl
And yet he had it all on a plate

So this is how it feels to be lonely (feels to be lonely)
This is how it feels to be small (feels to be small)
This is how it feels when your word means nothing at all

Husband don't know what he's done
Kids don't know what's wrong with mum
She can't say, they can't see
Putting it down to another bad day

So this is how it feels to be lonely (feels to be lonely)
This is how it feels to be small (feels to be small)
This is how it feels when your word means nothing at all

So this is how it feels to be lonely (feels to be lonely)
This is how it feels to be small (feels to be small)
This is how it feels when your word means nothing at all





Nothing at all
Nothing at all

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of Inspiral Carpets' "This Is How It Feels" elicit a powerful sense of emotional disorientation. With plaintive vocals and a driving, propulsive rhythm, the opening verse sets a scene of confusion and alienation within a family dynamic. The "Husband" and "Daddy" are both at a loss, while the "Kids" are equally clueless about what's troubling their "Mum." With no clear sense of what's causing her obvious distress, the other members of the family are left to chalk it up to "another bad day."


As the song progresses into its chorus, the focus shifts from the specifics of the family dynamic to a more universal expression of loneliness and powerlessness. The repeated refrain of "This is how it feels to be lonely, this is how it feels to be small, this is how it feels when your word means nothing at all" hits with a gut-level emotional impact that's hard to shake. Suddenly, the particulars of the family's situation seem like just one instance of a much broader sense of disconnection and isolation.


The song's second verse adds another layer to its thematic weight, describing a wealthy outsider who seems to have everything handed to him, even as he leaves behind anonymous gestures of longing and desire. With this added perspective, "This Is How It Feels" becomes a kind of anthem for anyone who has ever felt adrift and disconnected from the world around them. Despite its bleak scenario, the song's combination of driving guitar and relentlessly catchy chorus give it an undeniable energy and sense of cathartic release.


Line by Line Meaning

Husband don't know what he's done
The husband does not understand what he has done to upset his spouse


Kids don't know what's wrong with mum
The children are unaware of their mother's emotional state


She can't say, they can't see
The mother is unable to express her emotions and the children are ignorant of the situation


Putting it down to another bad day
The mother and children disregard the mother's emotional state as a typical bad day


Daddy don't know what he's done
The father does not recognize his actions that may have impacted his spouse


So this is how it feels to be lonely
The sense of loneliness manifests itself as a result of emotional disconnect in the family


This is how it feels to be small
The emotional stress makes one feel powerless and insignificant, like a small entity in the world


This is how it feels when your word means nothing at all
In times of emotional turmoil, nothing one says can make a difference or bring about a change


Black car drives through the town
A black car moves through the town


Some guy from the top estate
An individual from an affluent neighborhood of the town


Left a note for a local girl
The wealthy individual left a message for a girl from a less affluent background


And yet he had it all on a plate
Despite being privileged, the individual's life is not completely satisfactory


Nothing at all
Utterly insignificant


Nothing at all
Signifying complete emptiness




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: CLINTON DAVID BOON, CRAIG DOUGLAS GILL, GRAHAM PAUL LAMBERT, MARTYN JOHN WALSH, THOMAS WILLIAM HINGLEY

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Comments from YouTube:

@tnrc75

Christ - 1990 doesn't feel that far away from 2020. Enjoy your lives kids, time flies.

@mrbojangles977

So so true .......

@drunkroku4054

LOL.....real

@Auty1973

My era loved this song. Monday's Rose's charlatans northside etc etc. Time machine required

@elliothdgaming7530

Im 17 and all i can say is that this music from the 90s is amazing. The shit today is so bad. Wish i grew up in a more simpler and fun time with good music and good times :/

@farmerdan7274

Mate, you described it perfectly. Yesteryear feels like yesterday.

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@user-np6pi1ug1n

One of the very very best Indie Brit Pop songs. Thanks for that, Inspiral Carpets!

@welcometothemachine6978

I am from Moscow, and d like to say that I grew up listening to the inspiring, great British rock music of the 20th century( mainly progressive and psychodelic rock) . Without it my life would so poor. Some of the most significant days in my life were when i visited Roger Waters’s and Deep Purple concerts , when they were here in Moscow. This music can equally praise up to the sky and destruct us and that’s why it has always been so breathtaking.
Thank you Great Britain for your culture, for your style, for your music and for dreamy, talented boys from your industrial cities , who had been creating some of the most beautiful non material heritage of our world

@problemchimp4231

What a nice comment. All the best to you my friend... from the UK.

@louisewilliams7492

@ProblemChimp extremely well expressed about something our musicians have done very well.

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