The Gentle Preservation of Children's Minds
Irving Lyrics


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Remember when they used to make us
Wake up and spray all the blood from the flowers
It was so hot, in the afternoon
They told us that we couldn't stop until the garden bloomed

When we were finished, we heard the sirens scream
I shook your back and woke you up from someone else's dream
You were so lost underneath the weight
You turned into the type of person that you used to hate

Are you still mine
I hope you feel better this time

The gentle preservation of children's minds

Remember when we danced with your mother
She was so drunk in the living room
And then her profile, turned a certain way
Showed me how you would look thirty years from today

So come and talk to me in your language
With your glass eye and your wooden teeth
I think I know what's wrong I think I know what you're on
I think I know what they meant when they said you were gone

Are you still mine
I hope you feel better this time





The gentle preservation of children's minds

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Irving's song The Gentle Preservation of Children's Minds are open to interpretation. The first verse speaks of a time when the singer and possibly a partner or friend, would wake up and spray blood off flowers. This unusual activity is never fully explained, but it appears to have been a task assigned to the singer and their friend. They were told they couldn't stop until the garden bloomed, suggesting that the activity may have been some kind of twisted ritual intended to bring about growth or change. The verse then ends with a description of a period where the two are confronted with sirens and the singer attempts to shake their friend out of someone else's dream.


The second verse details a memory of dancing with a drunk mother, who, when viewed from a certain angle, showed the singer a glimpse into their own future. The singer then invites the other person to speak to them in their own language, using vivid imagery like glass eyes and wooden teeth to paint a picture of an amputated or incomplete person. The end of the verse hints at them having some sense of what is causing their friend's issues, and that they believe their friend is gone or lost in some way. The chorus, which repeats twice, asks if the friend is still theirs and if they feel better this time, while also referencing gentle preservation of children's minds.


Overall, the lyrics evoke a sense of nostalgia, desperation and loss. The reference to blood on the flowers hints at a violent or unsettling past, while the description of a future self is both eerie and inevitable. The repeated questioning of whether the friend is still theirs, suggests an element of doubt and a fear of losing the connection, but it also touches on themes of possession and ownership. The line "gentle preservation of children's minds" echoes this, perhaps referencing the idea that childhood memories can be fragile and need protection.


Line by Line Meaning

Remember when they used to make us
Looking back, there was a time when we were forced to do something unpleasant


Wake up and spray all the blood from the flowers
We had to remove the red color from the flowers each morning


It was so hot, in the afternoon
During the day, the heat was unbearable


They told us that we couldn't stop until the garden bloomed
We were told to keep working until the garden was in full bloom


When we were finished, we heard the sirens scream
After we completed the task, we heard a loud noise like an alarm


I shook your back and woke you up from someone else's dream
I woke you from a dream that wasn't yours, by shaking you


You were so lost underneath the weight
You felt heavy and lost under the burden


You turned into the type of person that you used to hate
You became something that you previously despised


Are you still mine
Do you still belong to me


I hope you feel better this time
I hope you are in a better place or feeling better now


The gentle preservation of children's minds
The idea of guarding or protecting the minds of children in a kind and nurturing way


Remember when we danced with your mother
Recalling a time when we danced with your mother


She was so drunk in the living room
Your mother was highly intoxicated in the house


And then her profile, turned a certain way
At a certain angle, her facial features looked different


Showed me how you would look thirty years from today
Seeing the resemblance between you and your mother, imagining what you would look like in three decades


So come and talk to me in your language
Speak to me in a way that is true to your unique style and identity


With your glass eye and your wooden teeth
With your artificial eye and dental prosthesis


I think I know what's wrong I think I know what you're on
I believe I have an idea of what's troubling you or what drug you are using


I think I know what they meant when they said you were gone
I think I understand why some might think you aren't really present or gone




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Written by: AARON BURROWS, ALEX CHURCH, BRENT MICHAEL TURNER, BRIAN R CANNING, STEVEN SATHER SCOTT

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