Roses
J.U.D. Lyrics


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See today
I'm havin' one of
Them days were
I just don't
Wanna be bothered
But it seems like
You can't understand that
Because it's your way
Or no way
But check this out
It's my way today
And I'm really, really
Sick and tired
Of you steppin' into
My little box
When I just don't wanna be bothered, OK?
So check this out

I've had my way
And I've had my share
Of ups and down
I've been in trouble
And I couldn't tell
My ups from downs
I've been your baby
And I don't know why
It don't seem like
That no more
Welcome to
This new definition
Of love

[Chorus]
It ain't all roses
Hey
Flowers and posin'
Hey
Said it ain't all candy
Hey
This love stuff
Is demanding
Hey

Said it ain't all roses
Hey
Flowers and posin'
Hey
Said it ain't all candy
Hey
This love stuff
Is demanding
Hey
Sometimes I need a hug

See, you, you just
You just wanna
Really, really, really push
All my buttons
'Cause you Mr. Right
And I'm Misses Wrong
But right now today
I feel like
I'm-I'm the one
Gon' sing this song

I'm a be Misses Right today
It's my way or the highway
But with you
It's just no, gettin' around that
I gotta be bumpin' heads
With you
What's up with that?
Listen, see

I love my man
And I know my place
I know my worth
And I just can't stand
To see myself
As I hurt
It's been a long time
And I think that
I can get a little
More love
From you
I know some of y'all
Go through it to 'cause

[Chorus]

Sometimes I just wish
You just put
Your arms around me
When I'm feelin' so
Sp, so very needy
But instead you just turn your back
And say, "Suck it up! "
Oh, you don't know how I'm feelin' right now
If you knew how I feel
On the inside
You wouldn't say suck it up
Now what the fuck?
Cause'

[Chorus]

It ain't all roses, you know?
Everybody ask me how
Good it is
It's great
Love is great
But when you just
A mess yourself
It ain't gon' be all roses
'Cause you just want your time
You wanna be selfish
You know
You don't want nobody
Messin' with you
You just wanna rip
Somebody head off
When they step to you with
"Oh you need some help.
Oh, you need to figure it out"
You figure it out!
You figure it out!




You go figure it out!
You suck it up!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Roses" by J.U.D. are about a woman's frustration with her partner who doesn't understand her need for space and independence. She is tired of being controlled and wants to be Misses Right for a change. The chorus emphasizes the message that love is demanding and it doesn't always come in the form of roses, flowers, and candy. The song ends with the woman expressing her feelings of inadequacy, and her partner not being there for her when she needs him the most.


Line by Line Meaning

See today
Today I am feeling a certain way and I want to express that.


I'm havin' one of
A certain type of day where I just don't feel like being around people.


Them days were
Those types of days that come around every once in a while.


I just don't
I do not have the energy or desire to socialize.


Wanna be bothered
I want to be left alone and not have anyone disturb me.


But it seems like
Unfortunately, people do not understand this.


You can't understand that
It feels like nobody comprehends that I need space.


Because it's your way
People's behavior does not change according to my needs.


Or no way
They do things their own way, regardless of my wishes.


But check this out
Listen to what I have to say.


It's my way today
Today, things will be done my way.


And I'm really, really
I feel very strongly


Sick and tired
I am fed up with this.


Of you steppin' into
I am irritated by your presence.


My little box
I feel like people are encroaching on my personal space.


When I just don't wanna be bothered, OK?
I want to communicate that I need to be left alone.


So check this out
I need to talk to you about it.


I've had my way
I have had my life experiences.


And I've had my share
I have gone through a lot.


Of ups and down
I have experienced highs and lows.


I've been in trouble
I have faced difficulties.


And I couldn't tell
It was hard for me to differentiate.


My ups from downs
It was difficult to differentiate between good and bad moments.


I've been your baby
I have been in a relationship with you.


And I don't know why
I am not sure why I am in this relationship anymore.


It don't seem like
It seems like something is off.


That no more
It feels like our relationship has changed.


Welcome to
This is the new reality for us.


This new definition
The new way we experience and view love.


Of love
is different from what we were used to.


[Chorus]
This is the chorus of the song.


It ain't all roses
Love is not always easy and happy.


Hey
An exclamation to draw attention to the lyrics.


Flowers and posin'
Love is not just a surface level experience.


Said it ain't all candy
Love is not always sweet and delicious.


This love stuff
The experience of loving someone.


Is demanding
It requires a lot of work and energy.


Sometimes I need a hug
I need physical affection sometimes.


See, you, you just
You are someone who always


You just wanna
You always want to


Really, really, really push
Really force


All my buttons
Push all my emotional triggers.


'Cause you
Since you are


Mr. Right
Someone who always thinks he is correct and wants to be in charge.


And I'm Misses Wrong
I am always wrong in your eyes.


But right now today
But today, I am trying to prove you wrong.


I feel like
I believe that today, I am right.


I'm-I'm the one
In this situation, I am the correct one.


Gon' sing this song
I will express my feelings through this song.


I'm a be Misses Right today
I will prove that today, I am the one who is right.


It's my way or the highway
Today, I am determining how things will be.


But with you
However, when you are involved


It's just no, gettin' around that
It is impossible to do things my way.


I gotta be bumpin' heads
We always end up disagreeing.


What's up with that?
Why does it always seem to happen?


Listen, see
Pay attention to what I am about to say.


I love my man
I care about my partner.


And I know my place
I understand my role in this relationship.


I know my worth
I value myself.


And I just can't stand
And I cannot tolerate


To see myself
To understand that I have become


As I hurt
Someone who is in pain.


It's been a long time
This has been going on for a while now.


And I think that
I believe that I deserve more from this relationship.


I can get a little
It is reasonable for me to feel a little


More love
More affection and care.


From you
From my partner.


I know some of y'all
I know other people experience the same thing.


Go through it to 'cause
They also feel worn-down due to this relationship.


Sometimes I just wish
At times, I only want


You just put
For you to simply place


Your arms around me
Your arms around me.


When I'm feelin' so
When I am experiencing an overwhelming amount of


Sp, so very needy
Neediness and dependency.


But instead you just turn your back
However, you seem to lack the ability to give me affection.


And say, "Suck it up! "
You just tell me to deal with it.


Oh, you don't know how I'm feelin' right now
You have no idea how I am feeling in this moment.


If you knew how I feel
If you could understand my current emotions


On the inside
How I am feeling emotionally inside myself.


You wouldn't say suck it up
You would not dismiss my feelings so easily.


Now what the fuck?
What kind of reaction do you expect from me after that response?


'Cause'
Because


[Chorus]
This is the chorus of the song.


It ain't all roses
Love is not always easy and happy.


Hey
An exclamation to draw attention to the lyrics.


Flowers and posin'
Love is not just a surface level experience.


Said it ain't all candy
Love is not always sweet and delicious.


This love stuff
The experience of loving someone.


Is demanding
It requires a lot of work and energy.




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHRISTOPHER A. STEWART, MARY J. BLIGE, TERIUS YOUNGDELL NASH

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Luka

Sample is - I think - Bon Iver's "Holocene".

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