Roses
J. Lately Lyrics


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See today
I'm havin' one of
Them days were
I just don't
Wanna be bothered
But it seems like
You can't understand that
Because it's your way
Or no way
But check this out
It's my way today
And I'm really, really
Sick and tired
Of you steppin' into
My little box
When I just don't wanna be bothered, OK?
So check this out

I've had my way
And I've had my share
Of ups and down
I've been in trouble
And I couldn't tell
My ups from downs
I've been your baby
And I don't know why
It don't seem like
That no more
Welcome to
This new definition
Of love

[Chorus]
It ain't all roses
Hey
Flowers and posin'
Hey
Said it ain't all candy
Hey
This love stuff
Is demanding
Hey

Said it ain't all roses
Hey
Flowers and posin'
Hey
Said it ain't all candy
Hey
This love stuff
Is demanding
Hey
Sometimes I need a hug

See, you, you just
You just wanna
Really, really, really push
All my buttons
'Cause you Mr. Right
And I'm Misses Wrong
But right now today
I feel like
I'm-I'm the one
Gon' sing this song

I'm a be Misses Right today
It's my way or the highway
But with you
It's just no, gettin' around that
I gotta be bumpin' heads
With you
What's up with that?
Listen, see

I love my man
And I know my place
I know my worth
And I just can't stand
To see myself
As I hurt
It's been a long time
And I think that
I can get a little
More love
From you
I know some of y'all
Go through it to 'cause

[Chorus]

Sometimes I just wish
You just put
Your arms around me
When I'm feelin' so
Sp, so very needy
But instead you just turn your back
And say, "Suck it up! "
Oh, you don't know how I'm feelin' right now
If you knew how I feel
On the inside
You wouldn't say suck it up
Now what the fuck?
Cause'

[Chorus]

It ain't all roses, you know?
Everybody ask me how
Good it is
It's great
Love is great
But when you just
A mess yourself
It ain't gon' be all roses
'Cause you just want your time
You wanna be selfish
You know
You don't want nobody
Messin' with you
You just wanna rip
Somebody head off
When they step to you with
"Oh you need some help.
Oh, you need to figure it out"
You figure it out!
You figure it out!




You go figure it out!
You suck it up!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to J. Lately's 'Roses' highlight the complexities of love and relationships. The song begins with J. Lately implying that he's having a difficult day and doesn't want to be bothered. His partner seems to be forcing his opinion and way of doing things onto J. Lately, and he expresses his frustration with this. He states that he's tired of his partner entering his space when he doesn't want to be bothered. The song then goes into a chorus that emphasizes that love isn't always easy and enjoyable. Relationships can be difficult and demanding, and it's not always a bed of roses. J. Lately expresses that he needs a hug in these difficult times.


The second verse of the song delves into J. Lately's personal experiences of the ups and downs of relationships. He admits to being in trouble and not being able to distinguish between highs and lows. He also states that he doesn't feel as loved as he once did, and love has now taken on a new definition for him. J. Lately implies that love is not just about roses or flowers, and it's not always candy-coated, but it can be demanding and difficult.


The third verse is particularly vulnerable, as J. Lately admits feeling needy and wanting someone to hold him. However, instead of receiving comfort, his partner seems insensitive to his needs and tells him to 'suck it up.' J. Lately expresses frustration with this and concludes that love and relationships aren't easy, especially when one is going through a tough time.


Overall, 'Roses' is a raw and honest portrayal of the highs and lows of relationships. The song emphasizes that love can be challenging at times, but it's essential to be supportive and understanding of your partner's needs.


Line by Line Meaning

See today
Today, I woke up feeling a certain way


I'm havin' one of
I am experiencing a type of feeling/emotion


Them days were
It's one of those days when


I just don't
I cannot


Wanna be bothered
Handle any interaction


But it seems like
However, it appears like


You can't understand that
It looks like you cannot comprehend that


Because it's your way
Due to your perspective


Or no way
The lack of flexibility


But check this out
I have something to say


It's my way today
Today, I am sticking to my own beliefs


And I'm really, really
I am immensely


Sick and tired
Exasperated


Of you steppin' into
You need to stop interfering with


My little box
My personal space


When I just don't wanna be bothered, OK?
I choose not to engage in any interaction, please respect that


I've had my way
I lived life in my own terms


And I've had my share
I possess my part of


Of ups and down
Good and bad experiences


I've been in trouble
I have been in difficulties


And I couldn't tell
And often cannot distinguish


My ups from downs
The positives from negatives


I've been your baby
I played a dependent role in your life


And I don't know why
And it remains unclear to me why


It don't seem like
It no longer feels like


That no more
That relationship is gone


Welcome to
Greetings, this is my message to you


This new definition
My new perspective


Of love
Toward our relationship


[Chorus]
Refrain/chorus of the song


It ain't all roses
It is not always rosy


Hey
An expression used in songs to capture attention


Flowers and posin'
It's not just about the romantic gestures


Said it ain't all candy
In reality, it's not all sweet-talk


This love stuff
A relationship tends to be


Is demanding
It can be overwhelming


Sometimes I need a hug
Occasionally, all I need is affection


See, you, you just
Understand this about you


You just wanna
Your inclination is to


Really, really, really push
Continuously provoke


All my buttons
To trigger all my hot buttons


'Cause you Mr. Right
As someone who believes that you are always right


And I'm Misses Wrong
While I am always mistaken


But right now today
But currently, I am the one


I feel like
I am of the opinion


I'm-I'm the one
I am the one


Gon' sing this song
I'm going to express my thoughts through this music piece


I'm a be Misses Right today
Today, I have to be correct


It's my way or the highway
It has to be as I say, or you can leave


But with you
However, with you


It's just no, gettin' around that
You have a firm stance on that, and there's no changing


I gotta be bumpin' heads
We are continually having conflicting opinions


With you
Occurring between us


What's up with that?
I do not quite understand why that keeps occurring


Listen, see
Pay good attention to what I am saying here


I love my man
I care and adore my partner


And I know my place
I understand my role in the relationship


I know my worth
I appreciate my traits and capabilities


And I just can't stand
I cannot withstand


To see myself
To behold myself


As I hurt
In a position where I am subjected to pain


It's been a long time
It's been a while


And I think that
I believe now more than ever


I can get a little
I am entitled to a bit of


More love
Affection from you


From you
In your direction


I know some of y'all
I acknowledge that some of you


Go through it to 'cause
Are undergoing the same thing too


[Chorus]
Refrain/chorus of the song


Sometimes I just wish
Frequently, I long for


You just put
For you to put


Your arms around me
To hug me tightly


When I'm feelin' so
While I'm experiencing


Sp, so very needy
An intense desire for attention and support


But instead you just turn your back
However, you opt to disregard me


And say, "Suck it up!"
And encourage me to endure the difficulties


Oh, you don't know how I'm feelin' right now
You cannot begin to comprehend how I am hurting at this moment


If you knew how I feel
If you could understand how I am experiencing the situation


On the inside
Internally


You wouldn't say suck it up
Encouraging me to push through will not help me


Now what the fuck?
What the hell?


[Chorus]
Refrain/chorus of the song


It ain't all roses, you know?
It's not all orbed joy, do you understand?


Everybody ask me how
People inquire from me how


Good it is
Great the relationship is


Love is great
A relationship is lovely


But when you just
However, when you


A mess yourself
Are in a disarray yourself


It ain't gon' be all roses
It would not always be a bed of roses


'Cause you just want your time
As you demand personal space


You wanna be selfish
You should be able to put yourself first


You know
I trust that you understand


You don't want nobody
You don't please anyone


Messin' with you
To interfere with you


You just wanna rip
All you want to do is cut loose


Somebody head off
To get into an argument with someone


When they step to you with
Whenever someone tries to confront you with


"Oh you need some help.
"You need some guidance and assistance, right?


Oh, you need to figure it out"
Oh, you need to find a solution"


You figure it out!
You need to take charge and solve it yourself.


You figure it out!
You have to handle it alone.


You go figure it out!
It is your responsibility to find a way out.


You suck it up!
You need to endure and overcome it on your own.




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHRISTOPHER A. STEWART, MARY J. BLIGE, TERIUS YOUNGDELL NASH

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Brett Sherman

fam, you know what I think of this record, the inspiration and the motivation it gives me is impeccable. Great work. 'MAKE. BELIEVE.'

J.LATELY MUSIC

Thanks bro glad it can be that for you!

Chris Worland

truly exceptional!

the beat and the vocal performances are both absolutely flawless!

ILLUSION LP

Wow this song needs way more attention!!!

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