Stay Or Leave
J. Strong Lyrics
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I was so scared to just be myself, I always thought you was gone lurk
You gotta be getting your worth, no other place than first
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
I wanted everything that you supply, wanted yo fire, wanted yo passion
I told you I'm off work and no work tomorrow, you already know what I’m asking
You get the picture like incoming text
Kept to myself and made sho' you was wet
Control and give space, computing my temper
The way that she fuck me I just can't stop thinking I feel like she gave me a curse
I had a problem discussing my feelings so I went and bought her a purse
Feelings got put in reserve, gave time that she didn’t deserve
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
I was so blinded but never had mind
Pick of the liter, one of a kind
Pain in my chest but I’ll say that I’m fine
On different planets like zodiac signs
Bitch I'm the clock yeah I got time
Lay down the law, yeah I’m the line
It's up from here like a real steep incline
I don't know how she end up on my mind
Let me put all that aside
I'm talking bout trips where we fly
I'm talking bout trips to Dubai
Scared of heights grip on your thighs
She not yours yeah she is mine
You see something ask for your size
I text and she send me replies
I think you got what I like
And I could smoke weed for all of my pain and I could just say that I’m hurt
Or I could just stay, pretend I’m okay, and act like I’m getting my worth
Mirrors she see em and twerk, stay or leave don’t know what’s worse
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things, you say that they do
Having regret isn’t good for your body they say that it's making it worse
I was so scared to just be myself, I always thought you was gone lurk
You gotta be getting your worth, no other place than first
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
And I could smoke weed for all of my pain and I could just say that I’m hurt
Or I could just stay, pretend I’m okay, and act like I’m getting my worth
Mirrors she see em and twerk, stay or leave don’t know what’s worse
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things, you say that they do
In "Stay Or Leave," J. Strong explores themes of self-worth, regret, and the complexities of relationships. The lyrics reflect the emotional turmoil experienced by the singer throughout a troubled relationship, highlighting their struggles to be true to themselves and find fulfillment.
The opening lines convey the idea that holding onto regret can negatively impact one's well-being. The singer expresses their fear of being authentic and their constant suspicion that their partner may betray them. They emphasize the importance of recognizing one's own value and prioritizing their needs, suggesting that being in a relationship shouldn't compromise individual worth.
The lyrics also touch on the singer's longing for passion and connection. They desire the excitement and fire that their partner brings, expressing their eagerness for intimacy and quality time together. The picture metaphor suggests that their partner understands and reciprocates their desires.
However, the complications within the relationship become apparent. The singer alludes to their difficulty in communicating their feelings, resorting to material gestures like buying a purse to express their emotions instead. They acknowledge investing their time and energy into the relationship, even though their efforts might not have been reciprocated.
As the lyrics progress, the singer reflects on their own blindness to the reality of the relationship. They acknowledge feeling pain and discomfort but pretending to be fine to avoid confronting the truth. The reference to different planets represents the disconnect and lack of understanding between the singer and their partner, similar to the divide between zodiac signs. However, the singer asserts their authority and independence, emphasizing their own worth and ability to set boundaries.
The lyrics also touch on the singer's internal struggle to either face their pain and admit it or find temporary escape through smoking weed. They recognize the option of staying in the relationship, pretending everything is okay while masking their own hurt. The mention of mirrors and twerking alludes to the partner using their physical appearance to manipulate or distract from the larger issues within the relationship.
Further questions are raised in the repetition of the question, "Why do you try to prove that you don't do the things, you say that they do?" This suggests a lack of trust and authenticity within the relationship, where one partner tries to convince the other that they are not engaging in certain behaviors. It speaks to the broader theme of insecurity and deception, adding another layer of complexity to the song's narrative.
Overall, "Stay Or Leave" delves into the intricacies of a tumultuous relationship, exploring themes of self-discovery, regret, and the delicate balance between staying in a toxic situation and finding the strength to leave. It invites listeners to contemplate their own worth and the importance of honest communication within relationships.
Line by Line Meaning
Having regret isn’t good for your body they say that it's making it worse
According to popular belief, holding onto regret is detrimental to your physical well-being, as it only worsens the situation.
I was so scared to just be myself, I always thought you was gone lurk
I had intense fear of expressing my true self because I constantly believed that you would betray or deceive me.
You gotta be getting your worth, no other place than first
To truly value yourself, you should prioritize your own needs and not settle for anything less than what you deserve.
Sometimes I just smile at the fact that I actually tried to make both of us work
Despite the challenges, I find a certain satisfaction in the knowledge that I made a sincere effort to reconcile and improve our relationship.
I wanted everything that you supply, wanted yo fire, wanted yo passion
I desired all the qualities and attributes that you possessed – your energy, your drive, and your intense emotions.
I told you I'm off work and no work tomorrow, you already know what I’m asking
When I informed you that I had time off from work today and tomorrow, it was obvious that I wanted to spend quality time with you.
You get the picture like incoming text
You easily understand the situation and grasp the intended message, similar to how one comprehends a text message upon receiving it.
Kept to myself and made sho' you was wet
I maintained a sense of privacy and ensured that you were sexually satisfied and satisfied in general.
Don't need a sign cuz I’m straight when I enter
I don't require any external validation or assurance because I am confident in my abilities and intentions.
Control and give space, computing my temper
I exercise self-control and allow for personal space, carefully analyzing and managing my emotions and reactions.
The way that she fuck me I just can't stop thinking I feel like she gave me a curse
The intense pleasure she brings me during intimacy lingers in my thoughts, making me feel as though she has bestowed upon me an addictive and troubling influence.
I had a problem discussing my feelings so I went and bought her a purse
Due to my difficulty in verbalizing my emotions, I resorted to material gifts such as purchasing a purse for her as a means to express my affection.
Feelings got put in reserve, gave time that she didn’t deserve
I set aside my emotions and invested time in her, even though she did not deserve my dedication and attention.
I was so blinded but never had mind
I was deeply infatuated and oblivious to the truth, yet I never lost my rational thinking or common sense.
Pick of the liter, one of a kind
I had the privilege of choosing from a wide range of options, and you were unique and incomparable.
Pain in my chest but I’ll say that I’m fine
Although I experience emotional pain, I will confidently claim to be fine and unaffected.
On different planets like zodiac signs
We have such contrasting personalities and viewpoints that it feels as though we belong to different worlds, similar to how zodiac signs often symbolize distinct characteristics.
Bitch I'm the clock yeah I got time
I possess an abundance of time and control over the situation, implying that I can patiently wait or make decisions at my own pace.
Lay down the law, yeah I’m the line
I establish and enforce my boundaries and expectations, taking on the role of a mediator or authoritative figure in the relationship.
It's up from here like a real steep incline
Moving forward, the situation will only improve and become increasingly challenging, similar to ascending a steep slope.
I don't know how she end up on my mind
I'm uncertain about why she constantly occupies my thoughts and remains a prominent presence in my mind.
Let me put all that aside
Allow me to set aside all the complexities and issues surrounding us.
I'm talking bout trips where we fly
I'm referring to the enjoyable experiences and adventures we could have together, traveling to different destinations.
I'm talking bout trips to Dubai
I envision luxurious and extravagant trips to Dubai as a representation of the lavish lifestyle we could share.
Scared of heights grip on your thighs
Fearing the unknown and taking risks, I seek comfort and reassurance by firmly holding onto your thighs.
She not yours yeah she is mine
Although you may claim ownership, she is under my possession and in a relationship with me.
You see something ask for your size
If you desire something, do not hesitate to express your preference or ask for what you desire.
I text and she send me replies
I initiate communication through text messages, and she responds to me accordingly.
I think you got what I like
I believe you possess the qualities and traits that align with my preferences and interests.
And I could smoke weed for all of my pain and I could just say that I’m hurt
I could numb my emotional pain by consuming marijuana and simply claim that I am hurt or suffering.
Or I could just stay, pretend I’m okay, and act like I’m getting my worth
Alternatively, I could choose to remain in the situation, pretending that everything is fine and convincing myself that I am receiving the validation and value I deserve.
Mirrors she see em and twerk, stay or leave don’t know what’s worse
She notices her reflection in the mirrors and dances provocatively, creating ambiguity and uncertainty about the decision to either remain in the relationship or leave, as both options have their drawbacks.
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things
What motivates you to constantly attempt to demonstrate that you are not engaging in certain actions?
Why do you try to prove that you don’t do the things, you say that they do
Furthermore, why do you strive to provide evidence that contradicts the allegations you made against others?
Lyrics © DistroKid
Written by: Evin Jackson
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Mandy S
The fact Hailey started opening up to Jay was huge! They went from Hailey doesn't open up much to this! This was the episode when I started shipping them.
Hailey Halstead
Yesssss ! It was nice to see the progression of them forming a solid relationship 🙌🏽❤ one of the reasons why I follow their relationship because it was like taking us along their journey 😍
Sarah Mullen
I wonder what jay would if she started full blown crying
Hi
@BengalsHead that’s true. Side note I’m very happy they are finally together
BengalsHead
It kinda happens in 8x11 since they’re together
BengalsHead
@Hi yes he would
Hi
I feel like he would just hold her and tell her it will all be okay
aimee farmer
🤧
Joey Durborow
Traci spiradakos is so sexy