Then Why Can't I Touch You
J.d. Smooth Lyrics


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If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?
If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?
I'm not saying I want to change you
I don't want to rearrange you
If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?
If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?
From the very first moment I saw you
It's been a different world
From the very first moment I saw you
It's been such a different world

I seem to be a little bit stronger
Each moment seems just a little bit
Little bit longer
Missing links and little kinks
Have never been found and uncurled

But you're still the same
You're like a frozen flame
Well it sure seems a shame
You let me make love to you
But you won't let me touch you

When I leave you I'm going someplace
That I've never been before
When I leave you I'm going someplace
That I've never been before
Why don't you reach out and touch me
Reach out and touch me

If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?




If you let me make love to you
Then why can't I touch you?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of this song by J.D. Smooth appear to convey a sense of confusion and frustration. He asks questions about why he can't touch the person he wants to be intimate with, even though they have already agreed to have sex with him. He emphasizes that he does not seek to change or control this person, but feels like something crucial is missing from their physical relationship. Smooth expresses that he sees this person as a source of strength and significance and wants to explore that depth further.


The lyrics suggest that this may be a situation in which one person in a relationship feels like they are not getting everything they want or need from their partner. They may believe that their partner is keeping them at a distance, and that despite being physically intimate with them, they are not close enough emotionally. The repetition of the phrase "if you let me make love to you, then why can't I touch you" emphasizes the frustration and confusion that Smooth is feeling. He recognizes that something is off, but he does not know how to bridge the gap.


The theme of longing and frustration is emphasized through the use of figurative language in the song. Smooth describes the person he desires as a "frozen flame," emphasizing the sense of conflict between their desire to be close to him and the barriers they are placing in the way. He suggests that there are "missing links and little kinks" that need to be addressed, but is not sure how to identify or resolve them. Ultimately, the song conveys a sense of dissatisfaction and longing for something more, while acknowledging that the obstacles in the way are difficult to overcome.


Line by Line Meaning

If you let me make love to you
If you're willing to have sex with me


Then why can't I touch you?
Why won't you let me physically touch you?


I'm not saying I want to change you
I don't want to modify who you are


I don't want to rearrange you
I don't want to alter your personality or behavior


From the very first moment I saw you
Ever since I saw you for the first time


It's been a different world
My life has changed remarkably


I seem to be a little bit stronger
I feel like I'm becoming more resilient


Each moment seems just a little bit
Time appears slower and more profound


Little bit longer
More extended than usual


Missing links and little kinks
Unexplained gaps and small issues


Have never been found and uncurled
They've never been resolved or fixed


But you're still the same
However, you haven't changed


You're like a frozen flame
You're passionate but unreachable


Well it sure seems a shame
It's a pity


When I leave you I'm going someplace
When I'm away from you, I'm doing something new


That I've never been before
A novel and unfamiliar place or situation


Why don't you reach out and touch me
Why don't you make physical contact with me?


If you let me make love to you
If you agree to have sex with me


Then why can't I touch you?
Why won't you allow me to touch you physically?




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CHARLES COURTNEY, PETER LINK

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