Meet The Parents
JAY-Z Lyrics


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Woo
Uh, uh
It's The Gift and the Curse
Uh, uh, yeah
First they love me, then they hate me, then they love me again
They love me again (uh)
Let's take a trip down
I gotcha

Let's take a trip down memory, lane at the cemetery
Rain, grey skies, seems at the end of every
Young black life is this line, "Damn, him already?
Such a good kid," got us pouring Henn' already
Liquor to the curb for my, niggas up above
When it, cracks through the pavement that's my way of sending love
So, give Big a hug, tell Aaliyah I said hi
'Til the next time I see her, on the other side
He was just some thug that, caught some slugs
And we loved him 'cause, in him we, saw some of us
He walked like us, talked like us
His back against the wall, nigga fought like us, damn
Poor Isis, that's his mama name
Mama ain't strong enough to raise no boy, what's his father name?
Shorty never knew him, though he had his blood in him
Hot temper, mama said he act just like her husband
Daddy never fucked with him, so the streets raised him
Isis blaming herself, she wish she could of saved him
Damn near impossible, only men can raise men
He was his own man, not even him can save him
He put his faith in her, thirty-eight in his waist
But when you live by the gun you die by the same fate
End up, dead before thirty-eight and umm
That's the life of us raised by winter, it's a cold world
Old girl turned to coke, tried to smoke her pain away
Isis, life just, ended on that rainy day
When she got the news her boy body could be viewed
Down at the City Morgue, opened the drawer, saw him nude
Her addiction grew, prescription drugs, sippn' brew
Angel dust, dipped in woo
She slipped into, her own fantasy world
Had herself pregnant by a different dude
But reality bites and, this is her life
He wasn't really her husband, though he called her wife
It was just this night when, moon was full
And the stars were just right, and the dress was real tight
Had her sounding like Lisa Lisa, I wonder if I take you home
Will you still love me after this night?
Mike was the hard head from the around the way
That she wanted all her life, shit she wanted all the hype
Used to hold on tight when he wheelied on the bike
He was a Willie all her life he wasn't really the one to like
It was a, dude named Shy who would really treat her right
He wanted to run to the country to escape the city life
But Isis, like this, Broadway life
She loved the Gucci sneakers, the red green and whites
Hanging out the window when she first seen him fight
She was so turned on that she had to shower twice
How ironic it would, be some fight that
Turned into a homicide that'll alter their life
See Mike at thirty-two was still on the scene
Had a son fifteen that he never saw twice
Sure he saw him as an infant, but he dissed on him like
"If that was my son, he would look much different
See I'm light-skinnded and that baby there's dark
So it's, mama's baby, poppa's maybe"
Mike was still crazy out there running the streets (fuck niggas want?)
Had his old reliable thirty-eight gun in his reach
It's been fourteen years, him and Isis ain't speak
He running around like life's a peach, 'til one day
He approached this thug that, had a mean mug
And it looked so familiar that he called him "Young Cuz"
Told him, get off the strip but the boy ain't budge (fuck you)
Instead he pulled out a newer thirty-eight snub
He clearly had the drop but the boy just paused (hold up)
There was something in this man's face he knew he seen before
It's like, looking in the mirror seeing his self more mature
And he took it as a sign from the almighty Lord
You know what they say about he who hesitates in war
(What's that?) He who hesitates is lost
He can't explain what he saw before his picture went blank
The old man didn't think he just followed his instinct
Six shots into his kin, out of the gun
Niggas be a father, you're killing your son
Six shots into his kin, out of the gun
Niggas be a father, you killing your sons





(Meet the parents)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Jay-Z's "Meet the Parents" are an intricate tale of tragic events and the cycle of violence and neglect that often plagues inner-city communities. Jay-Z takes the listener on a trip down memory lane through the eyes of various characters who all have a connection to a young black man who was killed before his time. The song begins with a reflection on the all-too-familiar storyline of young black men dying young and the emotions and rituals that follow their passing. The lyrics then delve into the life of the victim, named Isis, and the other characters whose lives were impacted by his death.


Isis, the victim's mother, is portrayed as a woman who was powerless to save her son from the streets. She questions her ability to raise a boy alone, especially one with as much pain and anger as her son. Isis turns to drugs to numb her pain, which only deepens her addiction and despair. Meanwhile, the victim himself is depicted as a product of his environment, a man who was forced to turn to the streets after his father abandoned him and his mother. Despite his mother's love, he is ultimately a lost cause, caught up in the dangerous world of drug dealing and gang violence that is all around him. The song is a commentary on how difficult it can be for inner-city communities to break the cycle of poverty and violence that entraps them, leading to the loss of promising young lives.


Overall, the lyrics to "Meet the Parents" are a bleak yet poignant commentary on the state of inner-city America, highlighting the fact that there are many people trapped in these communities who are unable to escape the cycle of poverty and violence that surrounds them. The lyrics can be difficult to follow at times, but they paint a vivid picture of the despair and hopelessness that many people in these communities feel, as well as a commentary on the forces that lead them down this path.


Line by Line Meaning

First they love me, then they hate me, then they love me again
Jay-Z has experienced love and hate in all aspects of his life, from the public, the music industry, and even his personal relationships


Let's take a trip down, I gotcha
Jay-Z is taking us down memory lane to tell the story of a young man, his mother Isis, and their struggle in the streets


Young black life is this line, 'Damn, him already?
Jay-Z is acknowledging the tragic reality that many young black men die too soon


Liquor to the curb for my, niggas up above
Jay-Z is pouring out liquor as a sign of respect for his deceased friends


He was just some thug that, caught some slugs
Jay-Z is explaining that despite his thug persona, the young man's death is still a tragedy


Hot temper, mama said he act just like her husband
Isis sees her late husband's behavior and temper in her son, which is a painful reminder for her


Isis blaming herself, she wish she could have saved him
Isis is overwhelmed with guilt and wishes she could have done more to prevent her son's tragic ending


He was his own man, not even him can save him
Despite his tough exterior and independence, the young man was unable to save himself


End up, dead before thirty-eight and umm
Jay-Z is referencing the young age at which many young black men die in the streets


Old girl turned to coke, tried to smoke her pain away
Isis dealt with her son's death by turning to drugs to numb her pain


But reality bites and, this is her life
Isis is forced to confront the reality of her life and the choices she made


It was just this night when, moon was full
Jay-Z is recounting a memory of a night Isis spent with a man who wasn't her husband


Used to hold on tight when he wheelied on the bike
Isis had a history with a man named Mike, who was the 'bad boy' of the neighborhood


It was a, dude named Shy who would really treat her right
Despite her attraction to the bad boys, Isis later realized that a man named Shy was the one who really cared for her


Had his old reliable thirty-eight gun in his reach
Jay-Z is describing how Mike still lived his life dangerously, with a gun close by


Niggas be a father, you killing your son
Jay-Z is highlighting the cycle of violence and how it affects families, specifically fathers who kill their own sons




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Written by: Justin Smith, Shawn Carter

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