Tender
JJ Lyrics


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I don't know if I can take it
Anymore
This keeping score
Is doing my head in
Where am I headed?
So go ahead
And tell me off
You know it's been a hard start for me
So go ahead
Go ahead
Tell me now
Set it down
But I still get it
I still get it
I'm still with it
I'm still with it now

(I'm not telling the truth)
I just wanna go fast
(I'm not really like you)
Feeling safe never lasts too long
And I hate this song
Cause it don't feel the same these days

Heart's so tender
These days
I don't
Get sleep
I just lay in
Bed to find some peace
The better parts of me
Heart's so tender
These days
I don't




Get sleep
I just lay in
Bed to find some peace
The better parts of me

Crazy how
How we look up at the same sky
But never see eye to eye
In these mirrors
I'm seeing myself different
Noticing my indifference
Reflection showing all the things I'm
Missing
I wish that you would just listen
I wanna take my time (Take some time)

Tell me the truth
Are you scared
Tell me the truth
Are you losing your head
Thinking bout how
We should fly south

Migration season
Is the only reason I need
And I planted those seeds
Inside
So long ago
I'm ready go
Unlock this part
Been a hard summer

And my heart's so tender
These days
I don't
Get sleep
I just lay in
Bed to find some peace
The better parts of me

I I I won't fall too hard
This time
This time
This time

And my heart's so tender
These days
I don't
Get sleep
I just lay in
Bed to find some peace
The better parts of me

I I I won't fall too hard
This time
This time
This time

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of jj's song "Tender" capture the complexities of emotional vulnerability and the struggles that come with navigating personal relationships. The opening lines reflect a sense of frustration and exhaustion with the mental toll that comes from β€œkeeping score” in a relationship. This act of measuring worth or success against one’s partner creates an unsustainable dynamic, leading to feelings of confusion about one's direction in life. The singer invites confrontation, asking to be told the truth even though they recognize the challenges they’ve faced. This moment sets the tone for a search for honesty and clarity amid the chaos of emotions, indicating a struggle to maintain a sense of self while yearning for connection.


As the song progresses, the inner turmoil of the singer becomes more pronounced. The refrain about not telling the truth suggests a facade that the singer maintains, perhaps in fear of vulnerability or rejection. There’s a desire for speed and intensity in emotions, juxtaposed with an understanding that feeling safe is often temporary. The line about hating the song introduces a dissonance between the singer’s present feelings and their past experiences. It hints at a nostalgia for how things used to be, implying that the present reality feels inadequate or painful, further emphasizing the theme of longing for better days and the struggle to reconcile with those feelings.


The imagery of sleepless nights reveals a profound sense of unrest, as the singer seeks peace but finds themselves in a state of anxiety. The repetition of β€œheart's so tender” highlights the fragility of their emotional state, making reference to the scars and sensitivities that have developed through hardship. The contrast between the desire for peace and the inability to find it speaks to a deeper yearning for healing and wholeness. The lyrics suggest that the singer is not only grappling with their own internal battles but is also affected by the dynamics of their relationship, indicating that their emotional turmoil is interconnected with another person. This struggle is depicted as a longing to connect yet feeling lost in their own messiness.


In the latter part of the song, the exploration of self-reflection and the desire for open communication takes center stage. The longing for connection is coupled with a realization of differences, illustrated by the metaphor of looking at the same sky but not seeing eye to eye. This hints at significant misalignment in perspectives or feelings within the relationship. The desire to β€œtake my time” emphasizes a quest for patience in understanding and a maturity in dealing with feelings. The recurring theme of tenderness conveys a hope for resilience; despite the challenges and the fear of falling too hard, there is a quiet strength emerging. The repeated lines about not wanting to fall too hard encapsulate the cautious optimism the singer embraces, suggesting a desire for a deeper connection while recognizing the risk of vulnerability. In the end, the song resonates as a poignant reflection on love, healing, and the complexities of emotional intimacy.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know if I can take it
I'm uncertain if I can endure this challenging situation any longer.


Anymore
I feel like I've reached my limit.


This keeping score
The constant evaluation of our interactions is overwhelming.


Is doing my head in
It's causing me significant mental distress.


Where am I headed?
I am questioning my direction in life and what's ahead of me.


So go ahead
Feel free to express what’s on your mind.


And tell me off
I’m open to criticism or confrontation.


You know it's been a hard start for me
You understand I've had a difficult beginning in this situation.


So go ahead
Again, please share your thoughts without hesitation.


Go ahead
Continue; I'm ready to hear it.


Tell me now
I want you to be honest with me immediately.


Set it down
Express what you need to express without holding back.


But I still get it
Despite everything, I still understand the situation.


I still get it
I remain aware of the feelings involved.


I'm still with it
I'm still engaged and present in this experience.


I'm still with it now
I continue to cope with these emotions in the present moment.


(I'm not telling the truth)
I may not be fully honest about my feelings or situation.


I just wanna go fast
I desire to escape or rush through my emotions or experiences.


(I'm not really like you)
I recognize that my perspective differs from yours.


Feeling safe never lasts too long
A sense of security is fleeting and often temporary.


And I hate this song
I dislike the way this song resonates with my current feelings.


Cause it don't feel the same these days
My emotional responses have changed, and this song no longer comforts me.


Heart's so tender
My emotions are fragile and sensitive right now.


These days
Currently, I am feeling this way.


I don't
I am unable to achieve.


Get sleep
I find it difficult to rest or find peace at night.


I just lay in
I remain in bed without the ability to rest.


Bed to find some peace
I seek solace in my bed, but it eludes me.


The better parts of me
I long for the best aspects of my personality, which feel distant.


Heart's so tender
My emotional state remains vulnerable and sensitive.


These days
In this current period of my life.


I don't
I fail to.


Get sleep
I struggle to obtain adequate rest.


I just lay in
I merely recline without the ability to escape my thoughts.


Bed to find some peace
I remain in my bed searching for tranquility.


The better parts of me
The positive elements of my character feel overshadowed.


Crazy how
It’s astonishing how.


How we look up at the same sky
Despite being under the same circumstances, our perspectives differ.


But never see eye to eye
We fail to agree or understand each other's viewpoints.


In these mirrors
In self-reflection.


I'm seeing myself different
I perceive my identity and feelings in a new light.


Noticing my indifference
I am becoming aware of my emotional detachment.


Reflection showing all the things I'm
Looking at myself reveals many missing pieces of my emotional self.


Missing
I recognize the voids in my life and emotions.


I wish that you would just listen
I long for your understanding and attention to my feelings.


I wanna take my time (Take some time)
I want the opportunity to process my emotions gradually.


Tell me the truth
Be honest with me about your feelings.


Are you scared
Are you feeling fearful or anxious?


Tell me the truth
I need you to be genuine with me.


Are you losing your head
Are you feeling overwhelmed or losing control?


Thinking bout how
Reflecting on the possibilities of our future.


We should fly south
Considering a change or escape from our current situation.


Migration season
A time for change or a new beginning is at hand.


Is the only reason I need
This transition is the sole motivation I am seeking.


And I planted those seeds
I have taken steps to prepare for this change long ago.


Inside
Within myself, I have nurtured these aspirations.


So long ago
These feelings and intentions were established a while back.


I'm ready to go
I feel prepared to embark on this new journey.


Unlock this part
I wish to release the emotions that have been held back.


Been a hard summer
The past season has been filled with challenges.


And my heart's so tender
My emotions remain vulnerable and sensitive.


These days
Currently, my feelings are heightened.


I don't
I am unable to.


Get sleep
Rest evades me despite my desire for it.


I just lay in
I find myself lying still in bed, unable to sleep.


Bed to find some peace
I remain in bed searching for a sense of calm.


The better parts of me
I yearn for the more fulfilling aspects of my character.


I I I won't fall too hard
I intend to protect my heart from deep emotional pain.


This time
This instance, I will be cautious and resilient.


This time
I am determined to remain grounded and not overly emotional.


This time
I've learned from past experiences to be careful now.


And my heart's so tender
My emotional state stays vulnerable and sensitive.


These days
At this moment in my life.


I don't
I struggle to.


Get sleep
Rest is elusive despite my need for it.


I just lay in
I find myself lying in bed, still burdened by thoughts.


Bed to find some peace
I seek solace in bed but often fail to find tranquility.


The better parts of me
I'm reaching for the more positive aspects of my spirit.


I I I won't fall too hard
I am resolved to guard myself from emotional upheaval.


This time
In this instance, I plan to be mindful and cautious.


This time
Once again, I aim to protect my heart.


This time
I am committed to maintaining my emotional stability.




Lyrics Β© O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Jin Jie Lim

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