I Can't Love You
Jack Hardy Lyrics


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I can't love you if you won't let me
If you find reasons to drive me away
I can't love you like heaven sent me
To fix the seasons and make them stay

Through all the falling leaves like another
Lost of their color, piled in the way
Walk with abandon kicking the summer
Flies in the face of talking this way

Goldenrod withers, turns brown and broken
And fields of vision turn dark and gray
For I have spoken these words of feeling
I have my own dreams that have blown away

Can't find the shutter to freeze the feeling
Bright in vermilion that maple-leaf day
Stammer and stutter, vagrant and reeling
That one-in-a-million that came to stay

Now and forever this velvet cover
Over the hourglass as time runs away




I can't love you more than forever
And still find the reasons to make you stay

Overall Meaning

Jack Hardy’s song "I Can't Love You" talks about the challenges of loving someone who seems to have made up their mind about not allowing that love to flourish. The lyrics are raw and honest as they explore the limitations and frustrations of a one-sided love. The singer admits that he can’t love this person if they won’t let him, but at the same time, he acknowledges that they appeared in his life like heaven sent him to fix the issues in his life.


The verse that talks about the fallen leaves is a metaphor for how things in life come and go, and even though it might be painful to let go, it is important to keep moving forward. The imagery of the goldenrod fields, once vibrant and full of life, turning brown and broken, depict the inevitable changes in life that are difficult to accept. The singer also admits that he has his own dreams that have blown away, which adds vulnerability to the song.


Overall, this song is about the struggle of trying to love someone who won’t allow it, and the pain that comes with it. It touches on the inevitable changes in life and the importance of accepting them.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't love you if you won't let me
If you're not open to receiving love, I can't give it to you.


If you find reasons to drive me away
If you're constantly pushing me away or giving me reasons to leave, I can't love you.


I can't love you like heaven sent me To fix the seasons and make them stay
I can't love you with such intense passion and commitment that I can control everything around us to keep us together.


Through all the falling leaves like another Lost of their color, piled in the way
Despite the obstacles and difficulties we may face, just like a pile of dead leaves on the ground.


Walk with abandon kicking the summer Flies in the face of talking this way
We should enjoy the present moment without worrying too much about the future, despite the harsh realities of life.


Goldenrod withers, turns brown and broken And fields of vision turn dark and gray
Winter is inevitable and will always come, no matter how much beauty there is in the world.


For I have spoken these words of feeling I have my own dreams that have blown away
I've shared my emotions and feelings with you, but I've also had my own dreams and aspirations that have been shattered or unfulfilled.


Can't find the shutter to freeze the feeling Bright in vermilion that maple-leaf day
It's impossible to hold onto the happiness and joy of a single moment forever, no matter how much we want to.


Stammer and stutter, vagrant and reeling That one-in-a-million that came to stay
Sometimes, we may struggle to fully express our love or feelings for someone who we know is truly special and unique.


Now and forever this velvet cover Over the hourglass as time runs away
Time continues to move forward, and all we can do is enjoy the present moment while we still can.


I can't love you more than forever And still find the reasons to make you stay
Even if I love you with all my heart and soul, I can't force you to stay with me if you don't want to.




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Comments from YouTube:

Louise Adie

One of the most beautiful songs ever. We miss you, Jack Hardy.

R Yaeger

Awesome, haunting

SweetSmoke21

Beautiful, thanks!!

jamiegtr2007

great song

R Yaeger

Fast becoming a favorite

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