Sticks And Stones
Jackie Shane Lyrics


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Here you come again
And you say that your my friend
But I know why your here
She wants to know how I feel
Tell her that I am happy
Tell her that I am gay
Tell her I wouldn't have it
Any other way

People have been talking
Since we been apart
And when I pass I hear them whisper, (ha, ha)
There he goes with a broken heart
But when you see my baby
Here is what you say
Tell her I wouldn't have it
Any other way

That's all I got to say my friend
Now we better say good-bye
I think you better go right now
Or you might see me cry
But when you see my baby
This is what you say
Tell her I wouldn't have it
Any other way
No other way
I wouldn't have it baby
No other way




I just won't have it baby
Any other way

Overall Meaning

In Jackie Shane's song "Sticks and Stones," the singer addresses a friend who has come to check on them on behalf of their ex-partner. The singer tells the friend to relay a message to their ex-partner, that they are happy and "gay" (meaning "joyful" rather than "homosexual"). The singer then acknowledges the gossip that has been circulating about their breakup, but declares that they would not have it any other way. The singer asks the friend to deliver the same message to their ex-partner if they should see them.


The song seems to address the experience of being perceived as heartbroken after a breakup, and perhaps the challenge of getting others to understand that one is doing just fine. The lines "People have been talking / Since we been apart / And when I pass I hear them whisper, (ha, ha) / There he goes with a broken heart" suggest that outsiders are assuming the singer is not over the breakup, and perhaps even finding that amusing. The repetition of the line "I wouldn't have it any other way" emphasizes the singer's conviction that they are better off without their ex-partner, even if others don't see it that way.


Overall, the song could be interpreted as a celebration of independence and self-determination in the face of societal pressure to conform to certain relationship norms. The singer is telling their ex-partner, and anyone else who might be interested, that they are not defined by their romantic relationship and are perfectly happy on their own terms.


Line by Line Meaning

Here you come again
You have returned


And you say that your my friend
You claim to be my friend


But I know why your here
I know your true intentions for coming here


She wants to know how I feel
You are here on behalf of someone who wants to know how I am doing emotionally


Tell her that I am happy
Inform her that I am content and satisfied with my life


Tell her that I am gay
Inform her of my homosexuality


Tell her I wouldn't have it
Make sure she understands that I embrace my identity


Any other way
I wouldn't change who I am


People have been talking
There is gossip circulating


Since we been apart
Since our separation


And when I pass I hear them whisper, (ha, ha)
When I walk by, I overhear them snickering mockingly


There he goes with a broken heart
They believe I am heartbroken


But when you see my baby
If you see my lover


Here is what you say
This is what you should tell them


No other way
There is no alternative


That's all I got to say my friend
I have no more to add to this conversation, my friend


Now we better say good-bye
It is time for you to leave


I think you better go right now
I suggest you leave immediately


Or you might see me cry
Otherwise, I may burst into tears


I just won't have it baby
I will not tolerate anything else


Any other way
I refuse to be any different from who I am




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID J. BRENNER, DEAN HENNING BACK, TIMOTHY R. HART, TYLER PATRICK CONNOLLY

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Comments from YouTube:

@hilmarwensorra1215

In very loving memory of Mrs. Jackie Shane (1940 - 2019 R.I.P. Gone but NOT forgotten).

@michaelnix5560

Mikey's Oldies But Goodies.

@NotStraightCat

great track ! that speed :o

@lendrury2771

It's an unusual song but I really like it

@TexasPieHole

Yasss, Jackie!

@bendex88

Killer piano solo...anyone know who's playing keys?

@richardleonard4281

Curlie Bridges

@johnjackson2044

Thnks grt record thought Jackie was known as a drummer not a piano player? pity their wasn't more R&R earlier cuts by Jackie.

@MissBartira

The pianist was Curley Bridges. The drummer was Larry Ellis. Jackie was just a vocalist in this recording.

@richardleonard4281

@@MissBartira "Just?"

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