How Was It For You
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Well they said you are as good as you look but that
Would be impossible
For you look even better than the face of god on a sunny day
You look good enough to eat but I've had a bellyful

And now I have this bill but I don't want to pay
How was it for you
Do you really need that drink to disarm defences
Can you ever face the flak when you're in control

Well I don't believe my luck I am defenceless
Do with me what you want but don't tell a soul
Don't tell my soul
How was it for you

If you ain't out of your head can you ever enjoy yourself
But if you ain't in your head then who's at home?
I'm so possessed by sex I could destroy my health
We could be dancing over coals and we'd never know

We'd never know
How was it for you
Where did you get those clothes
Are you sure they're still fashionable?

The sell by date says 68
Where did you steal those riffs and that bad attitude
You are travelling back in time to an altered state
How was it for you

Was it as good as it was for me
Well that's the best it's ever been
And you're the best I've ever seen
How was it for you





How was it for you?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to James's song "How Was It For You" explore themes of desire, pleasure, and self-destructive behavior. The singer is physically and emotionally overwhelmed by the object of their desire, whom they describe as "even better than the face of god on a sunny day." However, there is also a sense of guilt and regret present, as the singer laments the consequences of their actions, such as having to pay a bill and potentially compromising their reputation. The lyrics also touch on the idea of self-control and whether it is possible to truly enjoy oneself without letting go of rational thought.


The song's chorus of "How was it for you?" is a common question after sexual encounters, but in this context, it takes on more meaning as the singer is seeking validation and reassurance. Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of intense longing and confusion, as the singer grapples with their own desires and the consequences they bring.


Line by Line Meaning

Well they said you are as good as you look but that Would be impossible For you look even better than the face of god on a sunny day You look good enough to eat but I've had a bellyful
You are considered to be as good as you appear, but that is not possible as you look even better than what we imagine God’s face to be on a good day. Your appearance is so pleasing that I can’t take it anymore.


And now I have this bill but I don't want to pay How was it for you Do you really need that drink to disarm defences Can you ever face the flak when you're in control
I am burdened with this bill which I do not wish to pay. How was the experience for you? Do you really need alcohol to lower your guard? Can you handle the criticism when you are the one in charge?


Well I don't believe my luck I am defenceless Do with me what you want but don't tell a soul Don't tell my soul How was it for you
I can't believe my good fortune, I am powerless. Do what you want with me but don't let anyone know. How was the experience for you?


If you ain't out of your head can you ever enjoy yourself But if you ain't in your head then who's at home? I'm so possessed by sex I could destroy my health We could be dancing over coals and we'd never know We'd never know How was it for you
If you are not in a state of euphoria, can you truly enjoy yourself? But if you are, who is in control of your mind? My fixation on sex could be ruining my health. We could be in a dangerous situation but we would be oblivious to it. How was the experience for you?


Where did you get those clothes Are you sure they're still fashionable?
Where did you acquire your clothing? Are you certain that they are still in style?


The sell by date says 68 Where did you steal those riffs and that bad attitude You are travelling back in time to an altered state How was it for you
These riffs and attitude seem outdated. You seem to have stolen them from a past era. You're going back in time to an alternate realm. How was the experience for you?


Was it as good as it was for me Well that's the best it's ever been And you're the best I've ever seen How was it for you
Did you enjoy the experience as much as I did? Well, it was the best I've ever had. And you are the best I have ever come across. How was the experience for you?


How was it for you
How was the experience for you?




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Juan Francisco

My favorites stanzas:

2:16


We lie awake and feel it warm
I need to feel your feeling hands
We lie awake and rise at dawn
Only your fingers can understand
Your feeling warm
Can understand
The feeling calls
Your feeling hands
It's such a feeling, yeah
It's such a feeling, woah
It's such a feeling, yeah
It's such a feeling, woah
It's such a feeling



Dogstar 74

"How Was It For You?"

Well they said you are as good as you look but that
Would be impossible
For you look even better than the face of God on a sunny day
You look good enough to eat but I've had a bellyful
And now I have this bill but I don't wanna pay
How was it for you
Do you really need that drink to disarm defences
Can you ever face the flak when you're in control
Well I don't believe my luck I am defenceless
Do with me what you want but don't tell a soul
Don't tell my soul
How was it for you
If you ain't out of your head can you ever enjoy yourself
But if you ain't in your head then who's at home?
I'm so possessed by sex I could destroy my health
We could be dancing over coals and we'd never know
We'd never know
How was it for you
Where did you get those clothes
Are you sure they're still fashionable?
The sell by date says 68
Where did you steal those riffs and that bad attitude
You are traveling back in time to an altered state
How was it for you
Was it as good as it was for me
Well that's the best it's ever been
And you're the best I've ever seen
How was it for you
How was it for you?



All comments from YouTube:

alan rhodes

how can anyone not love this song ?

DaveBrittain1

Along with Born of Frustration, this song is these guys finest hour!! Superb 90's track which brings back tons of memories......!

James Ritchie

Runaground and sometimes.

Ben Richards

a hideously underrated band.

Rainbow Rose

100%

Johan Edeling

And here I am -- listening in 2020 lockdown. I guess this could be theme song for 2021

Rabb Monk

Also excellent live, they were in my bucket list for years and seen them about 4 years ago in Manchester.

Lisa Owens

Yep! Ace..

Mike Thompson

Staying power as band full of talented musicians.

David Lavelle

I cannot believe that it is 34 years since I first saw them live at the Manchester Ritz . Still as good as they were then.
Long live James 🌼

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