I Defeat
James Lyrics


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We were doing so well,
We had broken the spell,
And freedom seemed just within reach
We had managed the bend,
Between lover and friend,
Found a place we could possibly meet

Yes it's me,
I can't help myself,
I just run headlong to defeat,
Yes it's me,
I can't help myself,
I defeat, I defeat, I defeat, I defeat

I'm so hard on myself,
Don't deserve any help,
So I must let you go, let you go.
So I pushed you away,
While I hoped you would stay,
But I don't let you know, let you know

Yes it's me,
I can't help myself,
I keep running around to this beat,
Yes it's me,
I can't help myself,
I defeat, I defeat, I defeat, I defeat

Yes it's me,
I can't help myself,
I keep running around to this beat,
Yes it's me,




I can't help myself,
I defeat, I defeat, help me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to James's song "I Defeat" speak about a person's internal struggles and self-sabotage in relationships. At the beginning of the song, the singer reflects on a past relationship where they and their partner "were doing so well" and had "broken the spell," but despite this progress, the singer feels they could not overcome their own self-destructive tendencies. The singer admits that they are "so hard on myself" and do not feel they deserve any help. This insecurity causes them to push their partner away, while at the same time secretly hoping they will stay. The refrain "Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I defeat" emphasizes the singer's feelings of powerlessness and defeat in their actions towards love and relationships.


The song's chorus, with its repetition of "I defeat" and the singer's admission that they cannot help themselves, highlights a cycle of self-defeat and self-sabotage that the singer is caught up in. Despite their desire to connect with others and find love, the singer's negative self-talk and beliefs about themselves lead to them ruining the very relationships they seek.


Overall, "I Defeat" is a poignant reflection on the struggles many face when trying to overcome their own destructive tendencies and form meaningful connections with others.


Line by Line Meaning

We were doing so well,
Things were going great between us


We had broken the spell,
We had overcome any obstacles in our way


And freedom seemed just within reach
We were close to being free from our issues


We had managed the bend,
We had navigated through a difficult situation


Between lover and friend,
Between being in a romantic relationship and being friends


Found a place we could possibly meet
We found a compromise where we could both be happy


Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I just run headlong to defeat,
I am the problem, and I always end up ruining things


I'm so hard on myself, Don't deserve any help,
I am too harsh on myself and don't believe I deserve any assistance


So I must let you go, let you go. So I pushed you away, While I hoped you would stay, But I don't let you know, let you know
I know that I am pushing you away, but I'm too afraid to admit it to you


Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I keep running around to this beat, Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I defeat, I defeat, I defeat, I defeat
I keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again, leading to my own defeat


Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I keep running around to this beat, Yes it's me, I can't help myself, I defeat, I defeat, help me
I know I need help, but I can't seem to break out of this cycle of self-destruction




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: DAVID JOHN BAYNTON-POWER, JAMES GLENNIE, MARK HUNTER, SAUL DAVIES, TIMOTHY BOOTH

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@JohnnyYen-cq7lz

Their voices just go together so well. A few more songs together would have been welcome

@highlevelranter8482

Sinead once had the rare gift of making a grown man cry with a voice that was a gift from God.

@basilvictorhomer

oh I just love this song. Used to play it over and over years ago. With such an accessible melody and emotional lyrics I always felt it could have been a successful a-side in its own right.

@bullyruf

Arguably their best ever. This is perfection. And I don't even like Sinead O'Connor. 'We had managed the bend between lover and friend' - love that line.

@sineadiloveyou

how can you not like her

@johan5943

I agree (and I do like Sinead)

@neilfairhurst4285

Beautiful ❤

@tonycairns6728

Wow, thanks for this! Never heard it before (and I'm a 'James' fan!). Loved SOC in my teens. Check out her collaboration with 'The The' - 'Kingdom of Rain'.

@dolitsa

this is so beautiful!!!!! <3

@CarlosRamos-jn5ri

Que cancion, muy buena james

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