Love Me Or Leave Me
Jane Monheit Lyrics


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Love me or leave me or let me be lonely
You won't believe me but I love you only
I'd rather be lonely than happy with somebody else

You might find the night time the right time for kissing
But night time is my time for just reminiscing
Regretting instead of forgetting with somebody else
There'll be no one unless that someone is you
I intend to be independently blue

I want your love but I don't to borrow
To have it today and to give back tomorrow




My love is your love
There's no love for nobody else

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics to Jane Monheit's song Love Me Or Leave Me, the emotions of a person who is in love with someone but is also committed to their own individuality are expressed. The person expects that whoever they are in love with must either accept them entirely or leave them. Although their love for the other person is genuine, they do not want to be taken for granted or treated unfairly by the other person. The individual would rather be lonely than partaking in a relationship with someone who does not reciprocate their feelings with equal intensity.


The lyrics are poignant and describe the doubts and fears that an individual may have when starting a relationship. Despite their intentions of finding love and affection, they do not want to be vulnerable to any sort of emotional exploitation. The chorus repeats the phrase "Love me or leave me, or let me be lonely," highlighting the individual's strong stance of being able to stand on their own feet and not be clouded by their love for someone else. Furthermore, the lyrics in the second verse, mention how the individual wants to enjoy their own moments of solitude, indulging in contemplation and memories, rather than indulging in a night of passion.


Line by Line Meaning

Love me or leave me or let me be lonely
Either show me your love, set me free or let me be alone


You won't believe me but I love you only
You may not trust me, but I am sincere in my love for you


I'd rather be lonely than happy with somebody else
I prefer to be alone than to be in a relationship with someone else who does not make me truly happy


You might find the night time the right time for kissing
You may think of night time as romantic and perfect for physical intimacy


But night time is my time for just reminiscing
But for me, night time is when I like to remember the past and think deeply


Regretting instead of forgetting with somebody else
Reflecting on the negative instead of moving on with someone else


There'll be no one unless that someone is you
I will not settle down with anyone unless it is you


I intend to be independently blue
I want to embrace my lone and melancholic nature


I want your love but I don't to borrow
I desire your love, but I do not want to get it temporarily only to give it back later


To have it today and to give back tomorrow
To enjoy your love for a brief moment and then let it go quickly


My love is your love
My love belongs to you


There's no love for nobody else
I do not have love for anyone else other than you




Lyrics © DONALDSON PUBLISHING CO, TOBAGO MUSIC COMPANY, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Gus Kahn, Walter Donaldson

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