"That's the Way Love Goes"
Janet Jackson Lyrics


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Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way love goes

Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way
Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
That's the way
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way love goes
Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
That's the way love goes
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way, that's the way love goes

Come with me don't you worry
I'm gonna make you crazy
I'll give you the time of your life
I'm gonna take you places
You've never been before
And you'll be so happy that you came
Oh I'm gonna take you there, ooh
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
Don't mind if I light candles
I like to watch us playin'
Baby I've got on what you like
Come closer baby closer
Reach out and feel my body
I'm gonna give you all my love
Oh sugar don't you hurry
You've got me here all night
Just close your eyes and hold on tight
Oh baby don't stop don't stop
Go deeper, baby, deeper
You feel so good I'm gonna cry

Oh I'm gonna take you there, ooh
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
Don't you know
Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way
That's the way love goes
That's the way
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
That's the way love
That's the way love
That's the way love
That's the way love
That's the way love




That's the way love
That's the way love goes

Overall Meaning

In "That's the Way Love Goes" Janet Jackson sings about the intensity of love, comparing herself to a moth that is drawn to the flame. She notes that her love is blind, unable to see anything but her desire for her partner. Despite this, she is willing to take risks and make her partner crazy, promising to take them to new and exciting places. The lyrics are sensual, as she encourages her partner to explore her body and deepen their connection. She ends the song repeating the chorus, asserting that this is just the way love works.


There are many interpretations of the lyrics, but one possible reading is that Jackson is describing the all-consuming nature of love. When she compares herself to a moth, it suggests that she is helplessly drawn towards her lover, even though she knows it might hurt her in the end. Similarly, when she sings about being burned by the fire, it implies that she is willing to take risks in pursuit of this love. The desire she feels is so strong that it blinds her, preventing her from seeing anything else.


Line by Line Meaning

Like a moth to a flame
An irresistible tendency to pursue something harmful or detrimental


Burned by the fire
Scarred by the love


My love is blind
Unaware of the flaws or faults of the partner


Can't you see my desire
Yearning for intimacy and closeness


That's the way love goes
This is the norm and how it always is


Come with me don't you worry
Do not fret, trust and follow my lead


I'm gonna make you crazy
I will show you new wonders that will blow your mind and thrill you with ecstasy


I'll give you the time of your life
I will make unforgettable memories with you


I'm gonna take you places
I am going to show you new experiences and sensations


You've never been before
Places or acts of intimacy that are new and exciting


And you'll be so happy that you came
You will enjoy the experience immensely


Don't mind if I light candles
Creating an intimate ambiance


I like to watch us playin'
Aroused and stimulated by the intimacy


Baby I've got what you like
I understand and can provide what satisfies you


Come closer baby closer
I want to be closer to you physically and emotionally


Reach out and feel my body
Touch me and experience the intimacy


I'm gonna give you all my love
I will show you undivided attention and affection


Oh sugar don't you hurry
Take your time, enjoy the moment


You've got me here all night
I will devote all my time and attention to you


Just close your eyes and hold on tight
Let go and immerse yourself in this moment


Oh baby don't stop don't stop
Continue, do not halt the passion


Go deeper, baby, deeper
Dig deeper into the passion and connection


You feel so good I'm gonna cry
Emotionally overwhelmed by the pleasure and connection


Don't you know
Are you not aware


That's the way
This is just how it is


That's the way love goes
This is just how love is




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., JANET JACKSON DBA BLACK ICE, BMG Rights Management
Written by: Charles Bobbit, Fred Wesley, James Brown, James Harris III, Janet Jackson, John Starks, Terry Lewis

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