Like You Don't Love Me
Janet Jackson Lyrics


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I saw your manhood rising 'cause you were fantasizing
I guess that model in that lingerie got you excited
That night when I crawled in bed wearing that same teddy bear
You only said, "I love you," kissed me and rolled over and slept

Damn, is that all I get from you?
'Bout to give me an attitude
You need to make love to me
Like you don't love me then

Don't have to be gentle, tonight
Just be an animal tonight
You need to make love to me
Like you don't love me

Just do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

Do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

Why you be tellin' your boys how you been breaking me off?
Must be somebody else who's back you broke
'Cause I didn't get none

You up at three in the morn
Watchin' that triple-X porn
But you're so tired when you make love to me
What did you learn?

Damn, is that all I get from you?
'Bout to give me an attitude
You need to make love to me
Like you don't love me then

Don't have to be gentle, tonight
Just be an animal tonight
You need to make love to me
Like you don't love me

Just do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

Do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

Do me, baby
Do me, baby
Do me, baby, yeah
That's right, come on

Get it ready, baby
Hit it like this, baby, ooh, yeah

Do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

Just do me, baby
Come on and drive me crazy
Act like I'm not your lady
And do me like you wanna do them other girls

When you look at me
Do you want me just for what you see?
Do you think I'm that person that you watch on TV?
There's another side that I don't hide
But may never show




Damita Jo
Thank you

Overall Meaning

Janet Jackson's song, Love Me, features explicit and bold lyrics that focus on the singer's frustrations with her lover's lack of passion and intimacy in their relationship. The first verse depicts the singer's dissatisfaction with her partner's lack of interest in her, indicating that her lover only showed callous attention to her when she wore it for someone else. The chorus urges the lover to be more aggressive and forceful in bed, to show a greater level of passion similar to the way he treats other women. Jackson sings with confidence and assertiveness, demanding more sexual pleasure with powerful sexual overtones.


The second verse brings her lover's infidelity to light, claiming that while he boasts about his sexual prowess to his friends, he underperforms when alone with her. Jackson demands that he make love to her with the same sense of urgency and ferocity he seems to show to other women. The bridge of the song removes the sexual connotation and plays into the insecurity that Jackson feels in her relationship. She questions whether her lover's attraction to her is merely physical, or he perceives her the same as a person from TV.


Overall, the song speaks to the need for passion, intimacy, and excitement in a relationship. The lyrics emphasize expression, boldness, and intensity, sending a clear message that Jackson wants more from her partner.


Line by Line Meaning

I saw your manhood rising 'cause you were fantasizing
I noticed your body reacting because you were imagining something sexual


I guess that model in that lingerie got you excited
I assume that the image of a model wearing lingerie turned you on


That night when I crawled in bed wearing that same teddy bear
On that particular night, I got into bed wearing the same lingerie


You only said, "I love you," kissed me and rolled over and slept
You just said you love me, gave me a kiss, and went to sleep without showing any further affection


Damn, is that all I get from you?
Is that really the extent of your affection towards me?


'Bout to give me an attitude
I'm on the verge of getting upset


You need to make love to me Like you don't love me then
You should have sex with me as if you don't love me at all


Don't have to be gentle, tonight Just be an animal tonight
You don't have to be gentle tonight, just be passionate and intense


Just do me, baby Come on and drive me crazy Act like I'm not your lady And do me like you wanna do them other girls
Just have sex with me, make me go wild like I'm not your girlfriend and you can do whatever you want with me like how you do with other girls


Why you be tellin' your boys how you been breaking me off?
Why are you bragging to your friends about how you've been satisfying me sexually?


Must be somebody else who's back you broke 'Cause I didn't get none
It must be somebody else that you're satisfying sexually because you haven't been doing anything for me


You up at three in the morn Watchin' that triple-X porn But you're so tired when you make love to me What did you learn?
You stay up watching pornography until the early hours of the morning but you're not very energetic when you make love to me, what have you learned from watching that?


Do me, baby Come on and drive me crazy Act like I'm not your lady And do me like you wanna do them other girls
Have sex with me, treat me like I'm not your girlfriend and do whatever you want with me like you do with other girls


Do me, baby, yeah That's right, come on Get it ready, baby Hit it like this, baby, ooh, yeah
Have sex with me right now, and prepare yourself for a wild ride and hit it aggressively just like that


When you look at me Do you want me just for what you see? Do you think I'm that person that you watch on TV? There's another side that I don't hide But may never show Damita Jo
When you look at me, do you only desire me for my appearance and think of me as the person you see on television? There is another side to me that I don't reveal often, but it's a part that I may never show.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Hipgnosis Songs Group
Written by: Mark Hall, Lolita Gooden, Terry Lewis, Issiah Avila, Bobby Ross Jr. Avila, James Samuel III Harris

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