That's the Way Love Goes
Janet Jackson Lyrics


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Like a moth to a flame
Burned by the fire
My love is blind
Can't you see my desire
That's the way love goes

(That's the way love)
(That's the way love)
(That's the way love goes)

Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire (that's the way)
My love is blind, can't you see my desire? (That's the way)
Like a moth to a flame, burned by the fire (that's the way)
My love is blind, can't you see my desire?

That's the way love goes
Like a moth to a flame, burned by the fire
(That's the way, that's the way, that's the way love goes)
That's the way love goes
My love is blind, can't you see my desire?
(That's the way, that's the way, that's the way love goes)

Come with me, don't you worry
I'm gonna make you crazy
I'll give you the time of your life
I'm gonna take you places
You've never been before and
You'll be so happy that you came
Ooh, I'm gonna take you there, ooh

That's the way love goes (ooh)
That's the way love goes
(That's the way love goes)
That's the way love goes (desire) (that's the way)
That's the way love goes (desire)
(That's the way, that's the way love goes)

Don't mind if I light candles
I like to watch us play and
Baby, I've got on what you like
Come closer, baby, closer
Reach out and feel my body
I'm gonna give you all my love (that's the way love goes)
Ooh, sugar don't you hurry
You've got me here all night
Just close your eyes and hold on tight
(That's the way, that's the way)
Ooh, baby, don't stop, don't stop
Go deeper, baby, deeper
You feel so good I'm gonna cry
Oh, I'm gonna take you there, ooh

That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
(That's the way love goes, it goes, it goes)
That's the way love goes
Ooh, that's the way love goes
(That's the way love goes)
That's the way love goes
Oh, that's the way love goes
Don't you know (oh), that's the way

Like a moth to a flame, burned by the fire (yeah)
My love is blind, can't you see my desire?
Like a moth to a flame, burned by the fire
My love is blind, can't you see my desire? (Baby, yeah)

That's the way, that's the way (ooh)
That's the way, that's the way (that's the way love goes)
That's the way, that's the way, that's the way love goes
That's the way love goes
(That's the way, that's the way)
(That's the way, that's the way) that's the way love goes, it goes, it goes
(That's the way, that's the way)
That's the way love goes

That's the way love goes
That's the way love goes, ooh (that's the way love goes)
That's the way love goes (that's the way love goes)

That's the way love, that's the way love, that's the way love




That's the way love, that's the way love, that's the way love
That's the way love goes

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Janet Jackson's "That's the Way Love Goes" describe her obsession with someone. She compares herself to a moth to a flame, burned by the fire of her own desire. Her love is blind, as she can't help but follow her passion to be with this person. She sings about taking this person to new heights and giving them the time of their life. She wants to explore and connect with them intimately, even lighting candles to set the mood. The chorus repeats several times, emphasizing the intense nature of her love and desire.


The theme of Janet Jackson's "That's the Way Love Goes" is one of passion and unbridled desire. The lyrics and melody are sensual and sultry, creating a seductive atmosphere. The song was released as the lead single from her fifth studio album in 1993 and was an immediate hit. It stayed on top of the Billboard Hot 100 charts for eight consecutive weeks, making it one of her most successful singles to date. It also won a Grammy award for Best R&B Song in 1994. The song's music video was also well-received, showcasing Janet's sultry dance moves and fashion sense.


Line by Line Meaning

Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire
My attraction to you is so strong, it's like I am drawn to you like a moth to a flame, but I know your love will hurt me just like a moth that is burned by a flame.


My love is blind, can't you see my desire?
I am so deeply in love with you that it's clouding my judgment, and no matter what, all I want is to be with you. Can't you see my intense desire for you?


Come with me, don't you worry
I know you may have doubts, but let go and trust me. I will make sure you have the time of your life.


I'm gonna take you places you've never been before
I will introduce you to new experiences and adventures. Being with me will bring you joy and happiness like you have never felt before.


You feel so good I'm gonna cry
Being intimate with you is so intense, it brings tears to my eyes. Your touch is like nothing I've ever felt before.


That's the way love goes
This is what love feels like. It's not always straightforward or predictable, but this is the way true love goes.




Lyrics © JANET JACKSON DBA BLACK ICE, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Charles Fred Bobbitt, Fred Wesley, Janet Jackson, James Brown, James Samuel III Harris, John Starks, Terry Lewis

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Comments from YouTube:

@eberjom9119

Who else wishes the vibe & feel of the 90's was around right now? I can't be the only one

@djmikeholmes6214

The 90's music scene was a moment in time that will never be repeated. R'n'B, Hip-Hop & House all superb. Best days of my life. What a decade!!! ;-)))

@craiga1609

Miss the 90s

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Hell nah you ain't the only one lol

@bathalamulejackson8965

Man I wish it never turned into the 2000s.. I feel like when that happened our world as we knew it was over..😢😢😢

@vandalynwilkerson3498

@@bathalamulejackson8965 I AGREE IT BECAME WORSE.

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@cynthiasicurella4264

This song always gives me chills. Love Janet and the vibe.

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hello lady how are you doing?

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Isiyio na wakati..

@Kiddo1814yeah

This song was all over the place in the summer of 1993. MTV and radio played this all day long. Janet was the queen of everything back in the 90s. We should appreciate her much more these days. Justice for janet ❤

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