You Were Never Mine
Janiva Magness Lyrics


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I saw someone again today who remembered me and you
They asked all the same old questions, I gave the same excuse
They said, "What a shame, what a shame, to lose a love so fine"

But I never lost you, I never lost you
I never lost you, you were never mine

I kept on believing what I wanted to believe
The unspoken promises that you could never keep
But it's a sin, oh, it's a sin to tell yourself a lie

I never lost you, I never lost you
I never lost you, you were never mine

Did you give me all that you gave me just because I needed you
But when I needed, all your love completely was it more than you could do

Sometimes deep in the night when I hold you in my dreams
I get lost in your loving touch, baby, I can't believe how real it seems
And I know, yes I know, I'll have you till the end of time

'Cause I never lost you, I never really lost you
I never lost you 'cause you were never mine




I never lost you, I never really lost you
How could I lose you, you were never mine

Overall Meaning

Janiva Magness's song "You Were Never Mine" explores the idea of unrequited love and how it can be a form of self-deception. The singer in the song is reflecting on a past love and encounters someone who remembers their relationship, but the singer insists that they never really lost the person because they were never truly theirs to begin with. Despite the promises that were made and the love that was given, the relationship was never fully realized and the singer was left with the painful realization that they were living a lie.


The lyrics suggest that the singer may have been giving more to the relationship than their partner was capable of giving back. The line "Did you give me all that you gave me just because I needed you / But when I needed, all your love completely was it more than you could do" suggests that the singer may have been relying on their partner for emotional support, while the partner ultimately may not have been capable of sustaining that level of intimacy.


The final verse of the song acknowledges that the singer still holds onto the memory of their lost love, even if it was never fully realized. The line "And I know, yes I know, I'll have you till the end of time" suggests that the singer will always carry the memory of this person with them, even if they can't be together in reality. It's a bittersweet ending that acknowledges the pain of unrequited love while also recognizing the beauty and power of holding onto memories.


Line by Line Meaning

I saw someone again today who remembered me and you
Today, I saw someone who reminded me of our past relationship.


They asked all the same old questions, I gave the same excuse
When asked about our relationship, I gave the same response I always do.


They said, "What a shame, what a shame, to lose a love so fine"
The person I talked to expressed regret over the end of our relationship, as they thought it was a great love.


But I never lost you, I never lost you I never lost you, you were never mine
I did not lose you as you were not truly mine to begin with.


I kept on believing what I wanted to believe
I held onto my own version of the story and what I wanted to believe despite the reality of the situation.


The unspoken promises that you could never keep
You made promises to me without actually saying them, but in reality, you could never keep them.


But it's a sin, oh, it's a sin to tell yourself a lie
It's wrong to continue deceiving oneself and believing in a lie.


Did you give me all that you gave me just because I needed you But when I needed, all your love completely was it more than you could do
I question if you truly gave me everything or if it was only because I needed you, and when I needed you the most, you couldn't give me all of your love.


Sometimes deep in the night when I hold you in my dreams I get lost in your loving touch, baby, I can't believe how real it seems And I know, yes I know, I'll have you till the end of time
In my dreams, I hold onto the memory of your love and feel lost in the moment. Even though we're no longer together, I know that I'll have this memory of you forever.


'Cause I never lost you, I never really lost you I never lost you 'cause you were never mine I never lost you, I never really lost you How could I lose you, you were never mine
I never lost you because you were never truly mine to begin with, and therefore, how could I have actually lost you?




Writer(s): Delbert Ross Mc Clinton, Benmont M. Tench, Gary Tolbert Nicholson

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@KateMagicMusic

I saw someone again today
Who remembered me and you
They asked all the same old questions
I gave the same excuse.
They said what a shame, what a shame
To lose a love so fine.
But I never lost you
I never really lost you
I never lost you
You were never mine

I kept on believing
What I wanted to believe
The unspoken promises
Them that you could never keep
But it's a sin, oh, it's a sin to tell yourself a lie
But I never lost you
I never lost you
I never lost you
You were never mine

Did you give me all that you gave me
Just because, 'cause I needed you
But when I needed all your love completely
Was it more, more than you could do

Sometimes deep in the night
When I hold you in my dreams
I get lost in your loving touch, baby
I can't believe how real it seems
And I know, Lord, I know
I'll have you 'til the end of time
'Cause I never lost you
I never lost you
I never lost you
'Cause you were never mine

I never lost you
I never really lost you
How could I lose you
'Cause you were never mine.

➡️(I'm sure it happened at least once, to all of us. And the worst is that, in front of our heart's needs, no reason wins...) ❤️



@neemeshraimusic3730

I saw someone again today
Who remembered me and you
They asked all the same old questions
I gave the same excuse
They said what a shame, what a shame
To lose a love so fine
But I never lost you
I never really lost you
I never lost you
You were never mine
I kept on believing
What I wanted to believe
The unspoken promises
Them that you could never keep
But it's a sin, oh, it's a sin to tell yourself a lie
But I never lost you
I never lost you
I never lost you
You were never mine
Did you give me all that you gave me
Just because, 'cause I needed you
But when I needed all your love completely
Was it more, more than you could do
Sometimes deep in the night
When I hold you in my dreams
I get lost in your loving touch, baby
I can't believe how real it seems
And I know, Lord, I know
I'll have you 'til the end of time
'Cause I never lost you
I never lost you
I never lost you
'Cause you were never mine
I never lost you
I never really lost you
How could I lose you
'Cause you were never mine



@sjcaplan18

Mari, you got me again!
I met a girl, in my second year of college. We fell madly in love.
At the end of the year, I decided to travel through Europe alone.
It was something I felt, that I needed to do for my "self".
I planned to travel for two months, and had enough money saved for just that.
I ended up travelling to 12 countries and living in Copenhagen for two months, then went all through Sweden, Norway, and down through Germany, Belgium, France, Spain, Portugal, and took a long train ride along the Riviera of all the Mediterranean countries.
I stopped in Barcelona for one month. Then onto Italy, Greece, and flew to Israel for a six month stay. Had a fantastic time. Slept in a tent and had a small gas stove, that I bought in Belgium. I ate bread with strawberry jam everyday.
Anyway, I finally went home to Cape Cod, to see my love.
I don't know what happened in my heart over the many months that I was gone? She loved me like no other... I moved down to Florida and worked on oil rigs out of Louisiana, in the gulf of Mexico. I did that for 6 months.
I also worked on oil boats for awhile. I then went back to university. My life took off from there and after graduating first in my class in both, psychology and philosophy, and being offered a professorship in philosophy, I went to grad school for psychology.
After some time, my father, who was in the shoe business, offered me a job to live in Hong Kong, and travel through Asia producing all different types of shoes. I lived there ten years.
Spent, 80% of the time in China. Learned Cantonese and Mandarin. Lived in five beautiful hotels in different provinces in China. I had a really interesting and good time. Met so many good people. All government factory workers. Managers of factories, making $40USD a month! The girls in the factories made $18USD a month. No one really spoke English, but I learned just enough Chinese to convey good feelings to these people. Many good friends all over China, but it was work, and when I left, I never had contact with anyone again.
That's part of life, Mari. We connect and then leave, though we leave a part of our selves with each person and they to us. I think of that girl I fell in love with almost every day, 40 years later! She was mine, but I was never hers! Thank you, Mari!



All comments from YouTube:

@johnanthony9313

In 75 years I've heard all the best female singers....none of them can touch Janiva for feeling, control, phrasing.....unique reality of expression. It's personal. I love this woman...which is just fine 'cos she is my daughter in law LOL

@wander-a-lottravel8091

Why is this lady not more well known? I’ve loved her music for years.

@michelemiller9403

I agree

@user-hg1wd6xo4e

Каким же надо быть богом одарённым человеком, чтобы создавать такие прекрасные композиции!!!

@nhl1798

Я оставил многим своим друзьям ваши комменты. Но только теперь начал понимать что для этого надо созреть—дорасти душевными стенаниями. Поражён тем что постоянно хочется послушать ваши композиции. Переосмысление жизни происходит быстрее. Новы не переживайте. Вас услышат те кто готов душевными порывами к этому!

@evarosen9557

Så mycket känslor

@larisasirikova6246

Благодарю вас, Mari! Вы - солнышко при любой погоде!

@cynthiaguthrie2409

for 5 years i was in love with a man who claimed to love me, but i began to see that i was always his last option, so i walked away and it hurt so bad and then someone sent me this song and i listened to it and cried. He was never mine. i started to reach for the phone to call him but i put it down because i knew then that he was never mine.

@pamspencer5733

Dignity 💪muscle flexing❣️

@RayRay-cn8rg

Good on you Girl !

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