Excuses
Jasmine Trias Lyrics


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This I gotta tell ya so you can't even act surprised
I'll be gone tomorrow
It's too late to apologize
I don't want to beg you to treat me like you need to
It's gonna hurt me but I gotta go
I thought I could change ya
But I really had to check myself
I can't seem to change ya and I'm just going through hell
I refuse to do it anymore
What am I still here for if your heart ain't in it no more

I can't make you love me
Make you want me
Ain't no excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy
You're leaving me no choice
There's no excuse at all
I can't make you need me
Make you happy
Cause you make excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy
You're leaving me no choice
And there's no excuse at all

Why you want to play me like I don't know what's going on
Calling you all day and you're not picking up your phone
I don't have the patience to keep on waiting when I know its going nowhere
You promised you would tell me if ever something might've changed
You can keep your word because I know that it's just not the same
So just be a man about it
And tell me if your heart ain't in it no more

I can't make you love me
Make you want me
Ain't no excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy
You're leaving me no choice
There's no excuse at all
I can't make you need me
Make you happy
Cause you make excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy
You're leaving me no choice
And there's no excuse at all

I can try to deny and that you're still mine
Say one day that you'll come around
But babe we can get it back
Maybe we'll make it right
But the love we've lost can't be found
And all these excuses that are making so much time that I've wasted
Tomorrow it'll all be over
And all your days will be a little bit colder without me

I can't make you love me
Make you want me
Ain't no excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy
You're leaving me no choice
There's no excuse at all
Make you need me
Make you happy
Cause you make excuses boy
I'm about to lose it boy




You're leaving me no choice
And there's no excuse at all

Overall Meaning

In Jasmine Trias's song "Excuses," the singer is breaking free from a relationship where she has tried to change her partner for the better, but to no avail. She realizes that her partner's heart is no longer in the relationship, and she is tired of making excuses for why things aren't working out. The singer is coming to terms with the fact that she cannot force her partner to love or want her, and it's time to move on. She's frustrated with the lack of communication and effort in the relationship, and she's no longer willing to wait for things to change. The lyrics display a sense of empowerment as the singer takes control of her own happiness and decides to leave the relationship for good.


The chorus repeats the phrase "I can't make you" in regards to love, want, need, and happiness. This repetition reinforces the idea that the singer can't control her partner's feelings or actions, and she's no longer willing to try. The lyric "there's no excuse at all" further emphasizes that the partner's behavior is unacceptable and the singer won't tolerate any more excuses. Jasmine Trias's soulful vocals and honest lyrics make "Excuses" a relatable breakup song that captures the frustration and complexity of ending a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

This I gotta tell ya so you can't even act surprised
I need to tell you something that might not surprise you


I'll be gone tomorrow
I'm leaving soon


It's too late to apologize
You can't make it right at this point


I don't want to beg you to treat me like you need to
I shouldn't have to plead with you to treat me well


It's gonna hurt me but I gotta go
Leaving you will be painful for me


I thought I could change ya
I believed I could influence you


But I really had to check myself
I realized I was wrong


I can't seem to change ya and I'm just going through hell
Trying to change you is torture to me


I refuse to do it anymore
I won't continue to try to change you


What am I still here for if your heart ain't in it no more
Why stay if you're not invested in our relationship?


I can't make you love me
I can't force you to love me


Make you want me
I can't make you desire me


Ain't no excuses boy
You have no excuse


I'm about to lose it boy
I'm getting close to losing my patience


You're leaving me no choice
You're not giving me any other options


There's no excuse at all
You have no valid reason


I can't make you need me
I can't make you feel like you need me


Make you happy
I can't make you happy


Cause you make excuses boy
You keep coming up with excuses


Why you want to play me like I don't know what's going on
Why are you trying to deceive me?


Calling you all day and you're not picking up your phone
I've been trying to contact you but you're not answering


I don't have the patience to keep on waiting when I know its going nowhere
I don't want to continue waiting for something that's not going to happen


You promised you would tell me if ever something might've changed
You said you would inform me if anything altered


You can keep your word because I know that it's just not the same
You can keep your promise because things are different now


So just be a man about it
Handle the situation maturely


And tell me if your heart ain't in it no more
If you are not committed, communicate that to me


I can try to deny and that you're still mine
I could deny that you still belong to me


Say one day that you'll come around
Hope that one day you'll realize your mistake


But babe we can get it back
We can recover our relationship


Maybe we'll make it right
Possibly, we can correct things


But the love we've lost can't be found
We can't find the love we've lost


And all these excuses that are making so much time that I've wasted
All the excuses you've made wasted my time


Tomorrow it'll all be over
It will end tomorrow


And all your days will be a little bit colder without me
Your life won't be as warm without me




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