The Life You Chose
Jason Isbell Lyrics


Who are you if not the one I met?
One July night before the town went wet
Jack and coke in your mama's car
You were reading The Bell Jar

Where are you if you're not on your own?
You're always lonely, never quite alone
Where's the Jesus that you swore you'd find?
After running the last line
Are you living the life you chose?
Are you living the life that chose you?
Are you taking a grown-up dose?
Do you live with a man who knows you like I
Thought I did back then
Oh, but I guess I never did
Did I, kid?

I got lucky when I finished school
Lost three fingers to a faulty tool
Settled out of court, I'm no one's fool
You probably knew

There's plenty left to make a getaway
We've spent enough nights in the bluegrass state
We could go somewhere where people stay up late
Or just somewhere new

Are you living the life you chose?
Are you living the life that chose you?
Are you taking a grown-up dose?
Do you live with a man who knows you like I
Thought I did back then
Oh, but I guess I never did
Did I, kid?

Here I am inviting you to throw your life away
Victim of nostalgia maybe take away
Just tonight I realized I am still in your backseat
Nothing I've had since has meant a thing to me

Are you living the life you chose?
Are you living the life that chose you?
Are you taking a grown-up dose?
Do you live with a man who knows you like I
Thought I did back then
Oh, but I guess I never did
Did I, kid?


Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing



Written by: Jason Isbell

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Terminal Lumbago

This and "Last of my Kind" are my two favorites of his. Jason Isbell is amazing.

Catherine S. Todd

Love every single thing by Jason Isbell. Where do his story songs come from? It's a miracle. His talent is such a gift.

Terminal Lumbago

Probably from personal experience or the experience of those close to him?

Benjamin Kravitz

Catherine S. Todd he was an alcoholic and was kicked out of the drive by truckers read his story it’s interesting.

Songs From Spring Creek Ave

There are a lot of artist that I love, but none of them stir my emotions like Jason Isbell. Absolutely brilliant!

Nick Randles

"Do you live with a man who knows you like I thought I did back then." But I guess I never did......did I, kid?" Nails me and my ex-fiance perfectly. Thank you Jason.

Nick Randles

Darin- USMC B- 85-93 hey Marine :) I'm currently at NATTC Pensacola at A school with some of your younger brothers.. I'm Navy. The Marines are here with me. Thanks for knowing what the heartbreak of an old flame does and can relate. Hell it's way worse than the military :) Hooyah and fuckin Oorahh

Darin- USMC B- 85-93

Nick Randles
Me too brother ,
One I thought I’d get over,
But 30 years later the love & pain is just as real.
Maybe it’ll go away tomorrow.

James Howard

That drummer just carried this song.. just wow.

Tacoma Off Road

So legit. My new favorite song on this crazy good album. That beat and his always awesome lyrics make for brilliance!

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