A Beautiful Mess
Jason Mraz Lyrics


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You've got the best of both worlds
You're the kind of girl who can take down a man
And lift him back up again
You are strong but you're needy
Humble but you're greedy
And based on your body language
And shoddy cursive I've been reading
You're style is quite selective
Though your mind is rather reckless
Well I guess it just suggests that this is just what happiness is

And what a beautiful mess this is
It's like we're picking up trash in dresses

Well it kind of hurts when the kind of words you write
Kind of turn themselves into knives
And don't mind my nerve you could call it fiction
But I like being submerged in your contradictions, dear
'Cause here we are, here we are

Although you were biased I love your advice
Your comebacks they're quick And probably have to do with your insecurities
There's no shame in being crazy
Depending on how you take these
Words I'm paraphrasing this relationship we're staging

And it's a beautiful mess, this is
It's like, picking up trash in dresses

Well it kind of hurts when the kind of words you say
Kind of turn themselves into blades
Kind and courteous is a life I've heard
But it's nice to say that we played in the dirt
Oh dear
'Cause here we are, here we are

Here we are
Here we are
Here we are
Here we are

Here we are
Here we are
Here we are
We're still here

What a beautiful mess this is
It's like taking a guess when the only answer is yes

And through timeless words and priceless pictures
We'll fly like birds not of this earth
And tides they turn and hearts disfigure
But that's no concern when we're wounded together




And we tore our dresses and stained our shirts
But it's nice today, oh, the wait was so worth it

Overall Meaning

Jason Mraz’s “A Beautiful Mess” is a song that describes the complexity and beauty of a relationship with a woman who is a mix of strength and vulnerability. The opening lines “You’ve got the best of both worlds. You're the kind of girl who can take down a man and lift him back up again” suggests that the woman is strong and independent, but still has a need for love and companionship. The lyrics also indicate that the woman has a selective taste in style, yet her mind is reckless, revealing her inner conflicts.


Mraz’s words demonstrate a remarkable talent for observing the wonderful chaos that comes with life, as seen in the lines, “It’s like we’re picking up trash in dresses” and “It’s like taking a guess when the only answer is yes.” The song goes on to describe the pain and hurt that can come with a relationship, such as the way words can turn into knives that cut deep, but also shows the beauty in the imperfections and willingness to take risks in love. The final lines of the song paint a picture of the couple overcoming the obstacles together, and that through all the struggles and messiness, the wait was worth it.


Overall, “A Beautiful Mess” is an honest portrayal of the ups and downs of a relationship, with lyrics that beautifully capture the complexities of human emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

You've got the best of both worlds
You possess the qualities of both strengths and weaknesses.


You're the kind of girl who can take down a man
You have strength and are formidable.


And lift him back up again
You can help people regain their strength.


You are strong but you're needy
You have strength but also need support.


Humble but you're greedy
You are modest but also have desires and wants.


And based on your body language
Your physical cues tell me things.


And shoddy cursive I've been reading
I've been trying to interpret your writing.


You're style is quite selective
You are careful about your tastes and preferences.


Though your mind is rather reckless
You have a tendency to be impulsive and irrational.


Well I guess it just suggests that this is just what happiness is
This mix of traits and tendencies is what creates happiness for you.


And what a beautiful mess this is
This combination of strengths and weaknesses is beautiful and complex.


It's like we're picking up trash in dresses
We're engaged in a messy situation, disguised by nice clothing.


Well it kind of hurts when the kind of words you write
Your words can be hurtful.


Kind of turn themselves into knives
Your words can be cutting and painful.


And don't mind my nerve you could call it fiction
I may be overreacting, but your words still affect me.


But I like being submerged in your contradictions, dear
I enjoy the mix of your different traits, even when they contradict each other.


'Cause here we are, here we are
Despite the challenges, we are still together.


Although you were biased I love your advice
Even when you had a particular viewpoint, I value your input.


Your comebacks they're quick And probably have to do with your insecurities
Your responses are speedy and may be a result of your own doubts.


There's no shame in being crazy
It's okay to have confusing or irrational thoughts and feelings.


Depending on how you take these
It varies how you may perceive my words.


Words I'm paraphrasing this relationship we're staging
I'm trying to describe the dynamic of our relationship.


It's like, picking up trash in dresses
We're still dealing with a difficult situation, dressed up nicely.


Well it kind of hurts when the kind of words you say
Your words can be painful and affecting.


Kind of turn themselves into blades
Your words can be sharp and cutting.


Kind and courteous is a life I've heard
It's commonly said to live life with kindness and respect.


But it's nice to say that we played in the dirt
It's refreshing to step outside of societal expectations and push boundaries.


Oh dear
An expression of acknowledgement, maybe with a hint of sarcasm.


'Cause here we are, here we are
We're still together, despite the challenges.


Here we are
Another nod to the fact that we're still together.


We're still here
Despite everything, we're here and pushing through.


What a beautiful mess this is
Our complicated relationship is still beautiful and valuable.


It's like taking a guess when the only answer is yes
Our relationship is adventurous and exciting, even when it's unpredictable.


And through timeless words and priceless pictures
We'll create memories that last forever.


We'll fly like birds not of this earth
We'll experience a freedom that is beyond this world.


And tides they turn and hearts disfigure
Change and heartbreak may occur.


But that's no concern when we're wounded together
We'll support each other through the tough times.


And we tore our dresses and stained our shirts
We've made mistakes and taken risks.


But it's nice today, oh, the wait was so worth it
It can be difficult, but the end result is worth it.




Lyrics © Goo-Eyed Music
Written by: Jason Mraz, Rebecca Emily Gebhardt, Mai Sunshine Bloomfield, Mona Tavaloki, Chaska Lela Potter

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Comments from YouTube:

@wweliceo

I discovered this song when I was 15. Thought I find the love of my life at 21, and dedicated this song to her. And now that I'm single again, after struggle with mental problems and depression, I give a meaning to that last line Jason sings: "Oh the wait was so worth it", hey, lots of things had to happen until you find you have yourself forever, you are here, alive, you don't need nobody, just your mental health and the calm this songs bring to you. Thanks Mr. A-z

@sweetgeorgia70

Wish you all the best!

@jenniferelliott9197

Thank you I needed to hear that.

@wweliceo

@@sweetgeorgia70 Hey! thanks, the same for u

@wweliceo

@@jenniferelliott9197 :)

@gel2795

I also found this song when I was 15 thru endless scrolling here on YouTube. I thought it was so beautiful before. Now that I'm 23, I cried when I heard this version. I was wrong at 15. This song was never beautiful - it was BEYOND beautiful. I understand the lyrics now, it pierced inch by inch through my skin. And it was as beautiful as the first time I heard it, 8 years ago.

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@KimmyGibson

Jason....do you have any idea how BEAUTIFUL your voice is? My sons and I have come to see you countless times and each show is more BEAUTIFUL than the last. Thank you for sharing your songwriting and vocals with the world! We are blessed to hear it.

@jerryperry1788

We sing ,we dance ,we steal thing is one of the greatest album of Jason Mraz of all time

@zafk_11

This song is one of my all-time favourite song. I would listen to this 1000 times over and still loving every second of it. Thank you Jason Mraz

@pkgodie8001

This makes me cry every time I hear it. I know that a man isn’t supposed to be sensitive like that but the meaning behind the lyrics is something else. The first time I heard this song was 4 years ago when I was a freshman in high school. This is the only song that can make me cry. I know that this song is supposed to be about love but I’ve never fallen in love with anyone yet. I just graduated high school on May 24th 2022 and listening to this song once again still has the same feeling from the first time I heard it. When I get married I want this song to play at my wedding during the slow dance part.

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