This Is It
Jay & The Americans Lyrics


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(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
I know that this is it for me
(Ah ah ah) She doesn't want me anymore
(Ah ah ah) Somehow my touch just misses
I know that this is it for me

(So turn on the sun) I need the sunlight
(Ah ah ah) Need its glow to make things bright
Without her, every day is black as night
(And bring out the moon) I need the moonlight
(Ah ah ah) Brighter than it's ever shone
She's gone and I am so alone

(But she cried for me) When she cried for me
(Yes she cried for me) Yes she cried for me
(And she) wo wo oh oh (could've laid down and died for me)

(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
I know that this is it for me

(This is it) Goodbye
(This is it) and so long, my little girl




(This is it) and I know, I know, I know
(This is it) That this is it for me

Overall Meaning

The song This Is It by Jay & The Americans is a poignant and melancholic depiction of a man coming to terms with the end of a romantic relationship. The lyrics are filled with desperation and heartache as the singer realizes that the woman he loves no longer wants him or his affections. The imagery of darkness and light, with references to the sun and the moon, is used to convey the depth of his loneliness.


The opening lines ("She doesn't love me anymore / She doesn't want my kisses") set the tone for the entire song, and the repetition of the refrain ("This is it for me") only serves to emphasize the man's sense of finality and hopelessness. He feels that he has reached the end of the road, and there is no way to salvage the relationship. The line "Somehow my touch just misses" suggests a sense of futility and frustration, as if he has exhausted every possible means of winning her back.


However, there is a glimmer of hope in the reference to how she cried for him, and how she "could've laid down and died for me." This suggests that perhaps the woman still has feelings for him, but for some reason, she just can't bring herself to love him anymore. The song ends with a final farewell ("Goodbye / and so long, my little girl"), as the singer accepts that this is the end of the road for him.


Line by Line Meaning

(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
The singer's partner no longer loves him and has likely fallen out of love with him.


(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
The singer's partner no longer desires intimacy with him and likely is no longer attracted to him.


I know that this is it for me
The singer believes that his relationship with his partner is over and there is no chance of reconciliation.


(Ah ah ah) She doesn't want me anymore
The artist's partner no longer desires his company and wants to be away from him.


(Ah ah ah) Somehow my touch just misses
The artist's partner does not enjoy physical contact with him and may feel uncomfortable or repulsed by it.


I know that this is it for me
The singer is certain that he and his partner cannot continue their relationship and that it is permanently over.


(So turn on the sun) I need the sunlight
The singer is in a dark emotional place and needs the happiness and hope represented by sunlight to improve his mood.


(Ah ah ah) Need its glow to make things bright
The artist requires the positivity and brightness that the sun provides to alleviate his emotional distress.


Without her, every day is black as night
The artist's partner was his source of happiness and positivity, and without her in his life, everything seems dark and negative to him.


(And bring out the moon) I need the moonlight
The artist feels alone and requires the emotional support and comfort that the moon's light represents.


(Ah ah ah) Brighter than it's ever shone
The singer needs the moon's light to be more powerful and comforting than it ever has been before because he is in such a low emotional state.


She's gone and I am so alone
The artist's partner has left him, and he is now lonely without her companionship.


(But she cried for me) When she cried for me
The singer remembers when his partner expressed emotions for him and misses those feelings of love and affection.


(Yes she cried for me) Yes she cried for me
The singer confirms that his partner had feelings for him but acknowledges that those feelings are now gone.


(And she) wo wo oh oh (could've laid down and died for me)
The singer's partner was once very devoted to him and would have done anything for him.


(This is it) Goodbye
The artist realizes that his relationship is permanently over and that he must say goodbye to his partner.


(This is it) and so long, my little girl
The artist bids farewell to his partner using a term of endearment, acknowledging that he has fond memories of their relationship.


(This is it) and I know, I know, I know
The singer accepts that his relationship is over and that there is no chance of it continuing or restarting.


(This is it) That this is it for me
The singer reiterates that he understands his relationship has come to an end, and he is at peace with this realization, albeit somewhat reluctantly.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Missing Link Music, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Melba Moore, Van Mccoy

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Tyson Curtis

As a guy from a younger generation, I've always had an appreciation for older music. I had started listening to Jay and the Americans sometime back in the early 90's when I had heard their hits on an oldies station. I soon bought one of their greatest hits albums and coincidentally, "This is it" stuck out as my favorite. The way Jay's voice carries and the range delivers such emotional vibrance. I love to sing this song when I'm on my own, sometimes after a failed relationship. Thank you Jay Traynor for all your talent. Your voice is a gift to all of us that will be enjoyed at least until the twilight of my days and hopefully, long after. Rest in Peace!

Rhonda Sorrow

Can't believe this was not a hit! It's absolutely beautiful!

lijoed51

How can a song like this not chart. A beautiful song

DinoTuned1

About the same time that this great song was being almost-totally ignored, Elvis Presley hit #1 with "Good Luck Charm". Where's the justice? Author!! Author!!! Thank you so much for posting this phenomenal song!

Tony Powers

Thanks for liking our song, Dino. You win some, lose some, eh? peace, tp

Tony Powers

To all who have said these nice things about "This is It"...I wrote it with Ellie Greenwich when we worked in the Brill Building office of the great duo Leiber and Stoller. peace, t.

dunepaul9999

Beautiful song Tony. Thank you for for sharing this. 5 stars.

Tony Powers

@dunepaul9999 Thanks DP. peace, tp

notenoughtas

I wonder if this was only released regionally as opposed to nationally because there is no way this song couldn't have been a hit with wide exposure and all the talent invested into the song. Thank you for sharing and RIP Mr. Traynor.

Bill White

Jay told me that this was his favorite song and couldn't believe that it wasn't a chart buster....RIP My Friend.........

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