This Is It
Jay & The Americans Lyrics


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(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
I know that this is it for me
(Ah ah ah) She doesn't want me anymore
(Ah ah ah) Somehow my touch just misses
I know that this is it for me

(So turn on the sun) I need the sunlight
(Ah ah ah) Need its glow to make things bright
Without her, every day is black as night
(And bring out the moon) I need the moonlight
(Ah ah ah) Brighter than it's ever shone
She's gone and I am so alone

(But she cried for me) When she cried for me
(Yes she cried for me) Yes she cried for me
(And she) wo wo oh oh (could've laid down and died for me)

(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
I know that this is it for me

(This is it) Goodbye
(This is it) and so long, my little girl

(This is it) and I know, I know, I know
(This is it) That this is it for me

Overall Meaning

The song This Is It by Jay & The Americans is a poignant and melancholic depiction of a man coming to terms with the end of a romantic relationship. The lyrics are filled with desperation and heartache as the singer realizes that the woman he loves no longer wants him or his affections. The imagery of darkness and light, with references to the sun and the moon, is used to convey the depth of his loneliness.


The opening lines ("She doesn't love me anymore / She doesn't want my kisses") set the tone for the entire song, and the repetition of the refrain ("This is it for me") only serves to emphasize the man's sense of finality and hopelessness. He feels that he has reached the end of the road, and there is no way to salvage the relationship. The line "Somehow my touch just misses" suggests a sense of futility and frustration, as if he has exhausted every possible means of winning her back.


However, there is a glimmer of hope in the reference to how she cried for him, and how she "could've laid down and died for me." This suggests that perhaps the woman still has feelings for him, but for some reason, she just can't bring herself to love him anymore. The song ends with a final farewell ("Goodbye / and so long, my little girl"), as the singer accepts that this is the end of the road for him.


Line by Line Meaning

(Ah ah ah) She doesn't love me anymore
The singer's partner no longer loves him and has likely fallen out of love with him.


(Ah ah ah) She dosn't want my kisses
The singer's partner no longer desires intimacy with him and likely is no longer attracted to him.


I know that this is it for me
The singer believes that his relationship with his partner is over and there is no chance of reconciliation.


(Ah ah ah) She doesn't want me anymore
The artist's partner no longer desires his company and wants to be away from him.


(Ah ah ah) Somehow my touch just misses
The artist's partner does not enjoy physical contact with him and may feel uncomfortable or repulsed by it.


I know that this is it for me
The singer is certain that he and his partner cannot continue their relationship and that it is permanently over.


(So turn on the sun) I need the sunlight
The singer is in a dark emotional place and needs the happiness and hope represented by sunlight to improve his mood.


(Ah ah ah) Need its glow to make things bright
The artist requires the positivity and brightness that the sun provides to alleviate his emotional distress.


Without her, every day is black as night
The artist's partner was his source of happiness and positivity, and without her in his life, everything seems dark and negative to him.


(And bring out the moon) I need the moonlight
The artist feels alone and requires the emotional support and comfort that the moon's light represents.


(Ah ah ah) Brighter than it's ever shone
The singer needs the moon's light to be more powerful and comforting than it ever has been before because he is in such a low emotional state.


She's gone and I am so alone
The artist's partner has left him, and he is now lonely without her companionship.


(But she cried for me) When she cried for me
The singer remembers when his partner expressed emotions for him and misses those feelings of love and affection.


(Yes she cried for me) Yes she cried for me
The singer confirms that his partner had feelings for him but acknowledges that those feelings are now gone.


(And she) wo wo oh oh (could've laid down and died for me)
The singer's partner was once very devoted to him and would have done anything for him.


(This is it) Goodbye
The artist realizes that his relationship is permanently over and that he must say goodbye to his partner.


(This is it) and so long, my little girl
The artist bids farewell to his partner using a term of endearment, acknowledging that he has fond memories of their relationship.


(This is it) and I know, I know, I know
The singer accepts that his relationship is over and that there is no chance of it continuing or restarting.


(This is it) That this is it for me
The singer reiterates that he understands his relationship has come to an end, and he is at peace with this realization, albeit somewhat reluctantly.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Missing Link Music, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Melba Moore, Van Mccoy

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@baotuancaothien5459

In a little café
Just the other side of the border
She was a-sitting there a-givin' me
Looks that made my mouth water
So I started walking her way
She belonged to bad man, José
And I knew, yes I knew I should leave
When I heard her say, yeah
Come a little bit closer
You're my kind of man
So big and so strong
Come a little bit closer
I'm all alone
And the night is so long
So we started to dance
In my arms, she felt so inviting
And I just couldn't resist
Just one little kiss, so exciting
Then I heard the guitar player say
"Vamoos, José's on his way!"
And I knew, yes I knew I should run
But then I heard her say, yeah
Come a little bit closer
You're my kind of man
So big and so strong
Come a little bit closer
I'm all alone
And the night is so long
Then the music stopped
When I looked the café was empty
Then I heard José say
"Man, you know you're in trouble plenty"
So I dropped my drink from my hand
And through the window, I ran
And as I rode away
I could hear her say to José, yeah
Come a little bit closer
You're my kind of man
So big and so strong
Come a little bit closer
I'm all alone
And the night is so long
La-la-la-la la-la-la-la (Come a little bit closer)
La-la-la-la la-la-la-la (Come a little bit closer)
Woah woah (Come a little bit closer)
I can still hear her say (Come a little bit closer)
La-la-la-la la-la-la-la (Come a little bit closer)



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@Thunder_6278

Jay & the Americans, alot of great hits.

@kingporter67

WOW, excellent Jay and the Americans song and a gorgeous lady was dancing!!

@Austinemmytube1

Guardians of the Galaxy introduced me to many good old music...as an African i don't think I'd ever come across these classics,thanks to guardians of the Galaxy

@lonestarbug

Great music!

@JosephLockhart-ft3zb

Same with me

@jandeband

1964, just met my beautiful wife, 16 year old donna, very in love, this song on the radio, in my awesome 56 ford, still married

@TommyRedmond

you may have lived at the apex of humanity. no sarcasm; this was just tops.

@ItsBread-y6y

That's sweet <3 wish you two the best in life

@lonestarbug

Outstanding!

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