Be Your Husband
Jeff Buckley Lyrics


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Be your husband if you'll be my wife
Be your husband if you'll be my wife
Be your husband if you'll be my wife
Loving all of you the rest of your life yeah

If you promise me that I'll be your man
If you promise me that I'll be your man
If you promise me that I'll be your man
I will love you the best I can yeah

Stick the promise that you made me
Stick the promise that you made me
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
Stick the promise that you made me
That you stay away from Johnny lee yeah

Oh mama love me good
Oh mama now love me good
Oh mama love me good
Oh mama now love me good

If you want me to cook and sew
If you want me to cook and sew
If you want me to cook and sew yeah
Outside of you there is no place to go

Please don't treat me so doggone mean
Please don't treat me so doggone mean
Please don't treat me so now doggone mean yeah
You're the meanest woman I ever see

Oh mama now love me good
Oh mama love me good yeah




Oh mama love me good yeah
Oh mama now love me good

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jeff Buckley's song, Be Your Husband, tell the story of a man who is willing to be the husband of a woman he loves, on the condition that she becomes his wife. The repetition of the line, "Be your husband if you'll be my wife," emphasizes the importance of the reciprocity of their love. The man further promises to be there for the woman if she promises to be there for him. He then asks the woman to stick to her promise of staying away from Johnny Lee, possibly a former lover who poses a threat to their potential marriage.


The song takes a turn when the man asks the woman to love him good, repeating this line multiple times. He asks if she wants him to do domestic activities such as cooking and sewing to prove his love for her. He implores the woman not to treat him mean because he believes she is the meanest woman he has ever seen.


Overall, the lyrics of Be Your Husband speak to the importance of reciprocity and trust in a relationship. The man is willing to do his part as a husband and partner in love, but only if the woman reciprocates his love and promises to stay committed to him.


Line by Line Meaning

Be your husband if you'll be my wife
I want to marry you, and if you feel the same, let's make this commitment together.


Loving all of you the rest of your life yeah
I want to be with you forever and cherish every part of who you are.


If you promise me that I'll be your man
I want to feel secure in our relationship and know that you truly want me as your partner.


I will love you the best I can yeah
I will put my all into loving you and being the best partner I can be.


Stick the promise that you made me
Please hold onto the promise we made to each other and stay true to it.


That you stay away from Johnny lee yeah
I don't want you to cheat on me with another man.


Oh mama love me good
I need your love and affection, please show it to me.


If you want me to cook and sew
I am willing to do what I can to care for you and make sure you are happy.


Outside of you there is no place to go
I am devoted to you and want to be with you always, you are my home.


Please don't treat me so doggone mean
It hurts me when you are cruel or unkind to me, please treat me with respect and care.


You're the meanest woman I ever see
When you are mean to me, it really hurts because I care so much about you and want us to be happy together.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ANDY STROUD

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