The Man I Used To Be
Jellyfish Lyrics


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I was your daddy once
Wearing a sailor cap and dirty nails
To you I'm just a picture on your mother's mantlepiece
Who chose to fight the good fight in time to fail

Into battle
And in your shadow
Your daddy loves you still
Yes I do

I never thought it'd be so hard to see you grow so fast
And turn into the man I used to be
But I hope you have more sense than I in matters such as these
Medals don't mean shit when a family is lost at sea





I save every moment I've reached out and almost touched you
But they all fade away must be a bad memory

Overall Meaning

The song "The Man I Used to Be" by Jellyfish is a touching tribute to a father's love for his son. The lyrics depict the singer reflecting on his past as a father and how he failed to balance his duty as a parent and his personal ambition. The lines "I was your daddy once, wearing a sailor cap and dirty nails" suggest that the singer used to be a more present and involved father. However, the phrase "who chose to fight the good fight in time to fail" implies that the singer had to choose between pursuing his dreams and being there for his family, and he chose the former. Now, the singer realizes the gravity of his decision as he watches his son grow up and become the man he used to be.


The lines "But I hope you have more sense than I in matters such as these, medals don't mean shit when a family is lost at sea" convey the message that the singer wants his son to learn from his mistakes and prioritize his family over personal gain. The metaphor "medals don't mean shit" implies that success and recognition in one's career or passion are insignificant compared to familial love and support. The phrase "a family is lost at sea" suggests that neglecting one's family can lead to irreparable damage and loss.


Overall, "The Man I Used to Be" is a poignant and introspective song about a father's regret and admiration for his son. It highlights the importance of balancing personal ambition and familial responsibility, and the everlasting love between a parent and child.


Line by Line Meaning

I was your daddy once
I used to be the father figure in your life


Wearing a sailor cap and dirty nails
I had a rough exterior, and looked like a sailor or a worker


To you I'm just a picture on your mother's mantlepiece
To you, I'm just a memory, a photo on your mother's shelf


Who chose to fight the good fight in time to fail
Despite trying to do the right thing, I failed in some way


Into battle
I faced and fought against some kind of challenge, possibly a personal one


And in your shadow
I was always present in your life, even if you didn't always notice


Your daddy loves you still
I still love you, even if we aren't as close anymore


Yes I do
I want to reiterate how much I love you


I never thought it'd be so hard to see you grow so fast
It's difficult for me to see how much you've grown and changed in what feels like a short amount of time


And turn into the man I used to be
You've become like me in some way, and I have mixed feelings about that


But I hope you have more sense than I in matters such as these
I hope you can learn from my mistakes and make better choices than I did in similar situations


Medals don't mean shit when a family is lost at sea
Some things, like family, are more important than any material possessions or achievements


I save every moment I've reached out and almost touched you
I remember every moment where I almost had a real, close connection with you


But they all fade away must be a bad memory
Unfortunately, those memories have faded and are now painful to remember




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Written by: ANDY STURMER, ROGER MANNING

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The Retro Roadshow

Crazy to think this was the opening track on the debut album by an unknown band with relatively little buzz or record-label backing. It's like they emerged from the proverbial womb fully matured and ready to create amazing music. I've had their two albums on repeat for a couple years now and I keep discovering new things - a clever turn of phrase, or an innovative musical structure, or a subtle harmony buried in the background. Just astonishing what they accomplished before they broke up!

Forum

Huxley Dunsany God damn. I wonder what they would create if they had survived longer as a band. If they made this in the very beginning, I doubt they wouldn’t be making music that was absolutely great in a few years.

onezitman

mtv darlings

Fullofpies

The music of this band catapults me back in time to my teenage years. I fucking love them.

Jeff Lamb

Never heard these guys before today. this is the first track ive heard. and its fucking awesome!

RonaldReaganRocks1

Life changing music.

JimmyGarrison'sChin

What a wild track to pick to be the opener of your debut album, eh?

Ric Standing Cloud

Found these guys in a library rack last century. I learned how to play this song on guitar. It was always a hit at parties. Made my BIG native cousin tear up. As Johnny Carson said, "Good stuff".Red Lake StandingCloud says Chee-Migwetch
(Big-Thank You) Jellyfish!

Ven Tarfield

Oh my goodness... The further I look the more I find. These guys are just amazing.

Susan Case

Ven Tarfield seriously this bellybutton album is the soundtrack of all that defined everything I had been thru at 20 as a young alt student/Grinder in biz/Hooked on Love SF music gal on her own in early 90s when I used to see jellyfish live at clubs and they changed my life.

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