Wrong When You're Gone
Jennifer Lopez Lyrics


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Guess I should have shut my mouth
But I had to get it out
So much for bein' headstrong

Now I'm goin' half way out my mind
I know I was out of line
No scratch that I was dead wrong
Know I shoulda let it go but I just had to be right
Ooh, coulda left it alone but, no, I had to be right
Swear I woulda just fell back if I knew all I'd be left with
Is these shoulda, coulda, wouldas 'cause you're gone

Now I'm out here trippin' 'cause you came up missing
And my head keeps spinning, it's gettin' out of control
I'm backin' down this time, I don't wanna fight
I don't care who's right

'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone

Heaven knows if you were here
I'd be all up in your ear
Least you could do is answer your phone

'Cause I realized my mistake
Baby, I'll do what it takes
If I can just get you one and one

Shoulda let it go but I just had to be right
Ooh, coulda left it alone but, no, I had to be right
Swear I woulda just fell back if I knew all I'd be left with
Is these shoulda, coulda, wouldas 'cause you're gone

Now I'm out here trippin' 'cause you came up missing
And my head keeps spinning, it's gettin' out of control
I'm backin' down this time, I don't wanna fight
I don't care who's right

'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone

I know I pushed you out, runnin' off at the mouth
Sayin' all the wrong things, callin' you out your name
I was unpredictable, I was so emotional
But I swear I'm gonna do better, can we get this back together again

Now I'm out here trippin' 'cause you came up missing
And my head keeps spinning, it's gettin' out of control
I'm backin' down this time, I don't wanna fight
I don't care who's right

'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone

Now I'm out here trippin' 'cause you came up missing
And my head keeps spinning, it's gettin' out of control
I'm backin' down this time, I don't wanna fight
I don't care who's right

'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone

'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone




'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
So wrong, hear me, come back, it seems so long

Overall Meaning

In "Wrong When You're Gone," Jennifer Lopez sings about a failed relationship caused by her inability to admit that she was wrong. Lopez, in reflection, admits that she should have kept her opinion to herself instead of trying to force it on her partner. By insisting on being right, she ended up pushing her partner away, and she is now struggling with the aftermath of that decision. She laments the fact that her pride ended up destroying a relationship that meant so much to her, with the lyrics "Now I'm out here tripping 'cause you came up missing, And my head keeps spinning, it's getting out of control," signifying her current state of mind after the breakup.


Despite acknowledging her mistakes, Lopez refuses to give up completely, stating that she will do better in a future relationship. This is evident in the lines, "I was unpredictable, I was so emotional, But I swear, I'm gonna do better, can we get this back together again." She is willing to take the blame and make amends, saying that she is wrong when her partner is gone, as she can see where she went wrong.


Overall, "Wrong When You're Gone" is a powerful reminder that sometimes it is better to admit fault, let go of pride, and try to save a relationship instead of insisting on being right.


Line by Line Meaning

Guess I should have shut my mouth
I regret that I spoke when I should have remained silent


But I had to get it out
I couldn't keep my thoughts to myself and I felt the need to express them


So much for bein' headstrong
I thought being headstrong would benefit me, but now I am suffering the consequences


Now I'm goin' half way out my mind
I am experiencing an overwhelming amount of stress and anxiety


I know I was out of line
I recognize that I crossed a boundary and behaved inappropriately


No scratch that I was dead wrong
I am admitting that my behavior was not only inappropriate but completely wrong


Know I shoulda let it go but I just had to be right
I acknowledge that I should have let it go, but my ego caused me to prioritize being right


Ooh, coulda left it alone but, no, I had to be right
I realize that I could have chosen to not argue, but my need to prove my point got the best of me


Swear I woulda just fell back if I knew all I'd be left with
I promise that if I knew it would end like this, I would have backed down and not argued


Is these shoulda, coulda, wouldas 'cause you're gone
I am left with regrets and what-ifs because I lost you due to my behavior


Heaven knows if you were here
If you were here, things would be so much easier


I'd be all up in your ear
I would be talking to you constantly and sharing all of my thoughts and feelings


Least you could do is answer your phone
I am frustrated that you are not responding to my attempts at communication


‘Cause I realized my mistake
I have come to the understanding that I made a big mistake


Baby, I'll do what it takes
I am willing to do whatever it takes to make things right between us


If I can just get you one and one
If I can just have a chance to talk to you face to face, things could be resolved


I know I pushed you out, runnin' off at the mouth
I am aware that my words and actions caused you to leave and I regret it deeply


Sayin' all the wrong things, callin' you out your name
I was being hurtful and disrespectful by using derogatory language towards you


I was unpredictable, I was so emotional
My emotions got the best of me and I was acting in an erratic and unpredictable manner


But I swear I'm gonna do better, can we get this back together again
I promise to be better and I hope we can work through this and reconcile


Now I'm out here trippin' 'cause you came up missing
I am struggling and feeling lost because you are no longer around


And my head keeps spinning, it's gettin' out of control
I am feeling overwhelmed and my thoughts are racing uncontrollably


I'm backin' down this time, I don't wanna fight
I am willing to back down and not argue this time, I just want things to be resolved


I don't care who's right
It doesn't matter who was right or wrong, I just want us to move past this


'Cause I'm wrong when you're gone, when you're gone
I am realizing that I was wrong for the way I behaved when you were still here


So wrong, hear me, come back, it seems so long
I am acknowledging that I was very wrong and I am pleading for you to come back because it feels like it has been forever without you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: KERI LYNN HILSON, CANDICE CLOTIEL NELSON, DERRICK L. BAKER, EZEKIEL L. LEWIS, PATRICK MICHAEL SMITH

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