Just One of the Guys
Jenny Lewis Lyrics


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All our friends, they're gettin' on
But the girls are still staying young
If I get caught being rude in a conversation
With a child bride on her summer vacation

No matter how hard I try to be just one of the guys
There's a little something inside that won't let me
No matter how hard I try to have an open mind
There's a little voice inside that prevents me

Ooh, how I live it got me here
Locked in this bathroom full of tears
And I have begged for you & I have borrowed,
But I've been the only sister to my own sorrow

No matter how hard I try to be just one of the guys
There's a little something inside that won't let me
No matter how hard I try to have an open mind
There's a little clock inside that keeps tickin'

There's only one difference between you & me
When I look at myself all I can see
I'm just another Lady without a baby

No matter how hard I try to be just one of the guys
There's a little something inside that won't let me
No matter how hard I try to have an open mind
There's a little cop inside that prevents me

I'm not gonna break for you
I'm not gonna pray for you
I'm not gonna pay for you
That's not what ladies do

Oh when you break




When you break
Oh when you break

Overall Meaning

"Just One of the Guys" is a song by singer-songwriter Jenny Lewis that discusses gender roles and expectations in society. The first verse reflects on the idea that men age in a way that women are not allowed to. Although Lewis is aware of this double standard, she sometimes finds herself making remarks that show her own prejudices. She experiences an internal conflict as she tries to fit in with her male peers, but there's something within her that does not let her conform fully. Lewis continues to struggle with the pressure to be "one of the guys" in her circle of male friends. In the second verse, she reveals that her experience of being a woman in her thirties without a child has left her feeling alone and lost. She bemoans the fact that she has begged and borrowed without anyone coming to her aid. She feels that she has been a "sister" to her own sorrow.


The chorus of "Just One of the Guys" is an admission of defeat in terms of gender expectations. Despite her best efforts, Lewis - like so many other women - can't escape the cultural norms that keep women down. There's a little clock inside that keeps ticking, and that timer is set to society's expectations of what a woman should be. The song highlights the ways in which society attaches certain expectations to people based on their gender, and how difficult it is to escape those expectations.


Line by Line Meaning

All our friends, they're gettin' on
Our friends are reaching a certain age


But the girls are still staying young
However, the women are expected to remain youthful


If I get caught being rude in a conversation
In case I am impolite during a discussion


With a child bride on her summer vacation
Especially with a minor who is vacationing with her husband


No matter how hard I try to be just one of the guys
Despite my attempts to be seen as an equal among my male peers


There's a little something inside that won't let me
A part of me that stops me from fully assimilating


No matter how hard I try to have an open mind
Even if I am earnestly accepting and inclusive


There's a little voice inside that prevents me
A nagging thought that holds me back


Ooh, how I live it got me here
My life circumstances have led me to where I am now


Locked in this bathroom full of tears
Feeling trapped and overwhelmed with emotion


And I have begged for you & I have borrowed,
I have asked for help and relied on others


But I've been the only sister to my own sorrow
Ultimately, I have faced my struggles alone


There's only one difference between you & me
The only disparity is that I am a woman without children


When I look at myself all I can see
I am fixated on this one characteristic


I'm just another Lady without a baby
Which makes me seen as just a common woman without a child


There's a little cop inside that prevents me
An internal monitor that holds me back


I'm not gonna break for you
I will not surrender to your expectations


I'm not gonna pray for you
I refuse to beseech for your favor


I'm not gonna pay for you
I will not cover your costs


That's not what ladies do
It is not fair to enforce old-fashioned gender roles on me


Oh when you break
Perhaps when you, too, falter


When you break
If and when that occurs


Oh when you break
Maybe then you will understand my plight




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jenny Lewis

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Comments from YouTube:

@liquidstone14

fun fact: every actress in this music video is now Oscar nominated!

@happyalways6733

Yes!!!
Hope KS wins (both Anna and Brie had won)

@tomschutzer9635

I'm not great at math, but besides Jenny, there are 4 others in the video. Stewart, Larson, Hathaway, and...?

@fdub301

@@tomschutzer9635 Tennessee Thomas, who is not Oscar nominated. She’s great tho

@elbenhair

Damn i better audition for the next music video

@nonames4533

Jenny Lewis is an actress... what is she Oscar nominated for? Couldnt be for Troop beverly hills...

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@theajroseshow

My favorite music video of 2014, not to mention one of my favorite songs. Hathaway, Larson, and Stewart are all so hopelessly attractive, even as guys. Stewart's "guy" was downright hilarious. And Jenny Lewis' starry suit is dope.

@TheMagicHat35

***** or she just thought the suit was really cool and you're trying to hard to find some unsaid underlying meaning.

@graceguthrie6707

SAME

@MsFuzzipoo

I still want that Lisa Frank Suit/Guitar.

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