It Was a Strange Time in My Life
Jens Lekman Lyrics


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The Spanish girl pointed at me and said, "silencio"
Making a little gesture as if switching off a radio
Sliding her fingers 'cross her lips as if shutting a zipper
And I clearly got the message; I didn't need to ask her

Making the reverse zipper 'cross my lips, opening for conversation
Signaling the international sign of reckless contemplation
Shrugging her shoulders and lifting up the hand that rested on her thigh
Her middle finger extended until its simple message could not be denied

I turned 17 and I swore to never speak a word again
But then someone came along and ruined everything
It was a strange time in my life

People seem to think a shy personality equals gifted
But if they would get to know one I'm sure that idea would have shifted
Most shy people I know are extremely boring
Either that or they are miserable from all the shit they've been storing

I turned 17 and I swore to never speak a word again
But then someone came along and ruined everything
It was a strange time in my life

I had a good time at the party when everyone had left
I flirted with a girl in sign language 'cause she was deaf





It was a strange time in my life
It was a strange time in my life

Overall Meaning

The song "It was a Strange Time in My Life" by Jens Lekman delivers a narrative featuring a young man who has experienced a strange period. It starts with the Spanish girl's gesture and the singer's understanding of her intention. The girl desperately wants the singer to stop talking, and she uses a zipper movement to convey her message. In response, he makes the “reverse zipper” sign, signifying that he wants to converse with her instead. The girl rebuffs him using the middle finger gesture.


The narrative then delves into the singer's thoughts on shyness, dispelling the notion that shy people are more talented compared to extroverts. In contrast, many introverts are uninteresting, overwhelmed, and lonely. In the final verse, the singer recounts his memories of a night he spent with a deaf girl where he had a great time communicating with her through sign language.


The song has a catchy tune that captures the reflective tone. The song's theme of avoiding communication contrasts with the pop-style music, resulting in an ironic situation. Also, the singer's outlook on shy people may not be what many expect, but it makes the song stand out.


Line by Line Meaning

The Spanish girl pointed at me and said, 'silencio'
The Spanish girl motioned for me to be quiet


Making a little gesture as if switching off a radio
She made a hand motion akin to pressing a mute button on a radio


Sliding her fingers 'cross her lips as if shutting a zipper
She moved her fingers across her lips as if closing a zipper to signal she wanted silence


And I clearly got the message; I didn't need to ask her
The meaning was received without having to ask her what she intended


Making the reverse zipper 'cross my lips, opening for conversation
I opened up, ready to converse


Signaling the international sign of reckless contemplation
Preparing to make bold statements


Shrugging her shoulders and lifting up the hand that rested on her thigh
She shrugged and raised her hand from her thigh


Her middle finger extended until its simple message could not be denied
Her middle finger was extended to communicate one specific, impolite message


I turned 17 and I swore to never speak a word again
After turning 17, I promised to never talk again


But then someone came along and ruined everything
Someone disrupted the silence I had maintained


People seem to think a shy personality equals gifted
There's a common misconception that being shy means you're talented


But if they would get to know one I'm sure that idea would have shifted
If this were the case, they'd come around on that notion


Most shy people I know are extremely boring
The shy people I know are usually uninteresting


Either that or they are miserable from all the shit they've been storing
They may be sad due to pent-up emotions


I had a good time at the party when everyone had left
After the party cleared out, I still enjoyed myself


I flirted with a girl in sign language 'cause she was deaf
I communicated with a deaf girl through sign language to flirt with her


It was a strange time in my life
This was a strange period of my life


It was a strange time in my life
This was a strange period of my life




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jens Martin Lekman

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