Giving Up On Love
Jerry Butler Lyrics


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(Giving up, giving up)
(Giving up, giving up)

This is not the first time
It's happened before
Oh, the girl that I love
Doesn't love me anymore
So I've had it, forget it
Don't want it, you got it
I'm giving up on love
Before love gives up on me

(Giving up, giving up)
(Giving up, giving up)

How much can you give
And get nothing in return
And, oh, how long do you live
Before you finally learn

So I've had it, forget it
I don't want it
Brother, you've got it
I'm giving up on love
Before love gives up on me

(Giving up, giving up)
(Giving up, giving up)

Well, I've had it
Oh, forget it, I don't want it
Brother, you've got it
I'm giving up on love
Before love gives up on me

Yes, I am
I said I'm giving up today




Because love's given up on me
And gone away

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jerry Butler's song "Giving Up On Love" convey a sense of disappointment towards the concept of love. The opening lines, "This is not the first time, it's happened before, Oh the girl that I love, doesn't love me anymore" emphasizes the singer's experience with heartbreak and the sense of resignation from past disappointments.


The following lines depict a feeling of exhaustion, "How much can you give and get nothing in return, And, oh, how long do you live before you finally learn." The singer has reached a breaking point, and decides to give up on love before it gives up on him. The lines "So I've had it, forget it, Don't want it, you got it, I'm giving up on love, Before love gives up on me" convey the singer's sense of control: he has decided to let go of love before it lets go of him.


Overall, the song portrays love as an exhausting and ultimately fleeting emotion. The singer has had enough of heartbreak and has decided to release himself from the emotional cycle of finding and then losing love.


Line by Line Meaning

This is not the first time
I've been through this before


It's happened before
I've experienced heartbreak in the past


Oh, the girl that I love
The person I love deeply


Doesn't love me anymore
Doesn't feel the same way towards me anymore


So I've had it, forget it
I'm done with trying, I'm letting go


Don't want it, you got it
I don't want this anymore, it's all yours


Before love gives up on me
Before I experience more heartbreak


How much can you give
How much effort can one invest


And get nothing in return
And receive no reciprocation


And, oh, how long do you live
And for how long does one continue


Before you finally learn
Before realizing it's not worth it


Brother, you've got it
It's all yours


Well, I've had it
I've had enough


I said I'm giving up today
I'm giving up right now


Because love's given up on me
Because I've been rejected by love


And gone away
And left me feeling broken-hearted




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Comments from YouTube:

still waters

Love this song. It's about unrequited love and heartbreak, but, man, with Jerry Butler's vocals and the musical accompaniment, it is such a sensual, soulful song...never tire of listening to it.

Mick Foskett

jerry butler..one of the best soul singers ever..respect!

Belle Starr

Yes Lord Breathtaking

Nicholas Clarke

What ever went on in America in the 60's to give us music like this is mind boggling. The artistry that was at play is to our eternal benefit. Some of the most romantically soulful music ever made.

Tyrant Jesus

Nicholas Clarke Not just America, I think the whole world experienced this Golden Age of Music. For example, Mexico had great music.

kpitt1204

Such a beautiful song. I never paid it any mind until I played it and someone reacted to it. She hadn't heard it since she was a teenager. In fact, she had forgotten all about it, but was able to sing along. It's a beautiful moment when a song takes someone back to a simpler time. The smile she bore was priceless!

Tony Everett

Never give up ! !!
Never give up on love

just me

2019 still listening Jerry butler .

Paul Westwood

Still listening 5 - 3-2022

Kamara Dice

Got you beat it is 2021, and I am kicking this...

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