How Did We Lose It Baby
Jerry Butler Lyrics


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We had a love that was our pride
And inspiration to our friends
If lovers had a Nobel Prize
I'm sure that we would win

And, girl, with all that's going
For us just this very day
You come out here and tell me
That our love has got away

I gotta know
How did we lose it, baby
How did we lose our love
How did we lose it, baby

How did we lose it, darling
We had it just a moment ago
It was right here
In the palm of our hand

Now I'm asking you and
You tell me you don't know
Oh, it would be a miracle
If we ever got it back
It'll be like finding
A needle in a haystack

How did we lose it, baby
(How did we lose it, baby)
(How did we lose it, baby)
(How did we lose it, baby)

What do you mean
Talking like you're talking
Girl, I gave you all my love
It's too late to be walking

Now listen, you turn around
Here to me and you better tell me

How did we lose it, baby
How did we lose
(How did we lose it, baby)
All that we had going for us
How did we lose it, baby

We gotta find a way
To pull it back together
Girl, love's grown cold like?

And I don't wanna
Leave this love behind
A true style love is hard to find
Let me put this on your mind, oh

How did we lose it
How did we lose it, baby
You been my whole world
You know you have, girl

Down here on my knees
(How did we lose it
How did we lose it)
Help me find it, please
(How did we lose it
How did we lose it)

Please, baby
(How did we lose it
How did we lose it)
How did we lose it, baby
(How did we lose it
How did we lose it)

Oh, how did we lose it, baby
How did we lose it, baby
How did we lose our love
(How did we lose it, baby)

I thought we had it right here




And I thought it would always be
Now I find myself...

Overall Meaning

The song "How Did We Lose It Baby" by Jerry Butler is a soulful ballad that expresses the singer's confusion and frustration over the sudden loss of a once-great love. The lyrics are simple and straightforward, telling the story of a couple who were once deeply in love and had everything going for them, but who have now somehow lost their way. The singer pleads with his partner to help him understand how they could have gone from being so close to being so far apart, and to work with him to find a way to put their love back together.


At its heart, this song is a meditation on the mysterious and often inexplicable nature of love. The singer is clearly at a loss as to how his relationship could have gone so wrong, and he is desperate to find a way to recapture the passion and affection that he and his partner once shared. This theme of lost love and the quest to regain it is one that has resonated with audiences for generations, and it is one that continues to be explored in music, literature, and film today.


Line by Line Meaning

We had a love that was our pride
Our love was something we were proud of and cherished


And inspiration to our friends
Our love was an inspiration to our friends and those around us


If lovers had a Nobel Prize
If there was a prize for love, we would surely win it


I'm sure that we would win
I am confident that we would win that prize


And, girl, with all that's going
Despite all the good things happening in our lives


For us just this very day
Even as recently as today


You come out here and tell me
You tell me out here


That our love has got away
That our love has vanished or disappeared


I gotta know
I need to understand


How did we lose it, baby
How did we lose our love


How did we lose it, darling
How did we lose our love, my dear


We had it just a moment ago
We had our love not long ago


It was right here
It was right with us


In the palm of our hand
It was easily within our grasp


Now I'm asking you and
Now I'm asking you this question


You tell me you don't know
You say you have no answer


Oh, it would be a miracle
It would take a miracle


If we ever got it back
If we could ever regain our love


It'll be like finding
It would be as difficult as finding


A needle in a haystack
Something very hard to find


What do you mean
What are you trying to say


Talking like you're talking
Saying the things you're saying


Girl, I gave you all my love
All my love, I gave to you


It's too late to be walking
It's too late to be leaving me now


Now listen, you turn around
Now listen to me, you turn and face me


Here to me and you better tell me
Come here and tell me


We gotta find a way
We need to find a solution


To pull it back together
To fix our relationship


Girl, love's grown cold like?
Our love has grown cold, what can we do


And I don't wanna
I don't want to


Leave this love behind
Give up on our love


A true style love is hard to find
True love like we had is rare and hard to come by


Let me put this on your mind, oh
Let me make this clear to you


You been my whole world
You have been my everything


You know you have, girl
You are already aware of that


Down here on my knees
I am on my knees


Help me find it, please
Please help me find our love


Please, baby
Please, my love


How did we lose it, baby
How did we lose our love


Oh, how did we lose it, baby
Oh, how did we lose our love


How did we lose our love
How did we lose our love




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Dwayne & Teen


on Ain't Understanding Mellow

This song is so meaningful and the Lyrics are always on point.!

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