Only The Strong Survive
Jerry Butler Lyrics


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I remember, my first love affair
Somehow or another the whole darn thing went wrong
My mama had some great advice
So I thought I'd put it into words of this song
I can still hear her saying it

Boy, oh, I see you're sitting out there all alone
Cryin' your eyes out
'Cause the woman that you love has gone
There's gonna be, there's gonna be
A whole lot of trouble in your life
So listen to me get up off of your knees
'Cause only the strong survive

That's what she said
Only the strong survive, only the strong survive
You've got to be strong, you'd better hold on
Don't go, all around with your head hung down

I wouldn't let that little girl
No, I wouldn't let her know
That she made me feel like a clown
There's a whole lot a girl
Lookin' for a good man like you
Oh, but you'll never meet them if you give up now
And say, your life is through

Then she said it
Only the strong survive, only the strong survive
You've got to be a man, you've got to take a stand

So I am telling you right now
Only the strong survive, only the strong survive
You've got to be strong, you'd better hold on

Don't worry about it
Don't you know that things are gonna change




But you've got to be a man, you've got to take a stand
Don't ever feel that, you can make it, baby

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jerry Butler's song "Only The Strong Survive" tell the story of a man who has just experienced a broken heart. He is sitting alone, crying, and feeling defeated because his lover has left. Butler includes advice from his own mother, urging him to stay strong and never give up. He tells the man that if he wants to find love again, he cannot give up and feel sorry for himself. Instead, he must be strong and face the future head-on. Only the strong survive.


Butler reminds the man that he has to be a man and take a stand. He should not let his broken heart make him feel like a clown, and he should not give up on finding the right woman. The message is simple yet powerful – never give up, keep fighting, and only the strong will survive.


The song is an anthem of hope and encouragement that has resonated with listeners all over the world. It is a perfect example of how music can be used to inspire and motivate people to overcome life's challenges.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember, my first love affair
I recall the experience of my initial romantic relationship


Somehow or another the whole darn thing went wrong
Unfortunately, things did not go as planned


My mama had some great advice
My mother shared some wise words with me


So I thought I'd put it into words of this song
I decided to write a song using her advice


Boy, oh, I see you're sitting out there all alone
I notice you are alone and upset


Cryin' your eyes out
You are crying uncontrollably


'Cause the woman that you love has gone
The woman you love has left you


There's gonna be, there's gonna be
You can expect there to be


A whole lot of trouble in your life
Your life will likely be filled with challenges and difficulties


So listen to me get up off of your knees
Pay attention to my advice and stop feeling hopeless


'Cause only the strong survive
Only those who are mentally and emotionally strong will overcome


That's what she said
That is the advice my mother gave me


Only the strong survive, only the strong survive
One must be strong to endure


You've got to be strong, you'd better hold on
You need to remain resilient and persevere


Don't go, all around with your head hung down
Do not wander aimlessly with a defeated attitude


I wouldn't let that little girl
I would not allow that woman


No, I wouldn't let her know
I would not reveal to her


That she made me feel like a clown
That she made me feel foolish


There's a whole lot a girl
There are many women


Lookin' for a good man like you
Searching for a respectable man like you


Oh, but you'll never meet them if you give up now
But you will not encounter them if you give up hope


And say, your life is through
And declare that your life is over


Then she said it
My mother repeated her advice


You've got to be a man, you've got to take a stand
You need to assert yourself and take control


So I am telling you right now
Therefore, I am conveying to you currently


Don't worry about it
Do not fret over it


Don't you know that things are gonna change
Are you not aware that circumstances will improve?


But you've got to be a man, you've got to take a stand
However, you must still be courageous and decisive


Don't ever feel that, you can make it, baby
Never doubt that you can overcome this, my friend




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Jerry Butler, Kenneth Gamble, Leon Huff

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@anthonygilmore5969

One of the truly most underrated singers all time.
He is on my top 10 r&b male singers all time along with.....

Clyde mcphatter
Jackie wilson
Solomon burke
Tony williams
Roy hamilton
Sam Cooke
Levi stubbs
Jerry Butler
El debarge
and luther vandross



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@giuseppenardi6533

Black artists in the early 60 and 70 were the BEST..LONG LIVE SOUL.

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I love the Philadelphia Sound from the early seventies the most.

@josephinenelson6231

This song says a lot, there are times when I lost all of my SISTERS that I would not make it, but GOD kept me STRONG and I am SURVIVING 😇🙏

@user-ye7mb7qp2b

exactly.... and this song was played over and over by me. I followed this advice!!

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@josephinenelson6231

@@alicevines6874 Surviving 🙏

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@mbassador2576

I heard this song back in 1969. I still dig it.
Shout out to all the brothers !!!
I'm still keeping it strong everyday !

@philipswilson

Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello brings smile to your face..

@eloiseguillory9301

WOW!!! Stay strong my brothers and sisters know it is hard to stay tough I'm one too working on me daily stay for you!!!

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