Settling Down
Jerry Cantrell Lyrics


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Though you're always on my mind
Found a sickness that was mine
Chose a life out on the run
All alone inside this game
Until I'm done
Sometimes I don't think I can trust myself no more
Seems I've failed you all my life
Youthful dreams you'd be my wife
Before I fall into the sun
If there never is again
You were the one
Sometimes I don't think I can trust myself no more
So I don't feel that I can love you anymore
On this settling down
Oh I better lay down and rest awhile
On this settling down
Oh I better lay down and rest awhile
Sometimes I don't think I can trust myself no more
And I don't know if I can love you anymore
On this settling down
Oh I better lay down and rest awhile
On this settling down




Oh I better lay down and rest awhile
And I say no

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jerry Cantrell's "Settling Down" revolve around the singer's struggle with his own personal demons that prevent him from committing to a stable life with a partner. He acknowledges the sickness that consumes him, causing him to live a life on the run, never settling down. He feels guilty for not being able to fulfill his youthful dreams of having a committed long-term relationship and having his partner become his wife. The singer recognizes the trust issues he has that make it difficult for him to love and be loved. The chorus highlights the inner turmoil of the singer, realizing that he cannot love his partner anymore because of his personal struggles.


The song's title, "Settling Down," is a paradox. The singer doesn't want to settle down, but he's singing about it. The idea of this paradox is further conveyed in the lyrics through the repetition of the phrase, "On this settling down," as if the singer is trying to convince himself that he wants to settle down, but he can't seem to do it. The song has a melancholic and introspective tone, and the lyrics are reflective of the singer's emotional state.


On the whole, "Settling Down" is a powerful song about emotional conflict and difficulty in making real commitments. It is a song that many people can relate to, as many go through similar struggles when it comes to forming long-lasting relationships. The lyrics show a deep understanding of the complexities of human relationships and how they can be impacted by personal struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

Though you're always on my mind
Despite your constant presence in my thoughts


Found a sickness that was mine
Discovered something unhealthy within myself


Chose a life out on the run
Selected a lifestyle of constant movement


All alone inside this game
Completely isolated within this lifestyle


Until I'm done
Until the end of this solitary existence


Sometimes I don't think I can trust myself no more
Occasionally, I lose faith in myself and my actions


Seems I've failed you all my life
It appears that I have disappointed you constantly


Youthful dreams you'd be my wife
As a young person, I had imagined you as my future spouse


Before I fall into the sun
Before I reach the end of my life


If there never is again
If we are unable to reunite in the future


You were the one
You were the person I loved and wanted to be with


So I don't feel that I can love you anymore
Therefore, I do not believe that I am capable of loving you any longer


On this settling down
During this period of finding a stable life


Oh I better lay down and rest awhile
I should take a short break and relax


And I say no
I decline or disagree




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Written by: Jerry Cantrell

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Duff787


on Dickeye

It's all about Layne. Jerry was pissed that he recorded with mad season. Born traitor. Layne and Jerry did lots of drugs together. Only thing he came here looking for. Injected concrete is a not so subtle reference to what dealers cut heroin with. Layne frequently shot up between his toes to hide track marks. Hide bloody feet.

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