It Takes A Young Girl
Jesse Winchester Lyrics


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It takes a young girl to make an old man smile
It takes a young girl to make an old man fly
Why should it take a young girl
To move this old heart of mine ?

It would take an old man too long to explain
How a young girl plays an old, old game
But that's just how it is, first she's yours and then she's his
And that's always, always the same.

It's been ten long years since I've cried
It's been five, I know five since I've even tried
Now why should it take a young girl
To move this old heart of mine ?





But that's just how it is, first she's yours and then she's his
And that's always, always the same.

Overall Meaning

Jesse Winchester's "It Takes A Young Girl" is a bittersweet song highlighting the fact that as men age, they tend to lose the ability to appreciate and enjoy life's simple pleasures. The song suggests that the solution to this problem lies in the companionship of a young girl who not only makes the old man smile but also makes him feel alive again. The lyrics emphasize the stark contrast between youth and old age and how a young girl can bridge the gap between them.


Although the song's meaning may seem straightforward, there are deeper connotations behind the lyrics. The first stanza makes it clear that an old man's happiness is dependent on the presence of a young girl. The second stanza suggests that the old man has tried to forget his past but has been unsuccessful in doing so. The line "first she's yours and then she's his" implies that the young girl is just a temporary distraction for the old man and she will eventually move on to someone else.


The overall message seems to be that life is fleeting, and we should cherish the moments we have, particularly the ones spent with loved ones. However, it also highlights the fact that time waits for no one and aging is an inevitable part of life. But even in our old age, we can find joy and companionship with the younger generation.


Line by Line Meaning

It takes a young girl to make an old man smile
An old man needs the charm and energy of a young girl to bring a smile upon his face.


It takes a young girl to make an old man fly
A young girl can make an old man feel alive and youthful again like he can conquer anything.


Why should it take a young girl To move this old heart of mine ?
The singer is questioning why it's only the youthfulness of a girl that stirs his heart instead of anything else.


It would take an old man too long to explain How a young girl plays an old, old game
Trying to explain the mysterious game young girls play with older men is pointless because it takes too long to express and no one would understand the allure.


But that's just how it is, first she's yours and then she's his And that's always, always the same.
Young girls always end up leaving the older men they have captured in their game for someone closer to their age, as this is the usual pattern.


It's been ten long years since I've cried It's been five, I know five since I've even tried Now why should it take a young girl To move this old heart of mine ?
The singer reveals how long it has been since he's felt anything emotional and how surprising it is that it takes a young girl to stir such emotions in him.




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