Fat Boy
Jewel Lyrics


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Fat boy goes to the pool
Sees his reflection, doesn't know what to do
He feels little inside and filled with pride

Oh, fragile flame
No one sees the same
Fat boy goes about his day
Trying to think of funny things to say

Like, "this is just a game I play"
And, "I like me this way"
Oh, fragile flame
When no one feels the same

Hush, sleep, don't think, just eat
Your daddy's little boy
Your mama's pride and joy
You know they love ya
But not because they hold ya

Fat boy says, "wouldn't it be nice
If I could melt myself like ice
Or outrun my skin and just be pure wind"




Oh, fragile flame
Sometimes I feel the same

Overall Meaning

Jewel's song "Fat Boy" tells the story of a boy who is struggling with his body image, and how he copes with it. She portrays the character as a sensitive and vulnerable person who is aware of the way others view him. We see this in the opening lines, where the boy goes to the pool and sees his reflection, but doesn't know what to do. He knows that he doesn't fit into the mold of what society considers attractive, so he feels little inside and filled with pride.


In subsequent verses, Jewel portrays the fat boy trying to go about his day and be funny, as if it's just a game he's playing. He tells himself that he likes himself the way he is, but deep down, he feels the pain of being different. He longs to be thin, to melt away his body like ice, or to become pure wind and outrun his skin. These are vivid metaphors for the desire to escape one's physical self, to shed the burden of being overweight and become something else entirely.


The chorus of the song, with its haunting melody and simple lyrics, conveys the sense of loneliness and isolation that the fat boy feels. The flame is a metaphor for his fragile sense of self, which flickers and fades in the face of societal pressure and expectations. The repeated line, "when no one feels the same," highlights his sense of alienation from others and his awareness that he doesn't fit in.


Line by Line Meaning

Fat boy goes to the pool
The overweight person visits the swimming pool.


Sees his reflection, doesn't know what to do
Looking into the water, he doesn’t recognize himself and feels confused.


He feels little inside and filled with pride
Despite his internal struggle, he still tries to take pride in himself and his actions.


Oh, fragile flame
This line highlights the vulnerability and sensitivity of the person.


No one sees the same
His unique perspective and experiences set him apart from others.


Fat boy goes about his day
He carries on with his routine despite his insecurities.


Trying to think of funny things to say
He attempts to mask his discomfort by using humor.


Like, 'this is just a game I play'
He tries to convince himself and others that his pain is all just a game or joke.


And, 'I like me this way'
He tries to convince himself, and the world, that he is happy with his appearance and personality.


When no one feels the same
He feels isolated and misunderstood because his experience is unique to him.


Hush, sleep, don't think, just eat
He uses food to pacify the pain and discomfort he feels internally.


Your daddy's little boy
This line implies that there is an unhealthy attachment to his father.


Your mama's pride and joy
This line implies that there is an unhealthy attachment to his mother.


You know they love ya
He understands that his parents love him.


But not because they hold ya
However, the love they show might not be enough to fix or help his internal turmoil.


Fat boy says, 'wouldn't it be nice
He imagines how his life would be different if he could change.


If I could melt myself like ice
He wants to disappear or to be something different entirely.


Or outrun my skin and just be pure wind'
He wants to shed his skin and be free from the limitations of himself.


Sometimes I feel the same
The person acknowledges that others might feel the same way he does.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: Jewel Kilcher

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@MattJonesIsWeird

"Sometimes I feel the same"
gets me every time

@borderlinescott

I feel like she wrote this knowing my childhood.

@MattJonesIsWeird

Scott Jannush awww * hugs *

@littlebitsandbryan9980

Me too with the song Daddy

@horseyhorselips3501

I have reason to believe this song is related to the Picture in Jewel’s second book called Chasing down the Dawn. With the Caption “Glamour on the Road, Somewhere USA” I was in Big Joe’s bar the night Sean Penn took that picture and Jewel was drinking Jack Daniels out of the bottle looking at Me And I watched her piss her pants. If you have that book check out the picture and you can see for yourself her pants are WET !!!!!
See I’m the Strange Fruit 🍎 that Fell in the Song “Enter from the East”
I’m her Biological Father the Stranger from the East and Atz gave me his Sisters hand in marriage at an LRY Conference in Toronto Canada September 1,1973

@horseyhorselips3501

Cheri Curry in 47 years of Jewel’s Life she has Not Ever Talked to Her Father, for I’m Her Biological Father

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@triggerwarning3010

Cancelled!!!!!

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