Slowly Surely
Jill Scott Lyrics


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Slowly, surely I walk away from
That old desperate and tainted love
Caught up in the maze of love, the crazy craze of love
Thought it was good
Thought it was real
Thought it was
But it wasn't love
I just don't know where I should go
So, slowly, surely
I walk away from self-serving, undeserving, constantly hurting me love
Deserting me love
You said
I said
We said, but

Slowly, surely I walk away from
Confusing love, misusing love, abusing love
This can't be
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Self-serving, undeserving
Constantly hurting me love

I just don't know where I should go, no
I just don't know, know, know, know where I should go
So, slowly, surely I walk away from
That old desperate and dazed love
Caught up in the maze of love, the crazy craze of love
Thought it was good
Thought it was real
Thought it was
But it wasn't love

I just don't know where to go
So, slowly, surely I walk away from
I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from love
Slowly, surely one step at a time, but surely
I will pass the old love aside and love me
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from desperate love
Caught up in the maze love, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy love
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, surely I walk away from




Slowly, surely I walk away from
Slowly, Surely, slowly, surely, slowly, surely

Overall Meaning

In "Slowly Surely," Jill Scott sings about walking away from a toxic relationship, slowly and surely, with each step an act of self-love and self-preservation. She reflects on how she got tangled up in the "maze of love" and its "crazy craze," mistaking it for the real thing. But over time, she has come to recognize that what she thought was love wasn't, and that she deserves better than the "self-serving, undeserving, constantly hurting me love" she's been receiving.


The repetition of "slowly, surely" in the chorus reinforces the idea that leaving a bad situation takes time and patience, but that each step away brings her closer to a healthier relationship with herself. The song's simple, almost meditative melody and sparse instrumentation underscore this sense of a contemplative journey, one that's happening internally as well as externally.


Overall, "Slowly Surely" is a powerful anthem of self-love and the courage it takes to let go of what's not working. Scott's honest and clear-eyed lyrics cut through the confusion and pain of a bad relationship and offer a path towards healing and wholeness.


Line by Line Meaning

Slowly, surely I walk away from
Taking small steps but determined to leave


That old desperate and tainted love
Leaving a past relationship that was needy, desperate and no longer good


Caught up in the maze of love, the crazy craze of love
Lost in the confusion of a relationship, caught up in the irrational behavior and passionate feelings


Thought it was good
Believed the relationship would be positive


Thought it was real
Believed the relationship was authentic


Thought it was
Assumed the relationship was what love should be


But it wasn't love
Realized the relationship did not meet the standards of true love


I just don't know where I should go
Feeling lost and unsure of next steps


So, slowly, surely
Taking time to leave in a determined and confident manner


I walk away from self-serving, undeserving, constantly hurting me love
Leaving a relationship that was only focused on one person's needs, a partner that did not deserve love and was causing emotional pain


Deserting me love
Leaving behind love that had abandoned and betrayed her


You said
Partner's words and promises were not kept


I said
Jill Scott also had made promises that were not kept


We said, but
The promises made as a couple were not fulfilled


Confusing love, misusing love, abusing love
The partner's actions were producing confusion, misuse, and abuse of love


This can't be
Realizing that a relationship should not be characterized by confusion, misuse, and abuse of love


I just don't know where I should go, no
Feeling overwhelmed by not knowing what to do next


Slowly, surely I walk away from
Steadily moving away from toxic love


That old desperate and dazed love
Leaving behind a love that was chaotic, frenzied, and unstable


Slowly, surely I walk away from love
Walking away from a relationship that was not truly love


Slowly, surely one step at a time, but surely
Taking small but certain steps towards a better future


I will pass the old love aside and love me
Moving away from the old love to focus on self-love and growth


Slowly, surely I walk away from desperate love
Leaving behind love that was needy and desperate


Caught up in the maze love, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy love
Feeling lost in a complicated and irrational love


Slowly, Surely, slowly, surely, slowly, surely
Repeating the mantra of taking small but sure steps towards a better future




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: TEI TOWA, BEBEL GILBERTO, KAMAAL IBN JONATHAN DAVIS FAREED, ALI MUHAMMAD, MALIK IZAAK TAYLOR, JAMES DEWITT YANCEY, DONALD WINSTON THOMPSON, JILL SCOTT, DARREN HENSON

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