Halfway to a Threeway
Jim O'Rourke Lyrics


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I used to have none
Now with you, I've got one
If I could get just one more
Then you know what you're in for

You ain't getting any sleep tonight
I hope that you girls don't fight
And I hope that you won't run away
'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway

I tried again and again
To indulge in just one sin
All you have to do is lie there
While I push aside your wheelchair

And I do everything it takes
To change your mind and apply your brakes
So I know that you can't roll away
'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway

Can't wipe the smile off my face
When you strut by in your leg brace
You just can't climb the stairs
And you ain't got any hair

I just can't get you to sit
You and your stupid epileptic fits
And I know that you can't run away
'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway

As I lay you down on my bed
It don't matter that you're brain dead
I can get so you close to ya
Now that you're in a coma

I'll make it sweet but short
When I pull out your life support
And I know that you'll just fade away
Now I'm halfway to a threeway




And I know that you'll just fade away
Now I'm halfway to a threeway

Overall Meaning

It is important to note that the lyrics of Jim O'Rourke's "Halfway to a Threeway" are highly controversial and disturbing. They are written from the point of view of a despicable character who seems to take pride in his abusive treatment of disabled women. Through these lyrics, O'Rourke seems to be offering his own commentary on the hierarchy of power and the way in which certain individuals are systematically oppressed based on their physical or cognitive abilities.


The first verse of the song is a clear reference to the singer's desire for a threeway with two disabled women. He refers to the women only in terms of their disabilities; one of them is in a wheelchair and the other has epilepsy. The second verse describes the singer's physical abuse of one of the women. He urges her to lie there and do nothing while he has sex with her, even disregarding her wheelchair. The final verse takes on an even more violent tone, describing the singer's plans to rape a comatose woman before pulling the plug on her life support.


Though it is difficult to interpret this song in any positive light, it does offer a stark commentary on the way in which disabled individuals are often treated in our society. O'Rourke's choice to speak from the perspective of someone who takes advantage of this power hierarchy may be seen as a critique of the patriarchy and other systems of oppression.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to have none
I was alone and had nobody in my life


Now with you, I've got one
But now I have found someone I am with


If I could get just one more
If I could just find one more person


Then you know what you're in for
Then you will know what is going to happen next


You ain't getting any sleep tonight
You won't be able to sleep tonight


I hope that you girls don't fight
I hope the two of you won't get into a fight


And I hope that you won't run away
And I hope you won't try to escape


'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway
Because I am almost having a threesome with two people


I tried again and again
I attempted multiple times


To indulge in just one sin
To commit a single immoral act


All you have to do is lie there
All you need to do is remain still


While I push aside your wheelchair
While I move your wheelchair out of the way


And I do everything it takes
I am willing to do whatever it takes


To change your mind and apply your brakes
To convince you and stop you from leaving


So I know that you can't roll away
So I can be sure that you won't try to escape


'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway
Because I am almost having a threesome with two people


Can't wipe the smile off my face
I can't stop myself from smiling


When you strut by in your leg brace
When you walk by with your leg brace on


You just can't climb the stairs
You are unable to climb the stairs


And you ain't got any hair
You are bald


I just can't get you to sit
I am having trouble getting you to sit down


You and your stupid epileptic fits
Your seizures are annoying to me


And I know that you can't run away
And I know you won't try to escape


'Cause I'm halfway to a threeway
Because I am almost having a threesome with two people


As I lay you down on my bed
As I put you down on my bed


It don't matter that you're brain dead
The fact that you are brain dead is irrelevant to me


I can get so you close to ya
I can get so close to you


Now that you're in a coma
Now that you are in a coma


I'll make it sweet but short
I'll make it quick and painless


When I pull out your life support
When I remove your life support system


And I know that you'll just fade away
And I know that you'll die soon


Now I'm halfway to a threeway
Now that one of the people in the threesome is dead, it's technically not a threesome anymore


And I know that you'll just fade away
And I know that you'll die soon


Now I'm halfway to a threeway
Now that one of the people in the threesome is dead, it's technically not a threesome anymore




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Written by: JIM O'ROURKE

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Culex

the way the lyrics contradict the soft, lush instrumentation. ah. so good. Jim is masterclass.

jim jim

Well said

David Cunningham

nothing like jim o rourke to bring it home, i bought this in 99 and it never bores!

Sounding Six

Best EP ever recorded by anyone, ever!

Jkam239

Imo the best EP is Death Valley 69 by Sonic Youth and Lydia Lunch or Solace by Earl Sweatshirt

jeff 9000

@CannibalWHORE22 Check out Unwound's Fake Train, New Plastic Ideas, and Repetition too. Those ones are especially great

CannibalWHORE22

@jeff 9000 Pavement’s last album was decent enough. I still need to get into Unwound I only know Leaves Turn Inside You

jeff 9000

@CannibalWHORE22 Seriously, one of the only bands with a totally perfect discography to me. Only other bands I would put in the running are Unwound and Pavement

CannibalWHORE22

@jeff 9000 That’s an amazing EP. then the albums that came after! Such an amazing band

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Cosmicdancer

Stunning. .Jim O’ Rourke’s music is stunning.

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