When They Ask About You
Jimmy Dorsey & His Orchestra Lyrics


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When I go for a walk
And meet old friends we knew,
We sit around and talk,
Then they ask about you,
What's the good if I say
That you and I are through,
I tell them you're okay
When they ask about you.

They wonder where we've been
And why we never call,
I take it on the chin
Until the teardrops fall,
They don't mean to be smart
But if they only knew,




They're stepping on my heart
When they ask about you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jimmy Dorsey's "When They Ask About You" sung by Kitty Kallen seem to be about a person who has broken up with their partner but is still hurting from the breakup. When the person walks around and meets old friends, they talk about the past until the friends ask about their ex-partner. The singer finds it useless to mention that the relationship is over and tells their friends that their ex is doing okay. It seems that the singer wants to avoid the topic altogether as talking about their ex brings back painful memories. When friends inquire about the relationship status and why they never call, the singer holds in their emotions until they can no longer bear it, and tears begin to fall. The singer reveals that talking about their ex makes them upset because they're still heartbroken.


The lyrics of the song give us an insight into the emotional turmoil that comes with a breakup. It's not easy to get over a relationship, and the process resonates with most people. The lyrics also point to the fact that while we might be trying to move on, we might still end up feeling the sting of the breakup from time to time. The question “When they ask about you,” is haunting, and we can feel the singer's pain in every line of the song.


Line by Line Meaning

When I go for a walk
When I take a stroll outdoors


And meet old friends we knew,
And come across old acquaintances


We sit around and talk,
We chat for a while


Then they ask about you,
And then they inquire about you


What's the good if I say
What good would it do if I were to say


That you and I are through,
That our relationship is over


I tell them you're okay
I inform them that you're fine


When they ask about you.
When they ask how you're doing.


They wonder where we've been
They're curious about where we've been


And why we never call,
And why we don't keep in touch


I take it on the chin
I take the hurtful comments and questions with grace


Until the teardrops fall,
Until I can no longer hold back my tears


They don't mean to be smart
They don't intend to be clever or sassy


But if they only knew,
But they're unaware of what really happened


They're stepping on my heart
Their inquiries about you are causing me pain


When they ask about you
When they ask about you




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SAM STEPT

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