You Made Your Bed
Joan Armatrading Lyrics


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I say black
You say white
You do anything to be the one that's right
Go to extremes
Got to win
Still you're not happy
Just see the state you're in
You're never satisfied are you baby
Tell me what is driving you crazy
You're feeling something's wrong and you blame me
Well I just wanna say
It's your stupid mistake

I don't regret the time that we shared
But I do resent the martyr you play though
I'm the one who suffers more than my share of
All the hurt in this game
This mixed up game

Now you made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
All of the great little pleasures that you bring
Get canceled out by the weird things you do

Not Lucifer
Not the Trinity
No one on earth can make you feel at ease
It serves me right
Cos I left you once
I broke my own rule
Because I wanted to please

But you're never satisfied are you baby




Tell me what is driving you crazy
You're feeling something strong and you blame me
Well I just wanna say
It's your stupid mistake

Now you made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
All of the great little pleasures that you bring
Get canceled out by the weird things you do
You made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
All of the great little pleasures that you bring
Get canceled out by the weird things you do
Get canceled out by the weird things

I say black
You say white
You do anything to be the one that's right
But you're never satisfied
I said you're never satisfied
Something is always driving you crazy
Something is driving you crazy

You made your bed you can lie on it
You made your bed you can lie on it
You made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
You made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
All of the great little pleasures that you bring
Get canceled out by the weird things you do

You made your bed you can lie on it baby
I won't be there next to you
All of the great little pleasures that you bring
Get canceled out by the weird things you do

Overall Meaning

Joan Armatrading's "You Made Your Bed" is a song that delves into the intricacies of relationships and the complexities of human behavior. The lyrics speak to the notion that even in the face of love, conflicts can arise between two people. The song tells the story of one person who is eager to be right in every situation, desperate to go to extreme measures just to prove their point. The other person can see that this behavior is not making them happy, and tries to address it. However, the person who is causing the problems refuses to take responsibility, instead blaming their partner.


The phrase "You made your bed and now you can lie in it" has a negative connotation, and serves as a warning that the consequences of one's actions will come back to haunt them. In this context, it seems like the person who is causing problems in the relationship is being told that they must deal with the repercussions of their actions. Additionally, the line "All of the great little pleasures that you bring get canceled out by the weird things you do" highlights the idea that actions have consequences, and that even the good things in a relationship can be overshadowed by negative behaviors. Overall, the song is a heartbreaking depiction of two people who are at a crossroads in their relationship, and how one person's behavior has led to the breakdown of what was once a beautiful connection.


Line by Line Meaning

I say black
I express an opinion.


You say white
You express an opposing opinion.


You do anything to be the one that's right
You go to extreme lengths to prove yourself correct or superior.


Go to extremes
You take extreme measures to achieve your goals.


Got to win
You prioritize winning above all else.


Still you're not happy
Despite your efforts, you remain unsatisfied or unfulfilled.


Just see the state you're in
Your current state is evidence of the consequences of your actions or decisions.


You're never satisfied are you baby
You are consistently dissatisfied or discontent with your life or circumstances.


Tell me what is driving you crazy
Explain the source of your unhappiness or agitation.


You're feeling something's wrong and you blame me
You believe that I am responsible for your negative emotions or unfulfillment.


Well I just wanna say
I would like to state my opinion or point of view.


It's your stupid mistake
The discomfort or dissatisfaction you are experiencing is a result of your own poor decisions or actions.


I don't regret the time that we shared
I do not feel remorseful about our past experiences together.


But I do resent the martyr you play though
I feel hostility or bitterness towards your tendency to act like a martyr or victim.


I'm the one who suffers more than my share of
I experience more pain or discomfort than is fair or reasonable in our relationship.


All the hurt in this game
The emotional pain or distress that is present in our relationship.


This mixed up game
The confusing or chaotic nature of our relationship.


Now you made your bed you can lie on it baby
You are responsible for the consequences of your own actions or decisions.


I won't be there next to you
I will not support or enable your self-destructive behavior.


All of the great little pleasures that you bring
The positive aspects of our relationship or your personality.


Get canceled out by the weird things you do
Your strange or negative behavior negates the positive aspects of our relationship or your personality.


Not Lucifer
Not the devil or Satan.


Not the Trinity
Not a religious doctrine or belief involving three divine entities or aspects.


No one on earth can make you feel at ease
No one can alleviate your underlying sense of discontent or dissatisfaction.


It serves me right
I deserve to experience negative consequences or discomfort due to my own past actions or decisions.


Cos I left you once
Because I ended our relationship or abandoned you in the past.


I broke my own rule
I acted against my own standards or beliefs.


Because I wanted to please
I made a decision based on a desire to make someone else happy or satisfied.


Something is always driving you crazy
You consistently experience negative emotions or agitation due to an underlying cause.




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