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Joan Jett and the Blackhearts Lyrics


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Before I was in a rock n' roll band
I couldn't get the time at day
Now I'm doin' everything I can
I thought I had it made

Strangers drop in and pretend they're friends
People I don't even know
I want you, I need you, it's so hard to tell
What you're really feelin' won't show

Don't abuse me
Now you listen to what I say
If you're tryin' to use me
Why don't you just go away?

You took me around and you showed me the town
I thought you were kind of nice
But if someone stepped in with more to show
You'd drop me without thinkin' twice

You tie yourself to my apron strings
Thinkin' your friends will be impressed
You get your way by bribin' me
Tellin' me I'm the best

Don't abuse me
Now you listen to what I say
If you're tryin' to use me
Why don't you just go away?

Who can I trust and where can I go
To find someone who truly wants me?
Take me for what I am
That's the way it's gotta be

Rock n' roll love, you want so bad
Tellin' everybody you're mine
We both know deep down inside
You're just diggin' for every dime

Don't abuse me
Now you listen to what I say
If you're tryin' to use me
Why don't you just go away?

Don't abuse me
Now you listen to what I say




If you're tryin' to use me
Why don't you just go away?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Joan Jett's song 'Don't Abuse Me' delve into the complexities of being in the limelight and the alienation that can come with fame. The opening lines refer to her early struggles to gain recognition, where she was overlooked and ignored, however, now that she has achieved success, people she doesn't even know pretend to be her friend just to bask in her fame. This puts her in a difficult position where she questions the motives of the people around her and wonders if they genuinely care or if they are simply using her for their own benefit.


Jett then reflects on a person who took her around and showed her the town, who she thought was nice, but the minute someone else with more to offer came into the picture, they were dropped. This person tries to tie themselves to her, thinking they will gain status with her fame, and bribes her by telling her she's the best to get their way. The chorus of the song warns them not to abuse her, and if they are trying to use her or her fame, they should go away.


The song captures the potential for people around a famous person to exploit them, and highlights the need for trust and true connections, rather than surface-level relationships. Jett wants to be taken for who she is, without being reduced to a mere commodity to be used or exploited.


Line by Line Meaning

Before I was in a rock n' roll band
I wasn't popular or cool before I joined this band


I couldn't get the time at day
No one paid attention to me or respected me before


Now I'm doin' everything I can
I'm working hard to keep this newfound fame and status


I thought I had it made
I thought getting popular would solve everything, but now people are using me


Strangers drop in and pretend they're friends
People I don't know act like they're close to me for selfish reasons


People I don't even know
These people aren't even acquaintances, they're complete strangers


I want you, I need you, it's so hard to tell
I'm not sure if people genuinely like me or are just using me for my fame


What you're really feelin' won't show
People are hiding their true intentions from me and I can't trust anyone


Don't abuse me
Don't take advantage of me or use me for your own benefit


Now you listen to what I say
I won't stand for being used and need to be heard


If you're tryin' to use me
If you're only interested in me for what I can do for you


Why don't you just go away?
I don't want anything to do with people who only want to exploit me


You took me around and you showed me the town
You acted nice and friendly to me, making me believe we were genuine friends


I thought you were kind of nice
I trusted you and thought highly of you


But if someone stepped in with more to show
If someone cooler or more popular than me came along


You'd drop me without thinkin' twice
You would abandon our friendship without hesitation


You tie yourself to my apron strings
You cling to me and try to be associated with me for your own benefit


Thinkin' your friends will be impressed
You believe that being close to me will enhance your social status


You get your way by bribin' me
You use flattery and fake friendship to manipulate me


Tellin' me I'm the best
You shower me with compliments to get on my good side


Who can I trust and where can I go
I feel lost and alone, unsure who to confide in or who to trust


To find someone who truly wants me?
I want genuine, sincere relationships instead of people using me


Take me for what I am
Accept me unconditionally, without expecting anything in return


That's the way it's gotta be
I won't stand for being exploited or taken advantage of


Rock n' roll love, you want so bad
People are attracted to the glamour and excitement of rock and roll culture


Tellin' everybody you're mine
People brag about being associated with me to enhance their social status


We both know deep down inside
We both know the truth, that they're only interested in me for what I can do for them


You're just diggin' for every dime
You're trying to profit off of me and get as much out of the relationship as possible




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: JOAN JETT

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Mayakyen 369

✊🏽✊🏻✊🏿✊🏼✊🏾
PLAY THIS SONG LOUD WHEN U FEEL LIKE GIVING UP ON EVERYTHING.

ESPECIALLY IN THESE TRYING TIMES.

WHEN TYRANNY IS FORCED UPON U, REMEMBER DONT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER! SAY NO AND MEAN IT!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY IN NEWS MEDIA!!!

DONT SURRENDER YOUR HUMANITY.
Love to All!



Siddhant Gedam

I can see the sadness in your eyes
Hard knocks and hurt are hard to hide
It can be a long and lonely ride
But it makes you strong inside

When you're down and out the streets get rough
You need love but ya just don't enough
And ya feel like no one's on your side

When you wanna throw it all away and you've had it

Don't surrender, don't surrender
Cause the fight inside your hearts
Your best defender, don't surrender

You try so hard but you feel just like a clown
And there ain't enough luck to go around
All your dreams they crash right to the ground
You wanna get right outta town

You can say "What the hell I've given up lay down to die" but it's just a bluff
Cause ya know there's no place left to hide

Sometimes life seems like a war and you're surrounded

Don't surrender, don't surrender
Cause the fight inside your hearts
Your best defender, don't surrender
Don't give up when you know you right
When you're feelin all alone just remember
Don't surrender

Yeah

When you wanna throw it all away and you've had it

Don't surrender
Don't surrender

Cause the fight inside your hearts
Your best defender, don't surrender
Don't give up when you know you right
When you're feelin all alone just remember
Don't surrender
Don't surrender
Don't surrender
Don't surrender
Don't surrender



All comments from YouTube:

Andrew Walsh

She has so many wonderful songs, many of which she wrote or co-wrote. She is a real talent!

Eli Tagarelli

Escucho está canción cada vez que estoy triste. Y puedo jurar que siempre me salva de cometer una estupidez, como autolesionarme, y agradezco que existe gente como Joan.
La conozco aproximadamente hace un año, pero me salvó de muchas.
Cada vez que mis papás pelean o tengo un ataque de ira escucho la música de todos ellos y me siento realmente mejor. En serio mucho
Y se que para ella seré una simple fanática, pero ella por siempre y para siempre va a ser mi casita <3 te amo

Ben Blackwell

I will always love this woman's music!!!!

alonenjersey

What's not to love?

rosenovarocks

Because of you Joan, I’m not gonna surrender. Thanks for being my idol, hero, inspiration, and role model ❤️

Donald Murphy

Never surrender.
Ever.
Not EVER.
DRAG THEM TO HELL AND PUNISH THEM ALL THE WAY.

Alexander Thüringer

Great Song. Thank's for this. I love you Joan. You're the best.

raven king

how the hell did this comment get 137 likes..I dont get it

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Ronnie Ratliff

Still beautiful and making great music. Joan is the real Queen of Rock!

Mayakyen 369

✊🏽✊🏻✊🏿✊🏼✊🏾
PLAY THIS SONG LOUD WHEN U FEEL LIKE GIVING UP ON EVERYTHING.

ESPECIALLY IN THESE TRYING TIMES.

WHEN TYRANNY IS FORCED UPON U, REMEMBER DONT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER! SAY NO AND MEAN IT!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY IN NEWS MEDIA!!!

DONT SURRENDER YOUR HUMANITY.
Love to All!

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