Why Can't We Be Happy
Joan Jett and the Blackhearts Lyrics


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I didn't mean to lose control and take it out on you
But there are things
I can't explain
Like havin' dreams come true
While all the world
Is sad and cold
Look at me and you
We have so much
Why don't I feel happy, baby?
I love you so much
Why can't we be happy?


Every time we have a fight
It hurts me through and through
And all at once I'm so unsure
What I'm supposed to do
Even so I always know I'll spend my life with you

We have so much
Why don't I feel happy, baby?
I love you so much
Why can't we be happy?

No one can satisfy
The needs in me but you
I try to speak my mind to you
But you don't hear me

I gotta get off by myself
An' have a drink or two
'cause lately I been so uptight from
What we're goin' through
To live without you
Would hurt no doubt
I never wanted to

We have so much
Why don't I feel happy, baby?




I love you so much
Why can't we be happy?

Overall Meaning

The song "Can't Control Myself" by Joan Jett and the Blackhearts is a raw and emotional love song that explores the complexity of relationships. The opening lines set the tone for the rest of the song, as Jett sings about losing control and taking her emotions out on her partner. She acknowledges that there are things she can't explain, like having dreams come true while the rest of the world is sad and cold.


The chorus is a plea for happiness, despite the fact that Jett and her partner have so much love for each other. She questions why she can't feel happy and wonders what they can do to change their current situation. The verses continue to explore the ups and downs of their relationship, with Jett admitting that every time they have a fight, it hurts her deeply, but she knows she wants to spend her life with this person.


The bridge of the song is particularly powerful, as Jett sings about her difficulty in communicating her needs to her partner. She feels like only they can satisfy the needs she has, but she struggles to get through to them. She admits that she often needs to take some space and have a drink to relieve the tension in their relationship.


Overall, "Can't Control Myself" is a vulnerable and honest look at the complexities of love and relationships. It shows that even when two people love each other deeply, it's not always easy to make it work.


Line by Line Meaning

I didn't mean to lose control and take it out on you
I'm sorry I got angry and upset with you, I didn't mean to take it out on you.


But there are things I can't explain
There are certain things that I can't put into words or describe adequately.


Like havin' dreams come true
One of those things I can't explain is how amazing it feels to have my dreams come true.


While all the world is sad and cold
Even though the world can be a hard and depressing place sometimes.


Look at me and you
But when I look at you and me together, I know we have something special.


We have so much
We have each other, love, and many good things in our lives.


Why don't I feel happy, baby?
But even with all we have, I can't help feeling unhappy sometimes.


I love you so much
I want you to know that my love for you is real and deep.


Why can't we be happy?
I wonder why we can't be happy all the time, despite all the good things in our lives.


Every time we have a fight
When we argue and fight with each other.


It hurts me through and through
It pains me deeply and affects me in many ways.


And all at once I'm so unsure
At times like these, I feel lost and uncertain.


What I'm supposed to do
I don't know what I should do to make things right.


Even so I always know I'll spend my life with you
But no matter what happens, I still believe that we're meant to be together forever.


No one can satisfy
There's no one else who can fill the needs I have.


The needs in me but you
Only you can satisfy those needs.


I try to speak my mind to you
I attempt to express my thoughts and feelings to you.


But you don't hear me
But I feel like you're not really listening to me.


I gotta get off by myself
Sometimes I need to be alone for a while.


An' have a drink or two
To calm my nerves and relax a little.


'cause lately I been so uptight from what we're goin' through
Because lately, I've been feeling stressed and anxious about what we're dealing with.


To live without you would hurt no doubt
I know that life without you would be painful and difficult for me.


I never wanted to
I've never even considered living without you.


We have so much
Again, we have a lot of good things in our lives.


Why don't I feel happy, baby?
But again, despite all that, I still can't shake this feeling of unhappiness.


I love you so much
And again, I want you to know that I do love you deeply and truly.


Why can't we be happy?
I just wish that we could be happy all the time.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: JOAN JETT, KENNETH BENJAMIN LAGUNA

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