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Joan Jett and the Blackhearts Lyrics


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You don't own me
I'm not just one of your many toys,
You don't own me
Don't say I can't go with other boys

And don't tell me what to do,
And don't tell me what to say,
And please when I go out with you,
Don't put me on display,

You don't own me ,
Don't try to change me in any way,
You don't own me,
Don't tie me down cause I'll never stay,

I don't tell you what to say,
I don't tell you what to do,
So just let me be myself,
That's all I ask of you,

[Repeat: x2]
I'm young and I love to be young,
I'm free and I love to be free,
To live my life the way I want,
To say and do whatever I please.

[Repeat: x2]




No no, you don't own me...you don't own me, you don't own me
We're young and we love to be young, you dont own me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "You Don't Own Me" by Joan Jett and the Blackhearts are about a woman who is fed up with being controlled by her partner. She asserts her independence and refuses to be treated like a possession, making it clear that she won't tolerate being told what to do or who she can spend time with. She wants to be able to make her own choices and live her life the way she wants.


The song is truly empowering for anyone who has ever felt suffocated or suppressed in a relationship. It is a powerful message of self-determination and self-worth, encouraging individuals to stand up for themselves and their right to make their own decisions.


In addition to its empowering message, "You Don't Own Me" has become an iconic feminist anthem over the years. The song has been covered by various artists, including Lesley Gore, who originally recorded the song in 1963, and Grace featuring G-Eazy, whose cover was featured in a 2015 advertisement for a women's clothing line.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't own me
I refuse to be your possession


I'm not just one of your many toys,
I am not an object for you to play with and discard


Don't say I can't go with other boys
I am not limited by your rules or beliefs


And don't tell me what to do,
I am capable of making my own decisions


And don't tell me what to say,
I have the power to express myself


And please when I go out with you,
I expect you to treat me with respect and equality


Don't put me on display,
I am not an object for you to flaunt or showcase


Don't try to change me in any way,
I am an individual with my own beliefs and values


Don't tie me down cause I'll never stay,
I value my freedom and will not be held captive


So just let me be myself,
I am unique and deserve to be allowed to express that


That's all I ask of you,
To respect and accept me for who I am


I'm young and I love to be young,
I am still growing and changing, and that excites me


I'm free and I love to be free,
I thrive on not being limited or restricted


To live my life the way I want,
I have the right to live my life as I see fit


To say and do whatever I please.
I will not be silenced or told what to do by anyone else


No no, you don't own me...you don't own me, you don't own me
I am my own person and will not be controlled


We're young and we love to be young, you dont own me
We are a collective group of individuals who do not want to be owned or oppressed




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: David White, John Madara

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Mister Itchy

I have never heard a bad version of this song and this is no exception. Joan Jett rocks!

Serena Y M

@user-qx7hb9fl2x Klaus Nomi's version is quite good too.

Dianne Carpenter

Thank you, Joan Jett for all your music.
Cool, hot and spot-on rockin’
You rock !!
🎤🎸🎵🥁
Life is better with music.

Carol Jones

Absolutley awesome. I love her voice!!! 💞🌹💞🎶🎶🎶🎶

Roderick Ray Rutledge

Lesie Gore was an angel for women's rights. 🙏♥️. Thank you Joan for doing this song so well.

taija saksa

fan since 1982.. i love joan jetts voice

Tanja

🎸 The best of our generation....Kids today don't~ won't understand 🎸 JOAN JETT IS THE BOSS LADY 🎸

Jordan Fehr

I'm 21 and I thought that that was obvious to anyone

Just Kendry

I'm 15 and I just started to love Joan 🔥

Tami Noll

"Kids today" is such a dated term. "Kids today" are open to so many music genres. I was 15 when I got into her music. That was 2008. I was "Kids today" when I learned to appreciate her and also the runaways.

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