I'd Rather Have a Love
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Do you mind if I talk to you for a minute?
You see these fellows out here?
See, they're afraid of doing that long term thing
They figure as soon as they lock hearts with another
Something better is gonna come along
Well, that's quite possibly true
But the deal is, you're gonna have to find yourself a love
Or you're gonna find yourself alone

See I'm schooled in them streets and streets y'all
Yeah I was cooling them clubs
Real talk I wasn't thinking nothing 'bout love
See I didn't want nobody tryin' to partake in my stuff
I thought an occasional one night stand would be enough
Oh but one day I, I met this girl and she ruined my philosophy
It caught me by surprise
And now my heart skips a beat when she comes around
I never thought that I'd be ready to settle down
See I was about to find myself alone
But I found myself a love

It's gonna take a minute to evolve
But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all
I'm ready for a love of my own yeah
Can't stay in this place forever
Even though I want to, I just see us together
And I'd rather have a love, than live a life alone

See, I was raised by a good one
Momma told me what a real man should be
She said son pick one, and treat her like me
But I took all of her wisdom, and used it for selfish gains
And I know if she saw this pimpin', she's be ashamed
But now I found her
I found this girl and I see things differently
It caught me by surprise
It's like I got two left feet when she comes around
I never thought that I'd be ready to settle down
See I was about to find myself alone
But I found myself a love

It's gonna take a minute to evolve
But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all
I'm ready for a love of my own yeah
Can't stay in this place forever
Even though I want to, I just see us together
And I'd rather have a love, than live a life alone

On the one hand I could chose to be the guy that only chases frivolous pleasure
But on the other hand, need to build a dream with true love and affection
I know it's going to be quite a challenge
I know it's gonna take some time
But I'm here and I'm ready to change
Cause I know I've found myself a love

It's gonna take a minute to evolve
But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all
I'm ready for a love of my own yeah
Can't stay in this place forever
Even though I want to, I just see us together
And I'd rather have a love, than have a life alone

Said it's gonna take a minute to evolve




But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all
I'm ready for a love of my own

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to the song "I'd Rather Have a Love" by Joe, tell the story of a man who wasn't interested in love, he was only looking for a good time. However, he eventually met a woman who changed his way of thinking completely. The song begins with Joe talking about how many men are afraid of getting into long term relationships. He mentions that although it's possible for someone better to come along when in a relationship, it's important to find love because otherwise, one will find themselves alone.


Joe then talks about himself, how he was a player only interested in one night stands until he met the woman who changed everything. She ruined his philosophy on love and made him see things differently. He never thought he would settle down, but now he can't imagine himself without her. He recognizes that finding true love takes time, but it's better to have that than nothing at all. The final verse of the song acknowledges that building a true love and affection requires effort and time, but he knows he's ready to make that change because he's found himself a love.


Overall, the song conveys the message that love is worth pursuing even if it takes time and effort. One should not settle for a life alone just because they are afraid of the challenges that come with building a relationship. It is better to try and fail than to not try at all.


Line by Line Meaning

Do you mind if I talk to you for a minute?
Can I speak with you briefly?


You see these fellows out here?
Do you notice these men around us?


See, they're afraid of doing that long term thing
They are scared of committing to a long-lasting relationship


They figure as soon as they lock hearts with another Something better is gonna come along Well, that's quite possibly true
They believe that as soon as they commit, something better will come along, which is a possibility.


But the deal is, you're gonna have to find yourself a love Or you're gonna find yourself alone
However, the reality is that you need to find true love or you'll end up alone.


See I'm schooled in them streets and streets y'all Yeah I was cooling them clubs Real talk I wasn't thinking nothing 'bout love See I didn't want nobody tryin' to partake in my stuff I thought an occasional one night stand would be enough Oh but one day I, I met this girl and she ruined my philosophy It caught me by surprise And now my heart skips a beat when she comes around I never thought that I'd be ready to settle down See I was about to find myself alone But I found myself a love
I used to spend time in the streets and clubs, not thinking about love. I didn't want anyone to get too close to me. However, I met a girl who changed my perspective on love. I was caught off guard, and now I feel something for her. I never thought I could settle down, but she saved me from a life of loneliness.


It's gonna take a minute to evolve But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all I'm ready for a love of my own yeah Can't stay in this place forever Even though I want to, I just see us together And I'd rather have a love, than live a life alone
It will take time for the relationship to develop, but I'd rather have love than nothing. I'm prepared to find someone to love, and although it's tempting to stay where I am, I know I want to be with her. I'd rather have love than a lonely life.


See, I was raised by a good one Momma told me what a real man should be She said son pick one, and treat her like me But I took all of her wisdom, and used it for selfish gains And I know if she saw this pimpin', she's be ashamed But now I found her I found this girl and I see things differently It caught me by surprise It's like I got two left feet when she comes around I never thought that I'd be ready to settle down See I was about to find myself alone But I found myself a love
My mother taught me how to be a real man and love a woman like she deserves. I previously used this knowledge for selfish gains, which would shame her if she witnessed it. But now, I've found a girl who has changed my outlook. She's caught me off guard, and I'm willing to settle down with her. I could've wound up alone, but I found love.


On the one hand I could chose to be the guy that only chases frivolous pleasure But on the other hand, need to build a dream with true love and affection I know it's going to be quite a challenge I know it's gonna take some time But I'm here and I'm ready to change Cause I know I've found myself a love
I could choose to be the person who only seeks meaningless pleasure, but I want to create a dream with love and care. It's going to be tough, but I'm willing to take on the challenge. It will take a while to get there, but I'm prepared to change because I found someone to love.


Said it's gonna take a minute to evolve But I'd rather have a love than nothing at all I'm ready for a love of my own
It'll take some time for the relationship to form, but I choose love over nothing. I'm ready for a relationship of my own.




Lyrics © CAPITOL CHRISTIAN MUSIC GROUP, Universal Music Publishing Group, Capitol CMG Publishing
Written by: ALVIN JEROME GARRETT, DEREK LOUIS ALLEN, GERALD ISAAC

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