That's The Way Her Love Is
Joe Cocker Lyrics


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If you're traveling in the north country fair
Where the winds hit heavy on the borderline
Remember me to one who lives there
She once was the true love of mine.

If you go when the snowflakes storm
When the rivers freeze and summer ends
Please see if she's a coat so warm
To keep her from the howlin' winds.

Please see if her hair hangs long
If it rolls and flows all down her breast
Please see from me if her hair hangs long
That's the way I remember her best.

I'm a-wonderin' if she remember me at all
Many times I've often prayed
In the darkness of my night
In the brightness of my day.

So if you're travelin' in the north country fair
Where the winds hit heavy on the borderline




Remember me to one who lives there
She once was a true love of mine.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Joe Cocker's song That's The Way Her Love Is tell a bittersweet tale of someone who is asking a friend to pass a message on to a former lover, who they still think of fondly. The song is a wistful and melancholy meditation on lost love, but also a celebration of the power of memories and the way that they can help us to hold on to our connections with people who are no longer in our lives.


The song is set in the "north country fair", a region where the winds are heavy and the weather is extreme. This is a metaphor for the emotional landscape that the singer is navigating, as he tries to come to terms with the loss of his former love. He asks his friend to remember him to the woman who lives there, who once was the "true love of mine".


The second verse of the song speaks of the harshness of winter, and the importance of staying warm in the face of the cold. This is another metaphor for the difficulties of life, and the way that we can find support in the love and affection of those who care for us. The final verse of the song sees the singer wondering if his former lover remembers him at all. He confesses that he has often prayed for her, both in the darkness of the night and the brightness of the day. Despite the pain of their separation, he remains hopeful that the connection they once shared will never truly be lost.


Line by Line Meaning

If you're traveling in the north country fair
If you happen to find yourself journeying up north


Where the winds hit heavy on the borderline
Where a gusty breeze blows on the border


Remember me to one who lives there
Say hello to someone living in the area for me


She once was the true love of mine.
She was someone I used to love deeply


If you go when the snowflakes storm
If you happen to visit during a snowstorm


When the rivers freeze and summer ends
When the rivers turn icy and the warm season concludes


Please see if she's a coat so warm
Please check if she's wearing a sufficiently warm coat


To keep her from the howlin' winds.
To protect her from the strong, blustery winds


Please see if her hair hangs long
Please observe if she has long hair hanging down


If it rolls and flows all down her breast
If it cascades down her chest in loose waves


Please see from me if her hair hangs long
Please convey to her that I fondly recall her long hair


That's the way I remember her best.
That's the way I cherish her memory the most


I'm a-wonderin' if she remember me at all
I often wonder if she still recalls my existence


Many times I've often prayed
I've prayed several times


In the darkness of my night
During dark nights when I'm lonely


In the brightness of my day.
And during my daytime activities


So if you're travelin' in the north country fair
So, if you're visiting the northern plains


Where the winds hit heavy on the borderline
Where a strong breeze blows on the outskirts


Remember me to one who lives there
Remember to convey my greetings to a resident


She once was a true love of mine.
She was once someone I loved deeply




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Comments from YouTube:

Saimon2JZ

Thanks for uploading this song. Lyrics: Don‘t know why my baby she loves me like she do Guess she‘s just funny that way She don‘t worry ‘bout this little town or what some folks might say That‘s the way her love is A way her love is I can‘t imagine all my life without her There‘d be no sunshine to see Cause she wakes me with a smile Each and every day

Saimon2JZ

That‘s just the way her love is A way her love is Don‘t know what she ever sees in me I don‘t know why the little girl stays That‘s just the way her love is The way her love is That‘s just the way her love is That‘s just the way her love is

Christodoulas

Composer, lyricist: Stephen Allen Davis

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