Dear Mom
Joe Jackson Lyrics


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Dear Mom, I thought I found my sister
Downtown, less than a week ago
I called in, and some guy said I just missed her
She moved on, where do you think she'd go?

Dear Mom, I know she's only sixteen
She's tough, but these days you never know
Someone, saw her at the El Mocambo
He said, she put on quite a show

What if she won't come home
You know she don't want your money
What if she won't come home

Dear Mom, I saw her on the subway
She looks good, she got a new tattoo
She swears, she's gonna call me later
I'd say, there's nothing we can do

What if she won't come home
You know she don't want your money
What if she won't come home

Dear Mom, I heard from my little sister
Guess what, she's really doing well
She told me, to give you a message for her
"Dear Mom, why don't you go to hell"

Now that she won't come home
Maybe I'll stick around here
Now that she won't come home

Now that she won't come home




Maybe I'll stay forever
Now that she won't come home

Overall Meaning

The song "Dear Mom" by Joe Jackson tells the story of a family searching for their missing sister/daughter. The song is written in the form of letters to the main character's mother detailing his search. The singer starts by saying he thought he found his sister downtown, but she has since moved on, and he doesn't know where she could be. He then goes on to relay a message he heard from someone who saw her perform at the El Mocambo in Toronto, implying that she may be working as a dancer or performer.


The singer then reveals that he saw his sister on the subway, and she seems to be doing well. However, he doesn't have any information on where she is living or what she's doing. The final letter reveals that the singer's little sister is doing well, but she relays a message to the mother from the missing sister, "Dear Mom, why don't you go to hell." The song concludes with the singer realizing that his sister may never come back and deciding to stick around until she returns.


Jackson's lyrics in this song are powerful and emotional. The song addresses themes of family, love, loss, and abandonment. The singer's emotions and struggles are palpable through the imagery of the letters he writes to his mom. The uncertainty of the situation is further emphasized by the singer's repeated refrain of "What if she won't come home?" The song ultimately leaves the listener with the sense that the family will never fully recover from this loss.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear Mom, I thought I found my sister
I had a strong belief that I found my sister


Downtown, less than a week ago
It happened in the downtown area not more than a week ago


I called in, and some guy said I just missed her
I called up the place and someone informed me that she had just left


She moved on, where do you think she'd go?
She left that place and I don't know where she might have gone


Dear Mom, I know she's only sixteen
I'm aware that she's only sixteen years old


She's tough, but these days you never know
She's a strong person, but these days anything can happen


Someone, saw her at the El Mocambo
Someone else saw her at the El Mocambo


He said, she put on quite a show
According to him, she put on quite a performance


What if she won't come home
What if she doesn't want to come back


You know she don't want your money
You know that offering her money won't work


Dear Mom, I saw her on the subway
I saw her travelling on the subway


She looks good, she got a new tattoo
She looks good and has got herself a new tattoo


She swears, she's gonna call me later
She promises to call me later


I'd say, there's nothing we can do
In my opinion, we can't do anything


Dear Mom, I heard from my little sister
I received a message from my younger sister


Guess what, she's really doing well
Surprisingly, she's doing really well


She told me, to give you a message for her
She asked me to tell you something on her behalf


"Dear Mom, why don't you go to hell"
"Dear Mom, I'm really angry with you and want you to go to hell"


Now that she won't come home
Since she's not returning home


Maybe I'll stick around here
Perhaps I'll continue to stay here


Now that she won't come home
Since she's not coming home anymore


Maybe I'll stay forever
Perhaps I'll stay here forever now




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JACKSON

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Comments from YouTube:

@devingademan

This album is sooo damn beautiful! Love the cover too! <3

@LordGreystoke

Really like this tune. It was a worthy successor to Night and Day I. Sorry it never got more promotion by radio. A very high quality commercial sounding album by Joe.

@littlewing6231

Heartbreaking and liberating all at the same time. Joe is an excellent arranger and not just a great lyricist.

@lucabalbi3928

Questo disco è straordinario, uno dei più belli del Maestro

@josbaris7143

Mooi👍

@lucabalbi3928

Criptico, destabilizzante, minimale, ondivago, spiazzante. Fantastico